【112】Theory upgrade
The basic definition of the word "love" in the Xinhua Dictionary is: have deep feelings for people or things.
This creates another big misunderstanding, that is, as long as it is "love", it is definitely "deep and sincere". It seems that there are only two options between the two people: "You love me" or "You don't love me".
However, Luther regards the fear of basic feelings as a degree. If love is also a basic feeling, then it must be degree.
Isn’t this justified? Even people who are extremely close to each other cannot love each other in exactly the same degree. Why do you cowardly think that all love is equivalent?
If 10 is the maximum, it can be considered that Wu Dalang's love for Pan Jinlian is 9, while Pan Jinlian's love for Wu Dalang is only 0.1. It is still possible for ordinary people to love you if they poison your wife. It is definitely difficult for ordinary people to accept this, but how can the twelve-level intelligent creatures be ordinary people?
The so-called love should reflect the degree to which a person "empathizes" with others. In Chinese, "I love you" is used to express love, but in fact there is considerable wisdom hidden in it.
Whether you feel pain or pleasure, the person who loves you deeply will synchronize those feelings to yourself as soon as possible, calling it "empathy" or "thinking from the perspective of others". As the degree of love deepens, the synchronized pain (or pleasure) will become faster and faster, more and more unconditional, or "ignoring time and space".
After realizing this, Lu Se’s new definition of “love” is: a link that synchronizes pain or pleasure. The higher the degree of ignoring time and space, the deeper the love will be.
Yes, love is essentially not a feeling, but a bond. The reason why falling in love with others feels sweet or painful is that the ability of love synchronizes the other person's pleasure or pain, or simply pain caused by failure to establish synchronization.
Under this new definition, many questions about "love and not love" are suddenly enlightened-
People are animals that are afraid of pain and pursue pleasure. A person is not easily fallen in love with others. Perhaps it is not just because he is short and ugly, but because he is not happy, which makes others dare not easily establish synchronization with him. Therefore, the first step in getting love may be to make yourself happy first.
Be strong from both physical and inner aspects and establish a foundation of pleasure. In this way, the person who falls in love with you can synchronize a lot of pleasure and feel happy. If you fall in love with someone, use your ability to improve his life, so as to synchronize the other person's pleasure and enlarge a portion of pleasure into two parts.
"Hey? According to this statement, I will be happy because of Alice's achievements and annoyed because of her setbacks. So does Alice and I have 'love'? Also, although I sometimes get bored of Xiaojia and Bao Heizi, I still don't want to see them suffer misfortune. So do I also love Xiaojia and Bao Heizi?"
If fear is regarded as the origin, then the body and the body are naturally surrounded by fear. On the other hand, if love is regarded as the origin, then what is overflowing from the inside and outside of the body is nothing more than love.
What the world is like depends on how you view it. People who are afraid of synchronizing to more pain are destined to be asynchronizing to more joy.
Goethe once said: "Today's I am not yesterday's I." Lu Se, who had an epiphany, also felt that he was different from the previous second.
"My theory has evolved one more step. Although the origin of fear is effective when facing enemies, it can easily make people fall into pessimism. After redefining love, I know how to break out of the vicious circle of being smart and being mistaken by being smart. The smarter the more you are, the more you feel pain!"
"The origin of fear" is still a shortcut law that is as convenient as Newton's equations to solve problems, but it is not basic or accurate enough. What should be furthermore should be the "original origin of pain" or "original origin of pleasure".
Pain and pleasure are inseparable twin brothers, more basic than fear, and can combine and form various other feelings.
Fear-a preview of the upcoming pain.
A sense of security - no pain in the foreseeable future (the higher the IQ, the easier it is to lose the sense of security, because a high IQ is the longer the predictable future).
Anger-Entering a state of combat to resist pain or protect pleasure.
Looking forward--a preview of the joy that is coming.
Sadness-Review of the pain that has happened.
Hope--thinking that you have the possibility of getting pleasure.
Despair - think that you have lost the possibility of enjoyment.
Envy--hope to get the pleasure gained by others, hope prevails.
Jealousy - hope to get the pleasure gained by others, but despair prevails.
There are many such combination methods. Lu Se does not intend to try them one by one. He has found a way to eliminate his inner demons by revising theories.
"If I treat the destruction of the Lin Group and the extinct penguin as the only source of pleasure, wouldn't I be despaired after achieving these two goals? Wouldn't it be a loss to be buried with the Lin Group and the penguin? If even I lose the possibility of feeling pleasure, what hope does the future of mankind have?"
Like Lex Luther in the "Superman" series, Luther does not consider himself a villain, but represents a human elite who may lead the world civilization to a sudden advance.
"Planning correction: If a behavior targeting Lin's group or penguins brings not enough pleasure to offset the pain, then there is no need to force it to be done. It is the right choice to enjoy the whole process slowly."
"Planning correction 2: Prepare for the future. In order to prevent the Lin Group and Penguin from suddenly disappearing due to force majeure, I need to develop other channels to obtain pleasure. Since love is the bond to feel pleasure, and I have established this bond with Alice, Xiaojia, and even Bao Xing to varying degrees, then just spread the pleasure and then get the pleasure back from them. Wouldn't it be nice?"
Lu Se shook his head like Wang Situ who tried to persuade Zhuge Liang in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and several girls who had just left the bathroom were happy when they saw Lu Se standing not far away, and said in their hearts: Could it be that this guy is a pervert?
After washing his hands, Alice saw Lu Se still waiting outside. She was happy and felt that Lu Se's expression was a bit strange.
"Consultant?" Alice waved her little hand in front of Lu Se who was wandering in the wild, "What are you laughing at? Is there something funny happened just now?"
Lu Se was stunned for a moment and returned to reality, and replied with a half-true smile: "It's just that I have realized the true meaning of love. Whether it is comics, novels, games, or life, the principles are the same. I will tell you if I have the chance to do so in the future."
"Okay!" Alice cheered, "The consultant is so amazing! Master Bodhidharma has been facing the wall for nine years before he can realize it. You have only been staying for a few minutes before you realize it!"
Several girls who had already walked a little farther back looked back at Lu Se, and one of them said with a more sarcastic sarcasm: "Run to the women's bathroom to have an epiphany. Are you enlightened by the "Nine Yin Sutra"?"
The two girls next to them immediately laughed and beat the hot-selling sister: "What are you saying!" "I actually joked with boys like this!"
Lu Se thought that no matter whether he was a 12th-level intelligent creature or a squad leader of the second-year high school class, he could not lose his might, so he stared at them without blushing and said in response:
"You only have three people, even if a woman is naturally yin, she can't make up nine? Could it be that each of you is gifted to fight three?"
I couldn't help but think about this sentence, the more I thought about it, the more I became, the more yellow it became. The hottest sister wanted to have an attack: "You..."
However, at this moment, Dongnihai came out of the bathroom. The shabby sister and others knew that this martial arts master in the second grade () class of high school was not easy to mess with, so they had to walk away hatefully.
Lu Se was proud, but Alice asked: "Consultant, what is the "Nine Yin Scriptures"? Why did they laugh just now and then get angry?"
On the one hand, he has never watched Jin Yong's martial arts drama, and on the other hand, he has low emotional intelligence. Lu Se was about to pull up something and fool him, but Dongni Haiyi came over again.
"Boss, I have heard some of them just now. The "Nine Yin Scriptures" are martial arts secrets. But you just said that they were complimenting them against three? Why are they very unhappy? Explain and explain to me!"
"Okay," Lu Se nodded slowly, "You are walking back with me and I am talking. He said that Master Bodhidharma has been facing the wall for nine years and carved scriptures on the shade of the nine stones..."
"Dingling--" The class bell rang quickly under Lu Se's intentional delay. Lu Se immediately ran out of the two girls, and turned around and smiled: "It is not suitable for children! You can go back to the classroom quickly, otherwise I will be late!"
"Ah I didn't expect you to be such a boss!" Dongni Haiyi protested behind Lu Se, "Can I listen, can't I listen? Stop it! Don't think I can't catch up with you now!"
Dongni Haiyi is Lu Se's employee and has a sanitary napkin, so she just said verbally that she didn't really catch up. Lu Se's mouth knew this and smiled happily.
"As long as you are willing to discover, there are pleasant things everywhere in life! Level 12 intelligent creatures must enjoy level 12 to meet their identity! Next, based on the theory that has just evolved, we will practice how to get pleasure from my sister!"
During the break, Lu Se stopped Xiaojia, who was wearing sportswear and was about to go to the gym to play table tennis, and showed her the order for the site console she had bought on her mobile phone.
"Brother, you really didn't lie to me!" Xiaojia rushed to Lu Se excitedly, and his ponytails jumped high like the tails of two squirrels, and his expression was like a squirrel got a pile of chestnuts.
Lu Se enjoyed the rare sight of his sister, and asked for more pleasure: "How is it? Is it better to be a brother? I don't care about you when you made the mistake of telling Lin Qin, but instead bought you a game console... Do you know what Lin Qin did after obtaining the information?"
Xiaojia moved her face away from her brother's chest and said a little guiltily: "I don't know that is very important to her brother! Besides, my sister didn't do anything to hurt us directly. She just accidentally crashed into the antique pit room last night..."
Under Lu Se's temptation, Xiaojia talked about how Lin Qin discovered the entrance of the pit room and how she coerced He Xifan and the director. While Lu Se carefully analyzed the development of the situation, it was not important to do these things, but just listened casually.
After Xiaojia went to play table tennis, Lu Se called Lin Qin who asked for leave but did not come to school. As soon as Lin Qin picked it up, Lu Se said: "Xiaojia told me everything that happened last night. I can also use the reasons why you can coerce He Xifan and the director of the teaching.
Then, without waiting for Lin Qin to answer, she hung up her phone.
At the entrance of the stadium where people were coming and going, Lu Se held his cell phone and let out a "hehehe" laugh.
Chapter completed!