Chapter 37 Transcending the Self (2)
"You have done it too?" After hearing Yang Kai say this, Yi Xuan's eyes lit up: "Then how did you surpass it?"
"Well, when I was a special forces, I was not training in combat. Because I was considering the comprehensive quality of soldiers, the main training contents include shooting, concealment, guns, etc., and because now they are modern combat, these events are more important. But you also know that I like kung fu and have learned fighting for many years before entering the army. So compared to those events that I am not very good at, I always thought of winning the first place in combat training, but there was an instructor in our team, known as the Iron Man, who was always better than me.
"At this time, Yang Kai shook his head, as if he was still a little worried about this matter. "Every time I was beaten by him in a battle, I spent a lot of spare time practicing hard, and I always hoped to defeat him one day, not a blow. At that time, in our team, I called fighting skills second, no one dared to be the first, but strangely, every time I watched him fight, I felt that I could defeat him, but when I tried, I felt panic, and I always felt like I would be knocked down by him at any time. As a result, I made a mistake when I panic, and then I was beaten up again."
Yi Xuan nodded, thinking that it was really similar to my situation: "What happened later?"
"For a while after that, I had already given up defeating him, but I always had a sense of strength in my heart. As the saying goes, there is no first in literature and no second in martial arts. It is not unreasonable. People who practice martial arts always have the spirit of not giving in, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve results.
At that time, I remember one time on a weekend, all the instructors in the city went home, and no one cared about us sneaking out to drink in the middle of the night. As a result, a comrade went out to use the toilet and suddenly ran back to say that Feng Ji team was coming.
In the army, if you meet the chief of your headquarters while drinking, you will say a few words with a stern face, but it is usually fine. At most, it will be fine. The Fengji Group is different. If you specifically arrest this, if you want the entire army to criticize it, it will be a taboo of our political commissar and there will definitely be no good results.
So when we heard this, we were so scared that we jumped out of the window. After we went out, we ran away separately, but at this time the people from the inspection team had arrived. Think about it, before we could enter the house, several people jumped out of the window, and we knew what was going on at first glance, and we immediately shouted and started chasing. In order to run away, I kept getting into the dark alley. Unfortunately, I was unlucky and didn't know the terrain. I ran into a dead end and was blocked by one of them. At that time, the alley was pitch black, and I could only see a rough outline. I couldn't recognize who was who was. I took it as soon as I saw it, and I took it over and knocked it down. I thought that fighting energy saving was that the man was not even next to me, so I lay down on the ground. With the alcohol, I gave him a violent hammer. As a result, when the team was training again the next day, guess what?" Yang Kai looked at Yi Xuan with a proud look on his face.
"What's wrong?" Although I vaguely guessed the end of the story, in order not to destroy the atmosphere, Yi Xuan asked casually.
"I found that our Iron Man instructor had a bruised nose and swollen face. Later, I found out in the hall that the night before, he was caught by the Fengji group. He was one of the people who went to catch the drinks. According to him, he was beaten by a group of people, so he was injured on his face. After that, the team was checked for a long time, but it was impossible to me at that time. Everyone knows the fighting skills of Iron Man. Even if there are too many people, I don't believe who can run away without any injuries after fighting him. Looking at the entire team, I am the only one with this strength. So,
I concluded that the person who smacked the iron man was me, he was the one I beaten in the alley last night. How strange do you think this is? I usually don’t have his opponent, but when I didn’t know that the opponent was him, I actually knocked him down with one move. So I found that this iron man was actually not that powerful at all, and my strength should be able to knock him down. As a result, I passed the test successfully and won the title of No. 1 in the entire army. Later, I represented my troops in internal competitions."
Yang Kai was very happy to say this, but after saying this, he seemed to think of something again, and shook his head with a smile: "But it's funny, a long time later, one day the instructor of another team came to talk to me, and then I realized that the person I beat that night was him, not Iron Man, and that person also discovered me with a clutch when I came to see me fight. However, because the matter has been a long time ago, I didn't do anything to me. Only then did I realize that I can't beat Iron Man, but it was just my psychological effect. This is the psychological barrier you mentioned."
Yi Xuan stared at his eyes, and after hearing Yang Kai finally finished telling his glorious history, he couldn't help but feel shocked: "But you still defeated your instructor?"
"That's right, so many times confidence is very important. What about you? What about psychological disorders do you have?" Yang Kai took a sip of water again and asked at Yi Xuan.
Yi Xuan was even more worried when he heard this. Yang Kai thought he had defeated the instructor by chance and broke through the psychological barrier, but what could he do? He was playing a game. Could it be that both sides blindfolded their eyes and defeated him?
"Oh, your example may not work well with me. I'm in other ways."
"No, actually, psychological disorders sometimes do not refer to a certain thing, but a breakthrough in character. For example, if you have been bullied by someone, one day you suddenly explode and knock this person down, and you will develop a strong sense of self-confidence, as if nothing in the world is impossible, so you can also rely on breakthroughs in another range to stimulate you to break through the psychological barrier. It's not that I'm boasting, but in fact, many people's confidence will increase after learning to fight, because when you have a kind of strength, you will feel more confident in doing things. So you can fight to win this confidence. Hahaha." Yang Kai's last sentence was naturally a joke, and he didn't take it seriously after he finished speaking. At this moment, another coach waved to him and called him over. Yang Kai said to Yi Xuan, "Then you can rest for a while before continuing to practice?" He said and stood up and walked over.
But after hearing Yang Kai's words, Yi Xuan fell into deep thought. Fighting? Maybe it's really a good idea.
Yi Xuan was still absent-minded in the next training. Until he left the club, Yi Xuan was still thinking about how he could transcend himself. Should he fight with Wang Xiaotian? You don’t have to think about it and you know that Wang Xiaotian is definitely not his opponent. Moreover, if you do this, it seems a bit bullying. Besides, the fight has nothing to do with the game skills. Can he really gain confidence from the victory of defeating Wang Xiaotian?
After thinking about it, Yi Xuan felt that the key is that he had to do something that he would not do on weekdays. The so-called transcendence is to surpass himself in any field. For example, he scolded his previous boss in the car that morning. In fact, this is a kind of transcendence, but what he has to do now should be more vigorous than that.
This thing must be exciting enough to break through your previous self. Only in this way can you break through your own psychological barriers. So what are you doing in the past that you dare not do but now you have the ability to do?
After all, in the past, he was just a worthless little white-collar worker. Whether in terms of financial or courage, there were too many things he wanted to do but could not do. Bungee jumping? Yes, reliable. Or go skiing? This is what I have always yearned for. Otherwise, if you go on a mountaineering trip, Yi Xuan found that his ideas seemed to deviate from his original intention. No, these things were not even considered adventures, and at most they were tourism projects.
After scratching his head, since he wants to become an invincible fighter, things should still be done in terms of fighting. Moreover, fighting is the main theme of fighting, just like the games he wants to break through, right, right, that's it.
Yi Xuan drove slowly and followed the butt of the car in front. Although the street was narrow, there were almost all high-end entertainment and leisure places on one street, so there were quite a few cars. Yi Xuan stepped on the brakes and looked at both sides boredly. Suddenly his eyes were fixed.
"Hey, isn't that A Biao?" Although it's been so long, Yi Xuan still remembers A Biao's obscene back. At this time, A Biao was surrounded by four or five people and just got out of the car and walked into a building. He saw his mouth tilted. Although it was already dark, he was still wearing a large frame of sunglasses and a gray suit draped over his shoulders. He walked and shook his way, which was very arrogant.
Yi Xuan instinctively lowered his body in the seat, afraid that he would accidentally find him, and his eyes were staring at him with good eyes, afraid that he would suddenly turn around. It turned out that Kai was not the only fighting club on this street. I saw that A Biao and those people were entering a dazzling sign hanging on the building with "Free Fighting" written in fancy fonts. It seemed that it was also a fighting club. However, compared with Kai's one, the decoration seemed too unclassified. The colorful one was a bit like KTV, bathing and other places. No wonder he never noticed it.
Watching the figures of several people walk in, Yi Xuan breathed a sigh of relief, and then sat up straight from the seat. Thinking about it, no matter how good he hides, it is useless, but his car is swaying there. Fortunately, he didn't look here.
While Yi Xuan was secretly grateful, he was thinking about whether to spend some money or change the color of the car, otherwise wouldn’t he always be so worried in the future.
Feared and scared? Yi Xuan's heart moved. Wait a moment, isn't this the best opportunity to break through himself?
Chapter completed!