Seeing Gao Junling start cutting clothes, He Wenyuan wanted to speak, but turned his back to Gao Junling, looked out the window and said, "Sister, I can't sleep these days!" "Are you happy? Let me tell you, everyone is the same. No one can't sleep from a big girl to a little wife, and I can't sleep at that time."
"No, I'm a little scared."
"What are you afraid of?"
He Wenyuan said: "I don't know, I'm just scared, I don't know what to do."
Gao Junling said comfortingly: "Don't be afraid, don't worry too much. Hongchang is a good person, and will treat you well and take care of you for the rest of his life. You are not like my sister... My sister was afraid at that time. Houdunzi and I were young, and we lived a deep and shallow life. We have not been here. If you live with Hongchang, we must have lived a sweeter life than honey."
Gao Junling wanted to say that when she was with the backstand, she was about to have sex on the first night when her father and her family came to catch the adulterer. At that time, she threw the bare-butt Hudunzi directly into the river. It was the cold winter month. After Houdunzi climbed out of the river, she was already a useless person.
After so many years, the two have lived a couple without a husband and wife. Gao Junling always felt that it was because of her family that Houdunzi Bai Qingshan became like this, so she always felt guilty and felt a little pity for this husband who could not be a man.
Bai Qingshan has filed for divorce, but Gao Junling doesn't want to divorce. She feels that she is responsible, and they are not without feelings, so she has been here for so many years.
In the eyes of others, they are examples of love, and only they themselves know the ups and downs of it. She had thought about telling others about her difficulties, but every time she spoke, she couldn't say it.
After all, this is not a glorious thing. Her husband is a useless person. If others know about it, she will only make her husband a laughing stock in other people's mouths. She hopes that the two of them did not choose to elope at that time, but instead proposed marriage to marry a man, just like Zhao Shucheng and He Wenhui now, living an ordinary life.
He Wenyuan didn't know that Gao Junling's seemingly happy marriage had an unknown side, but instead said: "Sister, how did my brother-in-law treat you? Isn't it very good?"
Gao Junling was stunned for a moment and said, "It's okay, but you will definitely live a better life than your sister."
"Okay, let's not talk about it. Let's try your wedding dress first to see if it fits."
Gao Junling didn't want to mention this topic anymore. After all, no matter what, her marriage was not considered happy, and her life with Houdunzi was just a respectful person, and there was still some difference from normal couples.
When Zhao Shucheng came back from get off work, the first time he opened the door, he saw that the sheets that were originally laid on the bed were missing.
Zhao Shucheng subconsciously thought that He Wenyuan had stole the clothes, but he locked the door and did not give He Wenyuan the key. Why could she come in and take away her bed sheet? Moreover, there was no broken glass in the room, nor was it very messy. It seemed that she had walked in and cleaned up.
Suddenly, Zhao Shucheng remembered that Liu Hongchang had given He Wenhui a room key, but he had never used it. Could it be that He Wenyuan got the key from He Wenhui and came to steal the bed sheet?
Just as Zhao Shucheng was about to settle the score with He Wenyuan, he saw He Wenhui walking in from outside with a pack of things. When he saw the packaging, it was just the fabric of the previous sheet.
Zhao Shucheng couldn't help but frown at He Wenhui and said, "Wenhui, come here, what's going on with this bed sheet?"
He Wenhui didn't expect that Zhao Shucheng would come back first than him, and had already discovered the bed sheets, but he thought that he was married to Zhao Shucheng, so he didn't have any fear.
"Hongchang, you are back, and I'm still going to tell you. I think this bed sheet is too wasteful, and Wenyuan has not had new clothes, so I took the bed sheet and made two clothes with Wenyuan. Look, Sister Junling's skills are very good."
Zhao Shucheng suppressed his anger and said, "Wenhui, do you know that this is the newlywed bed sheet I prepared?"
"I know, Hongchang, don't be angry about this."
Zhao Shucheng said: "I'm not angry, of course I'm not angry. What's there to be angry about? As long as you don't demolish this house, my house is also yours, and you can do whatever else you want."
Seeing He Wenhui breathing a sigh of relief, Zhao Shucheng continued, "But Wenhui, I think sometimes you are too spoiled with your younger brothers and sisters. You are now the one who sets the door and erects on your family. You must learn to discipline your children. If you do something wrong, you must say it and make another blow. In this way, you can let them know their mistakes and just spoil them, and sooner or later, let them think that all this is justified."
"When we are at home, we may not care about them, but outside, others will not treat them like this. Have you ever heard a saying that spoiling a child is like killing a child?"
He Wenhui was a little unhappy when she heard this and said, "Hongchang, how could you say that? They are my younger brothers and sisters. I am wrong to treat them well? And I told you that this is my own idea. Wenyuan is quite pitiful. He has never worn any new clothes in the past few years. Girls have grown up so old, so it is normal for me to be so beautiful. This time I will think that I have added a new clothes to her, and I have one myself. Even if it is not for Wenyuan, you should give me two new clothes, and I will give one to Wenyun. OK?"
Zhao Shucheng smiled and said, "You should be very clear about whether it is right or wrong. You want to be good to them, of course it is okay, but you don't know what the fastest way to destroy a Hazi? That is to make him live a comfortable life, keep pampering her and pampering her hard."
"Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, a death row prisoner met his mother for the last time before he died. When his mother came, he told his mother that he wanted to use this mother's milk again. The mother agreed to this request in a grief, but the death row prisoner actually bit off his mother's Nako."
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! "Do you know why? The death row prisoner said a viciously to his mother, he hated his mother, and gave him whatever he wanted since he was a child, no matter what he did, no matter what he did, no matter whether he was right or wrong, he never said no. If he had disciplined him well when he was a child, he would not have reached this point today, so the death row prisoner hated his mother."
"The starting point of spoiling is love, but the end point is hatred. This is why spoiling children is like killing children. If you really feel sorry for your younger brothers and sisters, don't regard spoiling as pampering. You must grasp this standard. Whether it is buying things or other things, don't meet their needs. Instead, you must let them learn to control themselves, learn to distinguish right from wrong, and understand what is right, what is wrong, what can be done, and what cannot be done."
"As the saying goes, poor children are already in their family, but I didn't see this from Wenyuan and Wentao. Even Wenda is the same. You know very well what your family is like before I came. But Wenda also has to raise puppies, which is to grab food from adults. If you are really good to your children, even if you promise to raise puppies, you should tell him what kind of responsibility they should reduce. For example, to feed puppies, you have to squeeze out a part of Wenda's own monthly food as puppies' dog food, instead of letting the whole family bear it together. You also have to let Wenda take care of the puppies by himself, bathe the puppies, and so on. But have you told Wenda about these?"
He Wenhui didn't expect that Zhao Shucheng would say so much at once, and his eyes turned red, saying, "Liu Hongchang, are you? Didn't I just make two clothes with the bed sheets? Are you talking about it all the time? How do I educate my younger brothers and sisters? It's my own business, and you don't have to worry about it!"
Zhao Shucheng smiled and said, "He Wenhui, remember what you said just now. If your younger brother and sister have something to do in the future, don't come to me for help."
"Of course I know what I'm talking about. I will take care of my own brothers and sisters."
When Zhao Shucheng saw He Wenhui crying, he went back to his home, shook his head, closed the door, and prepared to rest.
In fact, the words of Zhao Shucheng and He Wenhui were heard by everyone in the yard just now, but they all felt that Zhao Shucheng was right, spoiling his son is like killing his son. Although his children love him, they are not as common as those of the He family. Not to mention whether others are willing to raise dogs in the yard or not, but before, He Wentao broke Zhao Shucheng's glass before, the He family actually chose to calm down the situation and did not let He Wentao admit his mistake, which made the people in the yard already have some opinions about He Wentao.
Of course, He Wentao is still a child after all, and they just think the child is naughty. They said that this is also the family affairs between the He family and Zhao Shucheng, so they did not get involved.
However, although they only heard a few words about Zhao Shucheng's educational philosophy, they all admitted in their hearts that this is indeed beneficial to children. Loving children is different from spoiling children, and they will not allow their children to agree to any conditions.
Of course, some people think that He Wenyuan is a little ignorant. Before he can hold a wedding, he takes the bed sheets prepared by his husband to make clothes, and gives them to his family, rather than to his husband. If they had changed their family, they would have been in trouble.
These days, cloth is not something you can buy casually, but needs to be purchased with a ticket. And it requires a lot of money. Most people are not that luxurious at all. In addition to children, adults may not have a new piece of clothing for three to five years. Many children’s clothes do not spend money on cloth to make clothes themselves, but ask relatives and friends to wear old clothes for their children, or change adults’ clothes.
Chapter completed!