Chapter 56 Friends and girlfriends!
"sit!"
The two sat down opposite each other.
"I want to say first, I don't have many friends. Let me take a look at it. There are several types of friends. First of all, we are still students, and we must focus on learning. My first type of friend is a friend in learning. This kind of friend is just a simple relationship in learning. The basis for making friends with friends is not the quality of grades or the character. There is only one thing, that is, learning is the focus on other aspects, and other aspects are auxiliary."
"I believe that not only your parents, but my parents are the same. They pay great attention to the above-mentioned friends, and birds of birds of a feather flock together. We all understand, but whether we can do it is another question. I believe that your understanding of me is basically in learning. We have never spoken, only knowing that we are classmates. Now, classmates will be like this in the future. The relationship between this classmate will not change due to time."
"But it is different to be friends. Friends who are friends based on their classmates have simple thoughts and no conflicts of interest."
"I am a more realistic person. If you are a friend of mine, you must have a prerequisite, that is, study hard. If one day, you no longer focus on your studies, I will gradually alienate you. At that time, all that is left will be a simple relationship between classmates. The meeting will be simple and polite on the surface. I hope you can think clearly!"
Almost all the students present in the class could hear clearly what Lin Yu said. The expressions were different. Looking at Lin Yu's artificial appearance, some looked unbelievable, some looked contemptuous in their eyes, and some opened their mouths and were shocked...
Such words should not be spoken by people of their age now.
"There is another second type, which is a simple friend, which is what you call going to school together, going to eat together after school, playing football, and playing basketball together. There is no prerequisite. This kind of friend can usually be with friends for the rest of their lives as long as they have a good personality and have common interests and hobbies! This kind of friend must shoulder certain responsibilities that friends should have. For example, if you have a friend who reads books all day but causes physical deterioration, you need to take on the so-called responsibility of a friend, advise this friend to exercise. For example, your friend is very hard-working to read Piaotian and other things, you need to persuade him to study well."
"This is the responsibility of friends!"
"But if the other party doesn't listen to advice and says you meddlers, and still do whatever you want, ignore you, or even scold you, what will you do? Will you still regard him as your friend? Will you insist on your responsibility as a friend?"
Lin Yu suddenly changed his mind and asked a few questions.
Lu Rongfeng was stunned for a moment.
If this kind of problem is about a college student or a person in society, they may not care about it. After all, they are friends and have experienced the age of turmoil. They can understand the other party's mood when saying such words, can also guess, and even experience the mood after saying such words.
It is not that Lu Rongfeng has experienced such things. A person who likes to make friends since childhood, from childhood to adulthood, has not had hundreds of friends, or at least dozens of friends. So many friends are still in contact with each other but not much is left. Most of them are gradually fading because of distance. However, many of them are separated because of this reason. Some are not sure whose fault is it, some are their own fault, some are the other's fault, and some are small conflicts between each other.
silence……
The whole class suddenly became very quiet. If a teacher said this, they would not feel anything. But a peer or his own classmate said this and asked such questions is worth thinking about.
After all, everyone present has their own worldview and values that are close to being formed.
I have to admit that it is really a severe impact on my own thoughts.
Most students of this age will not consider so much when making friends. They will get along when they get along when they get along, and they will part when they don’t get along. Friends have always been synonymous with joy and games, and they will not bring them such heavy thinking.
Lin Yu just paused for a while, and did not wait for Lu Rongfeng to speak, and continued his words: "There is also a kind of friend, the most common kind of friend I have ever made."
"It's just a playmate, a friend in the game, and is also the most common friends on the market. There is also a premise for this kind of friend, that is, a friend who makes friends by playing, and a friend who is maintained by playing. There are good and bad friends in this kind of friend, and good play makes good friends, and bad play is a friend. As for the difference between good and bad, it varies from person to person, and everyone has different opinions."
"Everyone understands these things, but it is very difficult to really distinguish them clearly. I have always been familiar with them first, and I have never said them. As the saying goes, if one more friend is more, you are the first person to formally propose to be friends with me. To be honest, we are not familiar with them at all, so I must make it clear first."
"After all, I came here and went to high school. Although this school is not ideal, my goal is to get into a better university. So I don't plan to play now. If you still want to make friends with me, you can only choose one of the first two options!"
Time passed by seconds, and Lin Yu looked at Lu Rongfeng with a fierce look!
Lu Rongfeng was very uncomfortable. Although there were not many people in the class, there were more than twenty people, and his two cousins were watching him. Waiting for his answer, if he made a choice now, it would be equivalent to more than twenty witnesses. If he could not meet the "friend" requests from Lin Yu in the future, he would definitely be looked down upon.
"Where is the girlfriend?"
Just as Lu Rongfeng was about to speak, Wan Lifei next to Lin Yu suddenly said something, which attracted everyone to look at him.
Lin Yu also looked at Wan Lifei, feeling helpless. This guy’s IQ is not ordinary people and his thoughts are too active!
"Which kind of friend does your girlfriend belong to?" Wan Lifei's expression did not change at all. He ignored everything and asked faintly.
"When it comes to girlfriends, we have to mention boyfriends. After all, boyfriends and girlfriends are an inseparable whole. When they appear, they appear at the same time, and when they disappear, they disappear at the same time. It is impossible to exist alone..." When Lin Yu said halfway, Wan Lifei once spoke. This guy relied on his little cleverness to pick bones in eggs.
"What about love triangles? For example, if one woman leaves, don't the other one still exist?" Wan Lifei smiled slightly, looking a little disgusting.
However, Lin Yu has not taken this little cleverness seriously yet. He has learned Ma Zhe!
"In the love triangle, there is a person with a dual identity. Since you say they are two women and one man, it means that this man exists as two boyfriends. Since one is separated, the corresponding one of his identities will inevitably disappear. There is nothing wrong with understanding! The girl who left lost the boy's girlfriend's identity, and the boy also lost the girl's boyfriend's identity!" Lin Yu said.
"I heard that you are chasing a girl in the next class. Do you want her to be your girlfriend?" Wan Lifei asked with a smile.
"Yes! Is there any problem with this?" Lin Yu answered.
"Didn't you just say that your goal is to get into a better university and not make friends with players?" It turned out that Wan Lifei's trick was here. He was just talking about games with Lin Yu, and then he heard Lin Yu say that he didn't want to make friends with games. He felt that he was mocking him, and a sense of anger appeared in his heart, which made Lin Yu embarrassed.
Lin Yu knew in his heart that if he could not even imagine such a simple purpose, he would be really sorry for his two-life memory...
"Do you think having a boyfriend or girlfriend is just a play?" Lin Yu asked.
"Isn't it? Isn't it fun to fall in love? We are just high school students now. Isn't it because of curiosity or fun? Otherwise, why would the school prohibit students from falling in love?" Wan Lifei said one by one, and the students next to him also nodded, thinking that what he said made sense.
"In your opinion, falling in love is just playing, which will affect learning, right?"
"yes!"
"Do you know that you can't be allowed to fall in love in college?"
"prohibit!"
"Then why so many college students are in love? Don't they need to study? Don't they know that dating will affect their studies? Are those college students not afraid of not being able to graduate? Are they not afraid of not being able to find a good job without a diploma? But why are there still so many college students in love? Even if they are admitted to Tsinghua University and Beijing University, there are many people in love. But the ban is prohibited, but why don't their schools and homes stop it?"
"This..." Although Wan Lifei is a smart person, he is still a sixteen-year-old boy after all. He is confused about the relationship and is not even mature enough to understand what is going on.
Lin Yu stood up from the seat, walked to the podium, picked up a piece of chalk, and wrote on the blackboard.
‘Basic knowledge of law and ideological and moral cultivation!’
After finishing writing, Lin Yu stood on the podium, like a teacher.
Chapter completed!