On the way home between Zhao Shucheng and Lu Xiaoshan, Lu Xiaoshan kept talking about her parents. She actually always wanted her parents to remarry, but the two of them looked so fiercely that they felt that they had little hope.
"Yuan Shuai, do you think my dad won't really fall in love with others, right?"
"I can't tell you this, but I think it's not a day since they are frozen. Even if your father doesn't fall in love with you, if your mother doesn't change, she will scold her and find fault when she catches her. No man can endure it all the time. It's only a matter of time before separation."
"Wife criticizes her husband because it is because it is your woman's nature to find faults. No matter how good a man performs, you will never just focus on good places, but will always use a magnifying glass to find faults. But some people are lighter, while others are heavy."
When Lu Xiaoshan heard Zhao Shucheng say this, he stared at him with his eyes and said, "What do you mean? Even if you say I'm also picking you, is it wrong?"
"Look, look, I will reason with you and analyze the situation. You are angry now. Do you want to stop?"
"You keep talking!"
"Men sometimes need their wives to find faults, so that they can become a better self. Moreover, most men are the places where they are asked for faults. If they cannot be controlled, they are easily controlled by their hobbies. This requires their partner to help remind them, so that they can control their hobbies to a reasonable level and not be too crazy."
"For example, some men like to play games, but if they forget to eat and sleep, or even keep recharged money in the game for a little bit of desire for victory or defeat, this is naturally very wrong. The scolding of their wife can make men feel more awake and not be too addicted to it."
Zhao Shucheng glanced at Lu Xiaoshan and said, "But everything has a degree, too much is not enough. Besides, everyone reacts differently when facing this situation. Some men have good tempers, and their daughter-in-law doesn't care, but instead smiles, so there is no big conflict between the couple. But my father-in-law's personality is originally a little bit of personality. When facing the constant bombardment of his most intimate person, he naturally can't help but start to fight back, and the relationship between the two naturally becomes more and more rigid."
After hearing this, Lu Xiaoshan was silent for a while and said, "Then there is nothing to do?"
"It's hard, it's too difficult. Mom scolds her father-in-law for more than 20 years, and has become a habit of her own life. She can't be changed by changing it. And her father-in-law has endured it for more than 20 years. Now she's divorced and is criticized by her ex-wife. Which man do you think is acceptable? In the past, she was patient because she was his wife, but after the divorce, she was for you and Xiao Bei, but patience always has its limits. Especially when other old ladies are gentle, considerate and considerate in front of him. In this way, if it were you, what would you choose? Should you want a fierce wife or a Jieyuhua?"
Lu Xiaoshan said dissatisfiedly: "But my mother did this on purpose. She just did it for the sake of this family. And if it weren't for my mother's urging me, my father wouldn't have reached the age of retirement safely."
"Yes, what you said is indeed correct. When your father-in-law was scolded by your mother, he would feel guilty and feel that he had disappointed his wife. But after a long time, he began to doubt himself, thinking that he was really telling his wife, an incompetent person? But then, he would feel angry."
"I don't know how others are, but your father is the pillar of the family. Your mother scolds him for years and years, which will only make his dignity wipe out. Especially when you and Lu Xiaoshan are both here, your mother doesn't give you any face. She just says and quarrels. He maintains his majesty in front of his children, and can only force his mother to fight. After a while, she may have been simply scolding at first, but later she quarreled for a quarrel."
When Lu Xiaoshan heard this, he said with some regret: "Then there is no way?"
"It's not that there is no one. That's to ask your mother to change her temper and get along with your dad in another way, such as being gentle and considerate, or being more proactive, and maybe there's a way."
After hearing this, Lu Xiaoshan sighed. It would be great if he could do it. He had advised his mother not to do this, but his mother was unwilling to listen to her at all, so she would do whatever she wanted.
"Okay, you don't have to worry too much. Only they can solve the problems between them themselves. We children can only persuade them from the side and cannot intervene too much."
"Oh, that's all I can do."
Lu Xiaoshan suddenly thought of something, hesitated for a moment, lowered his head and said, "Yuan Shuai, I saw from the Internet that this ligation surgery will last too long and will be bad for the health, otherwise you will go to the hospital to solve it another day."
Zhao Shucheng looked back at Lu Xiaoshan in surprise when he heard this. When he saw Lu Xiaoshan whose ears were red, he immediately understood what she meant. He couldn't help but smile and said, "Okay!"
In fact, Zhao Shucheng's body has long been recovered. After all, Zhao Shucheng is now a doctor with good skills in both traditional Chinese and Western medicine. Although it is said that doctors do not treat themselves, Zhao Shucheng still has a way to regulate this situation and recover himself.
However, Lu Xiaoshan had never been willing to have children before, so Zhao Shucheng deliberately adopted contraceptive measures. However, since Lu Xiaoshan has not refused now, he is not stingy with giving Lu Xiaoshan a child.
Just when Zhao Shucheng and Lu Xiaoshan were going home, Gu Xiaojun didn't have any satisfaction.
Since the last time they separated from Ouyang Jian at the entrance of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the two of them seemed to have a broken kite, and there was no contact with each other.
She once thought she was Ouyang Jian’s true love, and Ouyang Jian must have been unable to help but contact her, but she didn’t call herself or send messages to herself for several days, as if she didn’t care about this relationship at all.
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content behind! If this is the case alone, it is nothing. Since I came back and said I was going on a blind date, my parents have become restless. Although I didn’t say anything in person, the expression was obvious that I wanted to ask myself about the blind date.
In order to prevent her parents from getting upset, she simply took some men's information from the matchmaking agency and prepared to use these to deal with her parents.
However, after Gu Xiaojun returned home, she saw her parents nervously separated, as if she had done something shameful.
"Ah, are you still intimate at such an old age?"
"Not a formality." Gu Dahai said.
"Oh, are you watching TV? Have you had a meal?" Wang Meijuan quickly made an excuse to cover up.
"I don't eat anymore, I want to lose weight. By the way, do you know what I'm doing today?"
Gu Dahai leaned against the sofa and said, "As long as you don't see that old thing, I don't care what you like."
"I've gone on a blind date."
This made Gu Dahai sit up all of a sudden and said, "Why don't you tell me?"
"What are you doing? Are you still going with me?"
"Not adjusting!"
"Oh, what you went there today is the best. It would be a pity that you didn't go there. Then, the information is here, you can read it yourself!"
After Gu Xiaojun went to the room, Gu Dahai and Wang Meijuan began to look through the information, but the more they read it, the more annoying they felt. The blind date information of this daughter was worse than that of each, which made them wonder if they were going to the marriage agency.
Seeing that his parents were not satisfied with these blind dates, Gu Xiaojun smiled and said, "How is it? These are all the best. After seeing these people, I realized how happy I would be if I could marry Ouyang Jian."
Gu Dahai was unhappy and said, "There is no door, wait until I die, you will stand up and wink at his wife.
Wang Meijuan said: "Xiaojun, I went to the park with your dad today. Do you know?"
"have no idea!"
"It just so happens that there is a blind date in the park. It turns out that there are blind dates here every Saturday. We didn't know this long ago. If we had known it, maybe you are all married now, right?"
"What's the matter with your dad? I've made you a young man. He's very nice and works in the bank, right?"
Gu Dahai nodded and said, "Ah!" Then he saw that his wife was still staring at him, and then he remembered and took out Cheng Bin's photo.
Wang Meijuan showed her daughter Cheng Bin's photo and asked Gu Xiaojun to make an appointment with Cheng Bin.
Seeing his parents like this, Gu Xiaojun said, "Dad, do you think I'll go?"
"You love to go or not, you have become an old girl, you can't get married, you are worried that you deserve it."
Gu Xiaojun thought that she was idle and might be able to stimulate Ouyang Jian, so she decided to meet Cheng Bin.
The next day.
Gu Xiaojun met Cheng Bin, and both parents were nervously looking at their children inside from outside the restaurant they agreed to.
Cheng Bin and Gu Xiaojun were honest. In fact, he was still very satisfied with Gu Xiaojun, so he sincerely explained his situation.
Although Gu Xiaojun did not fall in love with Cheng Bin at first sight, after talking to each other, he felt that it was OK.
However, Cheng Bin directly asked Gu Xiaojun about his plans for each other's relationship, whether he was going to have a deeper relationship or to gradually get to know each other.
Gu Xiaojun asked, "Is there any difference?"
"Of course there is. This first one is to be a lover, this second one is to be a friend, and of course the second one is not that there is no chance to get around the first one."
Gu Xiaojun suddenly fell silent. In fact, she was not ready to start a new relationship so soon. And looking at Cheng Bin in front of her, there were several figures circling in her mind, sometimes it was her ex-boyfriend Chen Fang, sometimes it was Ouyang Jian, and suddenly Zhao Shucheng's figure appeared.
This surprised Gu Xiaojun because the first two were their boyfriends, but why did Zhao Shucheng appear and compare it with Cheng Bin?
Cheng Bin asked the waiter to give fresh orange juice to the three parents who were following outside, waiting for Gu Xiaojun's reply.
Chapter completed!