In-depth consultation?

Sun Wen was silent and didn't answer the conversation, and took another sip of wine.

Although he really wanted to try how deep this depth was, he was not in the mood now.

"Don't be timid." Xu Wei shook her head when she saw him, and then she smiled again, "But I'm more interested in you."

It would be more fun to conquer such a man.

"You're just being mean, right?"

"no the same."

"Where is different?" Sun Wen asked.

"I'll find a way to make myself comfortable, you'll find a way to make myself uncomfortable." Xu Wei pointed at him with her finger, and pointed behind her, "The more you can't get it, the more uncomfortable you will be. As long as I encounter something similar, I can replace you."

Sun Wen laughed, "You won't be in your thirties, are you?"

Women, especially those who can take care of themselves, are really hard to tell their age from their appearance.

Not to mention putting on makeup.

“Eighteenth this year.”

"Okay, I believe it."

The two of them didn't say anything anymore. Sun Wen put the cup on the bar and rotated it gently. Xu Wei put the forearm under her neck and leaned against the edge of the bar and looked at him quietly.

The more I look at it, the more interesting it feels.

When the beautiful illusion collapses, the longer the man is, the more thoroughly he will collapse.

"I can come up with an idea for you."

After a long silence, she spoke with a smile.

"What's the idea?" Sun Wen asked.

"The idea of ​​helping you save your relationship."

"Speak up?"

The woman suddenly changed her attitude. He was a little confused about what she was thinking, with obvious suspicion on her face.

Xu Wei didn't care about his attitude, and still kept leaning against the bar, and said, "Do you know what your problem is?"

“What is it?”

"What is the difference between men and women?" Xu Wei did not answer, but asked another question.

"Speak whatever you want to say just by saying something." Sun Wen was too lazy to play puzzles with her.

"I'm helping you analyze the essential problems of your relationship." Xu Wei lazily zipped her nails, "I just talked about Princess Dream. Have you ever seen fairy tales?"

"Of course I've seen it."

"What are the princesses in fairy tales like?"

"Beautiful, gentle... kind... generous, strong..." Sun Wen thought, and at the end he laughed, "All the beauty is added and it's all done."

"What about their way of doing things?"

"Well……"

"Wait." Xu Wei curled her lips and showed a meaningful smile. "Whether the princess is abused by the queen, captured by the dragon, or cast by a witch, they silently bear all the sufferings, and then wait for the prince or warrior to save her. All she has to do is wait."

"Then what?"

"The prince and the warriors are the opposite. They both overcome obstacles, cross thousands of mountains and rivers, and eliminate many difficulties to save the princess."

Xu Wei looked at Sun Wen's thoughtful expression and smiled even more, "This is the difference between a man and a woman."

"Hmm? Men and women?"

"Women are passive, men are proactive. No matter how much suffering a woman suffers, it is difficult for the princess to wake up from her dream, because it is normal for the princess to suffer a little. Sooner or later, there will be a prince to rescue her. If you can't do it, that's because you are not her prince."

She paused and continued, "But men are different. As long as you go out of society and touch the wall a few more times, you will wake yourself up and realize that you are just an ordinary person, neither a prince nor a warrior, but an ordinary mortal, and your dream of marrying a princess will be over."

"So women's standards are almost always upright. Finding a spouse must be better than themselves, and there should not be too many shortcomings. They can ignore all other advantages of a man for a small disadvantage, and then tell him: We are not suitable."

"Men are just the opposite. Most men's standards are downward alignment and do not need to be very good. As long as they can see through it, with one or two advantages, they can ignore all other shortcomings, fall in love with this woman, and then pursue it."

Sun Wen lit the cigarette and thought for a while, "Is it a bit absolute?"

"Of course, what I'm talking about is the majority, there will definitely be exceptions." Xu Wei did not deny it, but just looked at him and said, "But you, and your ex-girlfriend, are not that exception."

"continue."

"Your ex-girlfriend, who regards the truth of "no reason for falling in love" as obviously, is not awakened from dreams. You can be unreasonable when you act coquettishly in love, but you always care about right or wrong, you have to be coaxed and spoiled unconditionally..."

Xu Wei smiled and shook her head, "Once you can't do it, she will think you are not her prince - that's the root of your problem."

"What can I do if I don't coax it?" Sun Wen asked.

"For people like your girlfriend, it's right to coax people, but you shouldn't try to reason first, and you can only coax people when they can't make sense... Human beings have evolved for billions of years before they have evolved such a perfect brain, but she is reluctant to use it. She is too lazy to even talk about the truth. She just wants to be coaxed and spoiled like a pet. Why do you want to reason with her?"

“…”

"The relationship between you two has not been equal from the beginning. Maybe you sometimes feel that you are very humble in this relationship, but in fact the humble one is not you, but her. She has turned herself into a vassal of a man. You don't have to reason with her, just coax and deceive her. Thinking about it this way, will you suddenly become enlightened?"

"..." Sun Yat-sen smoked without saying anything.

Xu Wei looked at him with a smile, "Now you know what to do?"

"what to do?"

"I just said so much." She shook her head, "The reason for your breakup is that you are not scumbag enough."

"Not enough?"

"As long as the cake you drew for her is big enough, the words you said are sweet enough, the lies are real, and the spoiled enough, she cannot live without you - you are not her prince, but you have to pretend to be a prince."

“…”

"I am used to being spoiled and scammers when it comes to money. I'll try to cheat me if I'm going to teach you these things?"

"I don't want to just play." Sun Yat-sen frowned.

"But you want to get back together." Xu Wei shrugged indifferently, "The more you spoil her, the more she can't live without you. Even if you break up again in the future, her new boyfriend will not be able to stand her, and she will come back."

"is that so?"

"Think about it, is it that I just broke up like this, let her try and make mistakes again and again, and then find another scumbag, or do you do it yourself?"

"...I actually think what you said makes sense." Sun Wen turned the cigarette butts and took a big sip of wine. "So, it's all my fault to reason with her?"

"People reasoning is a fuse, you have to learn to cheat." Xu Wei shook her head, "She wants an lv bag. You reason with her and say you want to save money and consider it for the future... Isn't this stupid? You have to learn how to prevent her from buying it, and you can still be happy."

"There is such an operation?" Sun Wen was stunned.

"Of course there is, as long as you make her happy, she will naturally be unable to live without you."

When Xu Wei saw Sun Wen’s wine glass bottom, she raised her hand and called the waiter to add another glass to him.

"Thank you." Sun Yat-sen did not refuse, "But what about the future?"

"I only teach you how to recover it. You will depend on yourself for the future."

A hint of playfulness appeared in Xu Wei's eyes.

after?

This kind of love is essentially about one person using words to make another person happy. When another person is happy, he will use depth to make him happy too.

It's just a transaction, where does it come from?

"Then how should I start?"

"What's going on with you now?"

"Now..."

The two continued to drink and talk.
Chapter completed!