Chapter 474 Harem teaching pat2
Chapter 474 Harem teaching pa, t2
"In that and, I hope you wait a moment."
Yiming stretched out and broke Stefar's words. He thought carefully before asking in confusion.
"I remember, the aspect I asked you should be about Marian's question.
But from your current tone, it seems that you want to teach me how to open a harem?"
"What, do you already have Lord Mayalie and Miss Ice Fish now, and aren't it considered as having a harem?"
Faced with Yiming's questions, Stefal was not in a hurry.
"What's more, just solving Miss Marian's problem is only a treatment of symptoms but not a root cause. If you want to solve these problems from the root, I think it's better not to be too leisurely, otherwise, troublesome things will come one after another, but you're busy."
“I hope this is just your illusion
Yiming frowned. He didn't understand what Stefall wanted to say, but it was obvious that it wouldn't be a good thing.
"Women's intuition is very accurate, Lord Yiming
Stefale had no change in Yiming's irony.
"It's always right to listen to the advice of people who have experienced it."
This is from the mouth of the woman in the castle, which is very convincing.
"Okay, take a step back
Rule said that in this world, besides Meyer and "that person", who else would make Yi Ming feel powerless to resist? Then the female lord of Lily in front of him must be one of them.
"I don't think anyone will compromise on this kind of thing. After all, I only have one, and there is only one bed.
Yiming shrugged.
"I understand what you mean, you mean. Every girl has a desire to possess, and you can't satisfy everyone's desire to possess, right?"
Putting down the teacup, Stefall began to look at the cake next to her with interest. Obviously, she seemed very appetizing.
"It seems that you don't know women very well. Do you think women have a sense of possession because of love. I will tell you first that this understanding itself is wrong. We will not have a sense of possession because of simple love. This is contrary to your men. The instinct of men is to conquer. You naturally fall in love with whatever you want to possess. But women are different. Our possessiveness is not out of love but uneasiness."
"disturbed?"
Hearing Stefal's answer, Yiming was a little puzzled.
"That's right, after all, in the world, men are still dominated by men. Even in Yuliya, you cannot deny that men are the ones who take the initiative to court. Therefore, in terms of love, men have the initiative. But women are different. Even for long-lived elves, women will not change many male partners in the years that are far longer than humans. Therefore, love is a lifelong thing for women. So, when men court and react to them, they will naturally hesitate. After all, this is a choice that concerns their life. So, is this the right choice? They will be uneasy, because they are uneasy. Therefore, they are afraid of losing, and the desire to possession arises. They are afraid of losing. They emphasize possession.
Speaking of this, Stefall leaned back on the back of the chair, crossing his fingers.
"And from this point of view, Lord Mayale obviously doesn't have to worry. Her possessiveness is not strong, because Lord Mayale understands very well; she is the object you value the most, and this will not change anyway. So, how can she bear those boring hearts? In my opinion, Lord Mayale can be said to be the most perfect woman in the world, and the two have been together for a long time. Perhaps Lord Mayale had an uneasy period, but that small period has passed, Lord Mayale withstood the test and made a choice. It can be said that in the battlefield of love, she is an absolute and unfavorable winner. Therefore, she has no need to worry or be uneasy. Because even if she doesn't say it, everything you give her is beyond the reach of other women.
That's true."
Recalling the scene when Mayalie was always pestering herself when she was a child, even if she was talking to other women, Yiming felt a little bit of recognition of Stefall's words.
"Since Lord Mayalie is already the winner, then her bottom line is very clear."
Stefall said, reaching out to grab the knife on the table and gently sliding it across the surface of the cake. Cut a small piece.
"Since she already has most of you, she doesn't mind that the remaining small part of you share with others. Even among women, women who can surpass Miss Mayali's appearance, temperament and even personality may not be born yet, plus the relationship between the two
Anyone who wants to seek power and replace Lord Mayali's, is just like asking Wuya to stop ruling Yulia. So in my opinion, Lord Mayali can accept sharing your love with people close to her. Of course, whether you admit it or not, most of your love will still be biased towards Lord Mayali. However, if you just carry a girl on the street and say you want to take the harem, I'm afraid Lord Mayali will never agree."
Stefale's analysis does make sense. Thinking of Mealley's non-interference in the matter of Marian, and her own sentence "turning all the girls in the academy into their own harem" would cause her to protest. It is clear that Stefale's words are true.
Sure enough, only women can understand women?
Just as Yi Ming sighed in his heart, Stefall had already cut a small piece of cake and expressed his opinions again.
"Art" "And, you must be conscious of yourself."
"I? Self-conscious? What self-consciousness?"
After Stefair said this, Yi Ming's story became inexplicably aware.
"Of course, you should know that you are the one who wants to take over the harem, not Lord Mealli. You must first be clear that no matter how much you love you, in other women, they have a bottom line in their hearts. This has nothing to do with anxiety and monopoly. Because after you have joined forces, you have actually become a small community of shared destiny. Advance and retreat together, facing failure and victory. In this case, passing this bottom line will threaten them with a threat of a community of shared destiny. As I said, Lord Mealli's bottom line is acceptable for women who are close to her. The bottom line of Miss Ice Fish should not be clear in my current opinion. But Miss Marian confused me in this regard. According to my observation, she has almost no bottom line, which makes me feel very strange."
“No bottom limit?”
Yiming frowned and repeated Stefar's words strangely.
"What does it mean to have no bottom limit?"
"That is to say, even if you ask her to serve a man she doesn't like, or ask her to serve her with a woman she doesn't like, Miss Marian will do it without hesitation. This is strange. If she is a cowardly and easily controlled person, then this bottom line is understandable. But with Miss Marian's personality, this bottom line is almost impossible to think. She must feel that she owes you something, or something embarrassing between the two, which makes her unable to raise her head in front of you, Lord Yiming, so she will do this. If you really want to improve the relationship between the two, I'm afraid you have to start from this point."
"Is it an embarrassing love story?
Although Stefale also expressed some doubts, Yi obviously had noticed the problem. On that night that changed Marian's life, she tried to trade for her father's life. Obviously, although this matter has been a long time, for Marian, perhaps it has been deeply imprinted in her mind and cannot be changed. Although the past has passed, what has gone through does not exist. I am afraid that the reason why Yi Ming is difficult to face Marian is probably the same. Looking back carefully, although she is with Alinoa and Lucia.
They also talk a lot about business. But in front of them, they didn't mind occasionally showing some of the unique temperaments of little girls. But Marien seemed very sensitive in this regard. She almost never talked to Yiming about things other than business. Now when she thought about it carefully, she probably was afraid of such closeness in her heart. She was once again treated as a shameless temptation. Yiming was not unaware of it before, but he did not think deeply like Stefall, thinking that it would be fine after Marian forgot it, but now it seems that the result is counterproductive.
"No matter what, thank you for your advice."
After realizing the problem, Yi Ming suddenly realized it, but since he already knew the pain of the problem, he was no longer in a hurry. After all, the most important thing at the moment is to cure the ice fish, and everything else can be discussed later.
But looking at Stefar who was having a leisurely tea in front of him, Yiming couldn't help but ask.
"But, Miss Stefall, what do you think?"
"Yes"
Only since you are willing to pay such a great price to save your uh, wife, I understand that you love her very much. But what do you think of other girls? Are they not jealous? They will not be angry? After all, this is a completely unusual love between women and women. They abandon the normal path and follow you. What do you think at this point?"
"I am really worthy of being Lord Yi Ming, and the questions I asked are so sharp."
Facing Yi Ming's question, Stefal was slightly stunned and then smiled leisurely.
"Then, I just said it straightforwardly that they can make me happy and I can make them happy, that's that simple."
Is this answer a little too cunning?"
"This is the basic of love, Lord Yi Ming. Although we have many theories to explain more specific issues, the attraction between people is not because you feel happy when you are by your side? You should know that love is not a charity, and you will help whoever you feel pitiful. It is because you feel very happy when you are by your side that you want to have each other. Your own feelings are always the most important. Moreover, there are many forms of happiness."
Speaking of this, Stefall's eyes turned, as if he had thought of something good.
"I used to know such a man who maintained a relationship with three or four girls at the same time, but he did not mean to fall in love with any of them. At this moment, one of the girls' secret crushes, in order to get the man to leave the girl he likes, and the man dressed up as a woman to approach the man, but was pushed down, and in the end he fell in love with the man. So these people stayed in the house every day. Immersed in the joy and happiness of the man. Although this happiness seems a bit distorted to us, happiness itself is different because of the different people. More importantly, you must be honest with your own feelings."
As he said that, Stefair looked out the window.
Chapter completed!