Chapter 36: The squid is different

Madam Cui did not dodge, solemnly returned the tribute, and said seriously: "I would like to hear Lord Wei's advice. Please tell me, even if it is said, the truth will only become clearer and clearer the more you argue."

The posture was very good. Wei Chi showed a silent smile, his white teeth were so careless that they were piercing the eyes. His smile was so kind and so bright. Even the most picky person could not be able to look stern when he saw such a smile.

The Madam Cui was obviously ready to be criticized by Wei Chi. She was suddenly frightened by such a smile. She couldn't help but take a step back, her face full of loss. Wei Chi smiled badly in her heart, and faced Empress Changsun's disapproval, and corrected her face and stopped teasing Madam Cui.

Wei Chi said seriously: "First of all, I would like to ask Mama Cui for a question, and by the way, I would like to ask the Empress to listen together."

Empress Changsun smiled slightly and said, "Please say Ziyue."

The company commander, Empress Sun, was so polite to Wei Chi, so Madam Cui was naturally polite, not to mention that she was an etiquette teacher, so she was very particular about this. She politely said to Wei Chi, "Please say, "Mr. Wei, please tell me, as long as I can, I will definitely speak, and I will say everything I can."

Wei Chi smiled and said, "It's not that serious, it's just a very simple problem. I want to ask the Queen and Mr. Cui, what kind of person do you want to make Princess Yizi a?"

"this……"

Empress Changsun obviously understood what Wei Chi meant and fell into deep thought. Madam Cui said proudly: "Empress, Lord Wei, the direction I work hard in is to teach the princess to be a well-educated, gentle, dignified, smart and virtuous woman. In the future, everyone will admire the princess's style and be amazed by the princess's style."

Wei Chi resisted the urge to roll his eyes and grinned, unable to show his most basic smile. He was just lazy, but he threw out a very sharp sentence: "And after he was taught, he would be like Mr. Cui?"

"you……!"

Madam Cui's face turned red, then yellow, then white, then green, like a traffic light, no, it has another color than the traffic light. Empress Changsun stopped for a moment: "Ziyue, Mr. Cui is the etiquette instructor of the Cui family of a famous family, and must not be unreasonable to her."

"Yes, Empress, that's OK to change the word."

Wei Chi obediently said that Empress Changsun had even started to plead, and he was not willing to bully others too much. Wei Chi said aloud: "Empress, Mr. Cui, I think that teaching children must be a method. First of all, we must be clear. What kind of person should be taught to children? They are a vocal insect who only knows how to act according to the rules, rigid, stupid, and even laughs uncomfortable. They are still a beautiful, wise, confident person who can live in the world well even if he is alone. Mr. Cui is knowledgeable. In the words my adoptive father often said, even if he eats more salt than we eat, a junior like me cannot catch up with it, nor can he compare to it. Have Mr. Cui seen cats raise cubs?"

Madam Cui said, "I have seen it myself. What does this have to do with Lord Wei's topic?"

Wei Chi said: "I remember when I was a child, a pregnant female cat lived not far from home. She worked hard every day to find food and avoid bullying from other cats. She finally gave birth to a litter of kittens, and then worked hard to raise them. When the kittens opened their eyes and learned to walk and run. After the cat mothers came back from preying every day, they led the kittens to play together. Later, the kittens grew up and it was time to be independent, but the kittens

I was reluctant to leave the cat mother, and kept wailing and begging, just wanting the mother not to leave, but the cat mother still drove away every kitten without hesitation and let them survive independently. This world is big, not every kitten can survive safely. Some may starve to death, and some will die in the battle with other wild cats, but the cat mother still unswervingly drove the kittens away and let them survive independently because this is survival."

Empress Changsun was silent when she heard this, lowered her head, held the teacup but did not drink it, and obviously fell into deep thought. Madam Cui said, "I am stupid and don't understand what the story of Lord Wei means!"

Wei Chi said: "My meaning is very simple. I want to discuss with Mr. Cui about the education of his children. What kind of thing do I want to teach my children? I am also a father. I don't ask my children to do anything about knowledgeable, knowledgeable, and meaningful. I just hope that when he grows up in the future, he knows how to care for young people, respect the elders, sympathize with the weak, respect the strong, self-confidence, and self-respect. Even if he doesn't rely on his parents, he has the courage and ability to survive independently and has the ability to live happily. I wonder if such a person is vulgar and cannot be regarded as a person who can't speak to him? Can Mr. Cui say that such a person is not elegant, confident, and polite?"

Madam Cui said calmly: "No, in my eyes, such a person is a well-educated person. This is also the goal I want to achieve. Princess Jinyang will definitely become such a person in the future."

He spoke very confidently. Wei Chi looked at her and smiled, and asked back, "Is Mr. Cui like this now? Are you happy? Are you free?"

Although he was very calm, Madam Cui seemed to be forced to ask, and suddenly choked by saliva, coughed violently, and his face turned red. The little Yizi and Li Zhi were obediently listening to Wei Chi and Madam Cui debate. Madam Cui seemed to be Ming Feiming, but Li Zhi, the little guy, nodded and looked at Wei Chi with admiration.

Seeing that Madam Cui was choked, Xiao Yizi hurried over and asked with concern: "Madam Cui, don't worry, Lord Wei did not bully you. He just spoke loudly. Lord Wei is a good person, very good and very good kind!"

He said in a naive and cute way, and also had thoughtful actions. He even asked the palace maid next to him to help Mama Cui to calm down and pour water for her. Wei Chi looked at her with a smile, obviously very satisfied. This is the little whisper that everyone loves, the cute little idiot who is gentle and considerate, who is willing to grievance for others.

Wei Chi apologized with a smile: "Mr. Cui, it was Ziyue's fault. Ziyue forced him too quickly. I hope you forgive me."

Madam Cui shook her head, and with the help of the palace maid, she finally stopped coughing, but her face was still red. She looked at Xiao Yizi with complicated eyes and said, "Thank you for your concern."

"No need to thank you. Lord Wei once taught me that when others are sad, we cannot be sad with each other, but we can try our best not to make others sad and provide timely help."

Little Slightly smiled sweetly, her face was so cute that the tears were not wiped off before she could wipe it off. She looked particularly cute and pitiful. Madam Cui looked complicated and seemed to be stunned. She didn't know what to say for a moment.

Seeing this, Wei Chi continued, "Mr. Cui, Shu Ziyue is prone to the liberty. He doesn't know whether to say it or not, but I really want to say it."

Madam Cui bowed seriously and said, "Please tell me right."

Wei Chi nodded and said, "When I was a child, I made a mistake and was thumped by my husband in the palm of my hand. This is a very normal thing. I have experienced it, King of Jin, Princess Jinyang, Madam Cui, and even the Empress. I believe everyone has experienced it?"

Everyone nodded. Li Zhi seemed to remember the strict tutors in the palace and subconsciously hid his hands. Wei Chi couldn't help but laugh and said with a smile: "Since everyone has experienced it, I guess the taste of it at that time should still be a little impression now, right? Think about our thoughts and feelings at that time, and then consider the children's feelings now. Everyone has experienced it at that time, think twice before doing it."

As soon as Wei Chi finished speaking, Madam Cui fell into deep thought with a dull look on her face. Empress Changsun was also stunned. Then she suddenly looked at Wei Chi with great enlightenment and said to Wei Chi: "Zi Yue's words are reasonable. Today, I have received teachings again."

Wei Chi hurriedly replied, "Empress is too good, I just like to think a lot, I think a little bit more. To be honest, when I was a child, I didn't know that once was hit by my husband. Every time I swear that if I grow up in the future, I will never beat my child until I have to force myself. It would feel so uncomfortable, not only physically, but also spiritually. When I was a child, I was a very naughty child, and I was beaten a lot, which made me doubt whether I was born stupider than others, and I was born with other people.

I am a lot worse, isn’t I useless? I don’t have any advantages to make me proud. I’ve always been very inferior. My life almost ended up being over. Fortunately, I met a good man who praised me in front of all the students for the first time, praised me to my parents, saying that I did a good job, affirmed me, and encouraged me. Then, I gradually built up confidence and realized that I could be such an excellent person, and I could also get recognition and praise from adults. I am also very awesome! Haha”

Thinking of the sad past in childhood, Wei Chi couldn't help but smile and sigh. Madam Cui said in a daze: "I treat it severely for the sake of the princess's good, not..."

Wei Chi smiled and said, "Sir, don't explain. We all understand that Mr., it is out of kindness and a responsible attitude towards our own responsibilities. We all understand. However, not every child applies this method. Princess Jinyang has taught her many days. She has not seen it yet? She is a child who is willing to earnestly implement her promises, a child who is so serious that she would rather be wronged than strive to achieve the expectations of adults. For such children, should we pay attention to some methods? Do we blindly adopt a model, is there any place that needs to be considered?"

Madam Cui fell into deep thought again, a little absent, and couldn't answer. However, Empress Changsun looked at Wei Chi with emotion and smiled: "Ziyue said it well. I have received the teachings and have benefited a lot today. Thank you Ziyue."

Wei Chi hurriedly said, "The Empress is right, Wei Zi...ah, it's not right..."

Empress Changsun smiled and said, "Ziyue doesn't need to be polite. Just call Yizi's nickname directly. You are also Yizi's elder."

"Yes, Empress Xie." Wei Chi continued: "Princess Jinyang is very close to her subordinates. It can be said that she has watched her grow up so old since she was a child. I hope she can grow up healthily and happily, and not have anything bad to happen. The princess's personality is easy to feel wronged. She is afraid that she is young and does not know how to relieve her. Her liver qi is stagnant and is not good for her health. Haha, so I said a few more words and asked the Empress to forgive her."

Empress Changsun said, "No, Ziyue is talking about what I am worried about. This child looks too much like me, so I can't teach her, so I have to ask another gentleman to teach her. Now it seems that Ziyue is the most suitable."

Wei Chi laughed and said, "Empress, you said it wrong. I am not suitable. I have a poor knowledge. I should be a playmate. Whose child has not played all the way? Like playing, and loves playing is the nature of children. So why not take advantage of the situation and let the child learn something that he should learn at the age of his current age during play. Empress, in fact, there are many principles, no need to keep saying, as the growth process, children can slowly understand and figure it out. Rules and etiquette are to be learned, but should different people adopt different methods? Fighting will only increase the child's fear and will not have a good effect. Teaching according to their aptitude is always a supporter of this view."

Empress Changsun nodded frequently when she heard this, glanced at the embroidery pictures Wei Chi drew for Yizi, and said, "In this way, Ziyue's method is not unreasonable and very innovative."

After being praised, Wei Chi smiled foolishly: "Children like cute things. Some small animals and other things can attract children's interest. Anyway, they all need to learn embroidery. They are all embroidery. Let's find a child to teach them. When she gets older, the things she is interested in will naturally change slowly. Girls will always like flowers and other things in the future. If you don't need the tutor to urge her, she will be willing to embroider. Why should we force the child? Embroider such complicated things as soon as we are just starting out, and we will more damage our self-esteem. Be careful to attack too much, leaving a psychological shadow and affect the child's future, right?"

Empress Changsun nodded when she heard this, but she still asked: "What is psychological shadow?"

Wei Chi explained, and after understanding it, Empress Changsun thought for a moment and murmured in a low voice: "Now it seems that my experience when I was young is the main reason for my current personality and has affected my temperament. I also hope that my squirrel will be happy and be a cheerful child in the future, rather than like me."
Chapter completed!