Chapter 858 Attacking Rulan(2/2)
The knowledge learned is enough for women.
In the official families of the Great Zhou Dynasty, even if the basic education for their daughters was completed, it all depended on the woman's personal choice as to whether she wanted to pursue further studies in the future.
At this age, a woman has passed the age of learning theory, and it is time to plan for the future and learn life skills.
The most important life skill for women from these wealthy families is to be able to manage the family business well.
Because men in feudal society focused on official career, most affairs in the back house were left to women to manage.
It sounds simple, but actually it is quite complicated to manage.
Even for a family like the Sheng family, which is still developing, there are hundreds of people in the family.
Managing these things well is no easier than managing a small company in later generations.
Just talking about family affairs, the housekeeper woman needs to have a good grasp of everything that happens at home, including household chores, money and supplies, filial piety to parents-in-law, raising children, weddings and funerals, eating, drinking, and diarrhea.
After taking care of the family affairs, there are also external human relations outside the family, such as weddings and funerals in the friendly family, and welcoming and sending off, which are also the duties of the stewardess.
In addition, the family's property, farm, and shop also need to be managed by a housekeeper.
Buying a property, running a business, developing and expanding one's own family, who to make friends with, and who to make enemies with, these things may be made by men.
But when it comes to the actual implementation, operation, and management, most of it is done by the housekeeper.
Not only do you need to be able to spend money, but you also need to be able to make money, which is definitely not that simple.
"Ru Lan, how can this be considered a hardship for you? You should learn some rules. You are so unruly at home. How will you live in the future when you get married and live in someone else's home?"
How could a mother-in-law tolerate a daughter whose own parents couldn't stand it and thought it was unruly when she went to someone else's home?
"I don't want to marry like my eldest sister. I just want to marry into an ordinary family, just an ordinary poor family. If the family is an official, it is best not to have a higher official position than my father and second brother, otherwise their family status will not be as good as ours."
, I don’t have to be bullied.”
Judging from the fact that Ru Lan is only thirteen years old, Ru Lan's words are quite clear about marriage.
"Ru Lan, are you saying that you want to be like your mother? Your mother was the grand master's daughter. She married into our Sheng family and lived like this all her life. You don't know how many grievances you have suffered. Our father just
Fifth-rank official, how dare you say that your life can be smoother than that of your mother?"
But in Sheng Changbai's view, Rulan's vision was transparent, but not much.
There are two examples of tragedy in my life after getting married.
Mrs. Sheng, the legitimate daughter of the Hou family, married a young man from a poor family, but she encountered a doting concubine who destroyed her wife.
Wang Ruofu, the legitimate daughter of the grand master, married Sheng Hong, a concubine from a poor family, but she was also doted upon by a concubine who destroyed her wife.
Two people in her family had the tragedy of getting married. Why did Ru Lan have confidence that she would live a good life after getting married?
With Ru Lan and Wang Ruofu's indistinguishable temperaments, it seems that Wang Ruofu's life is repeating itself all over again.
Wang Ruofu could give birth to a genius like Sheng Changbai, which would give him strength and win back a lot of the situation for himself.
Whether Ru Lan can give birth to a promising son is completely unknown.
"Second brother, after I get married, you won't just watch me being bullied, right? Second brother, you will definitely join the center in the future and be the boss. You won't just watch your sister being bullied. Was it bullied by your husband’s family?”
Ru Lan said coquettishly to Sheng Changbai. This is one point where Ru Lan is stronger than Wang Ruofu, and it will show some weakness.
But if her own virtue is not enough, even if she shows weakness, Rulan's future will not be much better than Wang Ruofu.
"I won't just watch you being bullied, but it would be better if you could stay in Bianjing City. If you are not in Bianjing City, where the mountains are high and the rivers are long, I just want to help you, but I am powerless, just like our uncle helped you If you are not like your mother, what can you do?"
Seeing that Ru Lan had suffered more than 800 losses from Mo Lan since she was a child.
You know that Ru Lan and Wang Ruofu are both people with no means.
If there was a concubine like Lin Zhishuang at home, it would be impossible for Ru Lan to fight against her.
I don't have the ability to fight in a house, and I don't have the ability to take care of a man or manage a household.
No matter how high his status was, Sheng Changbai would never go to his brother-in-law's house to help Ru Lan fight in the house.
Just like the situation that Uncle Da Fang Wei faced before, Da Fang has countless means to easily manipulate Sun Shentong.
But in the end, all Uncle Wei could do was to divorce Shulan.
Shulan ended up with a troubled marriage and divorce.
No matter how she can take revenge on Sun Shentong, Shulan has suffered so much and cannot make up for it.
"I'll just learn from grandma."
Chapter completed!