The female doctor continued to comment on Xiaobai's painting: "There are scars on the tree, which symbolizes the psychological trauma during her growth."
The female doctor didn't know what it was because she knew nothing about Xiaobai's growth experience.
But when she talked about this, Zhang Tan thought something and should have targeted it.
The female doctor continued to interpret: "Looking at the characters painted by Xiaobai, they are also stickmans, but unlike Xier, the proportions of the characters are relatively coordinated, and they do not have a big head and a small body. But have you noticed it? The fingers of these characters are very sharp. Does this symbolize that Xiaobai has a strong defensiveness and a strong sense of self-protection, which further shows that she is weak and sensitive deep in her heart. She is a child who lacks a sense of security..."
Tan Jin'er listened carefully and looked at Zhang Tan. Of course she knew what Xiaobai had experienced.
But Xiaobai's experience was too tragic, she couldn't say it, and she shouldn't say it.
Whether to tell the psychologist and whether to reopen the trauma in Xiaobai's heart to "treat" it, Zhang Tan needs to decide.
Moreover, who knows if this treatment is secondary damage?
After all, even if Tan Jiner thinks about what Xiaobai has experienced, she will get goosebumps when she thinks about it now.
Zhang Tan remained silent and said nothing. He just listened to the female doctor's story patiently, and then thanked her and said nothing else.
The female doctor naturally understood. Zhang Tan said nothing, which was showing his attitude. Naturally, she would not say much. She just reminded him to tell the other party what she knew.
Then, the female doctor printed a copy of information to Tan Jin'er and told her how to treat psychological trauma to Xier in her daily life.
Tan Jin'er listened patiently and asked if she didn't understand.
According to the treatment plan provided by the doctor, they will first undergo psychotherapy today, and then continue in their daily life in the future.
"Then will start now?" Tan Jin'er asked.
The female doctor said: "Yes, after having such a long time of contact, Xier should have put some warning against me. It is best to do it while it is hot, otherwise I may need to communicate with Xier again next time."
Tan Jin'er said decisively: "Then let's do it now, please trouble you."
"No trouble, I'll prepare and come over to call Xier later."
The female doctor got up and left, and Zhang Tan asked Tan Jiner what kind of treatment she was going to do.
Tan Jin'er handed him the information: "It is a treatment method recorded above called the empty chair technology."
Zhang Tan read the materials curiously, and saw that it read "Empty chair technology is a professional operating guide for simulating children's dialogue with their deceased parents. The purpose is to deal with sadness and repair trauma..."
At this time, the three children who were originally watching the cartoon suddenly stood up and left. Tan Jin'er asked, "What are you doing?"
Xier replied that she was going to the toilet.
"Then go and go back quickly." Tan Jin'er reminded.
When girls go to the bathroom, they always like to call their friends and go together.
When the three children came back, the psychologist was ready and could start at any time.
Tan Jin'er greeted Xier, whispered to her, and then took her away with the psychologist.
"What are you going to do with the wedding doll?" Xiaobai asked after coming over.
Xiao Xiaobai was holding a bottle of bear drink next to the sofa station, watching cartoons, but at this moment he also looked here.
Xierhiahia smiled: "I'll go chat with the doctor, Xiaobai, wait for me to come back."
Zhang Tan also said, "Xiaobai, don't follow me. You can just watch TV with Xiaobai here. Xier will be back later."
"……All right."
Xiaobai hesitated for a moment and chose to believe what her old man and sister Jin'er said, but she always felt that the Xidoll was deceived. She often had this feeling. Anyone who did not participate, she felt that the Xidoll was deceived.
Zhang Tan glanced at a little bitch in the corner of his eyes and walked over quietly. He looked closely and saw who it was not Xiao Xiaobai.
"Little Xiaobai!"
This little guy was watching TV intently just now, but suddenly he sneaked away. He was so annoying.
Zhang Tan went over and caught Xiao Xiaobai back, and asked her to watch cartoons with her aunt here, and said, "Don't drink anymore. Which bottle did you drink today? Do you want to wet the bed at night?"
Xiaoxiaobai hiahia smiled: "I haven't wet the bed for a long time."
"Then we need to continue to maintain it." Zhang Tan said.
Xiao Xiaobai promised to never wet the bed.
On the other hand, Tan Jin'er sent Xi'er to the room, told Xi'er a few words before leaving.
She sat down in the conference room next door, where there was also a computer, connected to the camera next to her, and could see the movements in the house throughout the whole process.
She will listen to Xier’s conversation with the psychologist here and watch the entire conversation.
Xier looked around and looked at the room. The light was dim and the curtains were tightly drawn, but the floor-to-ceiling table lights were on in the corner of the room, making the overall environment look warm and safe.
Two empty chairs were placed diagonally, one was sitting with Xier and the other was empty, and the psychologist sat opposite them.
Xier smiled at the other party, her feet were closed together, and she swayed in the air: "We want to chat again?"
The psychologist smiled and said, "Yes, let's have a good chat this time and talk about some thoughts."
Xier nodded and said, "If you want to talk, just ask what you want."
The psychologist felt that Xier should be the most accessible child she has ever treated. It would be difficult for other children to gain the general trust of the other party just, let alone to find ways to make the other party say what they say in their hearts, which would require a lot of work.
The psychologist did not rush to ask questions, but asked Xier if she thought the room was too dark, if she should turn on the lights or open the curtains.
This quiet atmosphere can make children feel safe, but opening the curtains to let the sun shine on the room is another environment and can also make children feel safe.
Varies from person to person.
Xier shook her head and said that this would be great. She pointed to the empty chair beside her and asked, "Why is there no one sitting here?"
The psychologist slowed down his speech and said softly: "Who do you want to sit here? Don't rush to answer first. You can close your eyes and think about it first. Now we have to listen to the most real thoughts deep in our hearts. That voice will tell you who you want to sit on this empty chair."
"Ha?" Xier was a little surprised. She could still play like this.
The psychologist is instructing: "Just think that it is a fantasy moment. For example, you can imagine that the adventurous Dora is sitting on this empty chair. She wants to talk to you about the most thrilling adventure she has ever been to. You can ask her if she has ever been afraid."
Xier laughed when she heard this, and her feet were shaking around excitedly.
The psychologist continued: "You can also imagine that Xiaobai is sitting on this empty chair! She is your best friend, right? But even if she is your best friend, there will be a lot of things that you haven't talked about. Now you can talk to her about these topics that you have never talked about before."
Xier widened her eyes and thought about it, then she smiled secretly, as if she had remembered something fun and interesting.
But she didn't say it.
The psychologist continued to induce the topic: "Of course, you can also imagine that the person sitting here is your sister, your godfather, and your parents..."
When she talked about her parents, she observed Xier's expressions. Sure enough, Xier was obviously stunned and a little confused and confused.
The psychologist asked, "Can you choose someone from them now who wants to talk to them the most?"
Xier stared at her with wide eyes and said nothing.
The psychologist took the initiative to say, "Do you want your parents to sit on this empty chair and talk to them? Do you want it?"
Xier stayed for a while, then suddenly laughed silently at her embarrassedly, and nodded immediately.
The psychologist was waiting for this moment and immediately said, "Now, your parents are sitting on this empty chair. We want to put something here."
Xier looked curiously at her taking out a photo frame from her bag and standing on an empty chair. This is a family photo of Xiao Tan’s family!
She was sitting on her father's neck and riding a horse.
"Then, that..."
Xier pointed to the photo frame excitedly, probably wanting to ask you why there are photos of my house.
The psychologist smiled and said, "This is provided by your sister."
Xier said oh, and sat back on the chair.
The doctor said softly and slowly, "Now, Xier, your parents are sitting here. They have been waiting to hear what you think. You can say anything to them you want to say—wrongedness, anger, longing, or questions you didn't have time to ask."
Responding to her was silence.
The female doctor continued: "Maybe we can start with the saying 'Mom and Dad, I am Xier'."
After pausing for a moment, Xier's voice rang: "Mom and Dad, I am Xier."
Just when the psychologist thought she had finished speaking, she continued, "...I'm 7 years old now~"
There was a sense of unconcealed arrogance in the voice.
Chapter completed!