144. The woman who married far away
144. A woman who is married far away
"Actually, he is just bluffing. If a person really wants to kill someone and really hate that person to that level, he can do it. Why bother yelling so hard that everyone in the world knows that you have seen someone who wants to kill someone, will he go everywhere saying that he wants to kill someone?"
Li Mei: "What you said makes sense! So, I believe you can really help Lin Ting."
Tao Tao and Li Mei ended the video and added Lin Ting's WeChat.
Before Lin Ting passed Tao Tao's WeChat, Li Mei called Lin Ting and praised Tao Tao as having a great presence.
So, when Tao Tao told Lin Ting about the truth she told Li Mei, Lin Ting quickly accepted Tao Tao's truth.
"Lin Ting, since you trust me, can you tell me honestly that you really haven't cheated on your ex-husband's friends?"
"Taozi, no, I can use our lives to swear, absolutely not, the only time I cheated in marriage, just because he hit me, I got a little bit of care from others, and I fell into it. At the same time, I also wanted to use this to revenge him, make him feel humiliated, and had to divorce me."
Lin Ting sighed deeply, "It's a pity that even if I cheated, he still refused to divorce, so I lied to him and said that I had cheated on a good friend of his, so he had to divorce me. After the divorce, in order to retaliate against the harm he had brought to me over the years, I told such a big lie."
Tao Tao sighed, "I know that people like him have a cowardly personality and a very strong self-esteem. He has no courage to question his friends. He does not have the courage to kill you, it's just a talk."
"Now I'll tell you why he is tragic. You've gotten less hatred for him!"
"Taozi, I understand all the truths you said. Speaking of which, his parents do have bad relationships and often fight, but they don't get divorced. They fight and quarrel every day. When they were young, they were beaten by his parents a lot! So when you say this, I immediately understood."
"So, he is also a poor person. You are now divorced, but he will always be the father of the child, and you are also the mother of the child. You don't want each other to be bad, right?"
"In those years, he always beat me, and I hate him a lot. After you explained these reasons, I understand him a little, so I don't hate him too much."
"You two are not in good health! He must have a bad heart. You must have gynecological or breast diseases, and your waist is not good."
Lin Ting was surprised, "Taozi, how did you know? Even Li Mei hadn't seen me, let alone you. You were thousands of miles away, but you actually knew about my illness on the phone. You are so amazing. I heard that he had two stents on his heart. Where is me! There are breast nodules, uterine fibroids, and lumbar disc herniation."
"I'm not a god. I just know one thing. If a man hates a woman, he will definitely get heart problems. If a woman hates her man, she is likely to get gynecological diseases and breast diseases, and the same is true for back pain."
Lin Ting was skeptical, "There is such a saying, which is amazing."
"Your ex-husband is not as terrible as you imagined. He is also a pitiful person. If you open up each other's knots, this conflict will be resolved. You cannot see your parents for the rest of your life to hide from him. You should see your children! You resent and hurt each other in this way, and the children will become your victims. When the child grows up, she will resent you again, and it will be too late for you to regret it."
Lin Ting was a little nervous, "Of course I want to relieve this hatred, but I'm afraid he won't believe what I said."
"If you don't do it, how can you know if he will believe it? Besides, I'll ask you to call him and say on the phone, even if he really doesn't believe it, what can he do to you?"
"Indeed, just making a phone call. If you can make a clear statement on the phone, it is naturally the best way to resolve the misunderstanding."
"You make this call with the purpose of relieving the grudge and thinking about the other party, with a more sincere attitude and a more melodious tone, so that he can truly feel your city intention."
"Taozi, I can't speak. I don't know how to say it to make him believe me. Otherwise, can you please help me pass on this?"
"You don't need to know what to say. You just need to tell the truth. Can he believe you? Is it because you have sincerity? This is something you can feel with your heart, and it is not an effect that can be achieved by saying it in a mess."
"Besides, other things and misunderstandings can be passed through a third person. In this case, the fewer people know, the better. If you let him know that many people know that he is cuckolded, isn't this more humiliating him? So, only if you tell him yourself and let him feel your apology and care for him, the effect is the best."
"Okay, Taozi, I get it, thank you, I'll give it a try."
In the evening, Tao Tao was playing puzzle games with her son, and Lin Ting called.
"Taozi, I told him."
Her voice was a little excited, Tao Tao felt very upset, and it was almost done.
"How is it? Are the knots in your hearts open?"
Lin Ting: "He cried when he heard my explanation and apology. This was something I didn't expect."
Tao Tao: "How much psychological pressure should be in his over the past year! He feels that he has been ridiculed by people all over the world. You hurt a man's self-esteem, which makes him feel more uncomfortable than killing him."
Lin Ting: "He said he was wrong, and shouldn't have hit me, and hurt me. I said that although we are divorced, we still have a daughter. For the sake of our daughter, we should no longer resent and hurt each other. Letting go of hatred will also let ourselves go."
Lin Ting: "I told him not to hate me anymore, because he hated others and because he hated me, he was heartbroken. I said sorry, I made you hate me and hurt you, and he cried."
"He has turned his conscience overturned. Congratulations, the hatred between you has been resolved."
"Thank you, Taozi. I didn't expect that the problem that troubled me and him for more than a year was solved because of your few words. Li Mei said you are very wise. Really, you are a particularly wise woman. If you are so wise, your family must be well managed!"
"I'm sorry, I also divorced and lived with my children with my parents."
"That must be the other party's fault."
"There are many reasons for whether a family is well run. We cannot simply say who is wrong, everyone is wrong."
"So Lin Ting, in the future, start with a good deal of business, and stop talking harshly or hurting the other party."
Chapter completed!