Chapter 209: Farmhouse Trivia
"Yeah!" Now Yang Tian's mind was not on the head of the big bird named Cang Zhu, but was wondering why the bird flew here! Environmental pollution? Or climate change?
If it is environmental pollution, it is really possible. China is a polluting country. Many times, everyone can see from foreign newspapers and news. Not only news newspapers, but also everyone has a deep understanding. Let me give you the simplest example. People who like fishing in cities know that there is no wild river to talk about in cities, and there are only countless odor ditches that emit odor. However, since the beginning of this year, the country has vigorously rectified pollution problems, such as Chongqing's forests, Chongqing, exhaust emission limits, and closure of heavily polluted enterprises. This policy has really brought new changes to the city. The number of garden-style real estate projects has increased, the number of tree trash cans on both sides of the road has increased, and even the number of aunts with red cloth has increased.
Although half a year is short, the results are not bad. Friends who like to watch TV often see uninvited guests coming to XXX's home, monkeys and squirrels coming from the mountains. There was even a report that said that a pair of birds actually boldly built their bird's nest in the living room of the owner's home.
This kind of thing happened too much than before, and the environment in China has improved a lot better than before. The improvement of personal quality has made people feel a little strange connection with nature. Perhaps this is the best way to prevent human beings from dying early, or perhaps this is the best way to sustainably develop a country.
Yang Tian was deposited in his thoughts, and all kinds of guesses kept flashing in his head. Before he could come up with a result, the phone suddenly rang and disrupted his thinking. He took out the phone and looked at the number, and saw the word "Go Ge" jumping on the screen.
"Hey, what's the matter with Brother Dog?" Yang Tian asked casually.
"Brother is not good, they are arguing, they are arguing!" Chen Jun shouted loudly across the phone.
"There is a quarrel? Who is a quarrel? Are the customers in the hotel?" Yang Tian was puzzled by the beginning and ending words. Could it be that the guests in the hotel started to quarrel?
"No, Aunt Zhang and Aunt Li started arguing on the opposite hill! Alas. I can't tell you clearly now, come and have a look! You can tell what's going on!" Chen Jun didn't know what to say, the village chief in the village is not as good as Yang Tian. Yang Tian said he was the honorary village chief, but the trivial matter in the village was not just like that because of the word honor.
"Okay, I'll come here right away!" Yang Tian shook his head helplessly, and then hurried out.
It is true that the villagers in Tianchen Villa are united and harmonious, but united and harmonious sometimes trigger some inconspicuous small conflicts. The so-called small conflicts are not conflicts, but just a strong reaction to everyone's self-awareness. For example, this time, Aunt Zhang and Aunt Li did not have any conflicts. They would not fight because of anything, but the two sides quarreled for only children from each other.
Speaking of children, let’s talk about education. Nowadays, children are precious and do the education of children as the top priority in these wealthy families. It’s not like Yang Tian and his children’s homework when they were young. The fight between the two children was even more common. I don’t know if you have heard this sentence, hit the in-laws! The typing in tn is a vivid verb. It means to walk more and play more. There is another meaning to fight more. In-laws now refer to both parents who are in love or married, but at that time they were just simple brothers and sisters. It is common for children to fight ignorant, but in less than a day, it will be at most a day and a half before the two are as reconciled as before. Even the relationship is closer. Yang Tian and Gou Ge have fought a lot when they were young, but adults have laughed at each other. What do children know?
But now it’s different. The children in their own family see more than the treasure. They hold them in their palms and are afraid of falling. They shout in their mouths for fear of melting. When they hear the children crying, the adults coax and hug them. They even say a few words to the other child. So Aunt Zhang and Aunt Li feel uncomfortable when they see their children crying. Both sides say a few words to each other’s child. Both sides think that the other is wrong and think that their children are right. Now it looks good. The war spread from the children to the adults, and they are not convinced. It’s so lively when you come and go.
Yang Tian stood beside him and asked in detail what everyone saw, then touched his nose with his hands. He thought that this good person was hard to be a good person, so he actually pulled everyone in for this little thing. Moreover, these two aunts are not fuel-efficient. If you put your words to the other side, you may be scolding your back behind your back.
"I'll tell you two aunts, can you say less? This book is not a big deal. After you two make such a fuss, small things will become big. Can you calm down a little? Listen to me to say a few more words!" Yang Tian looked at the two people who were blushing in front of him and said with a smile.
"Xiaotian, you just happened to judge the aunt. The fight between the two children is like you said. It's not a big deal. When I saw their children beat my child and the child cried so hard, I pretended to kiss her child and hit her child. I didn't hit her. It's that kind of thing. Everyone knows what's going on when coaxing the child. But your Aunt Li always said that I hit the child hard, and you said I'm wronged or not!..." Aunt Zhang pulled Yang Tian with one hand, and then talked a lot.
"Xiaotian, listen to me. I am a decade old. Can't you tell me that you can't tell whether to coax or beat a child? Look at the mark on my grandson's hand. Is this light hit? Does it look like a light hit? Is it only your grandson the treasure, and my grandson is a grass!" Aunt Li hugged his grandson in his arms, and asked everyone to see the red mark on her grandson's hand, and pointed at Aunt Zhang and said loudly.
So before Yang Tian could speak, the two started arguing again. This one said your child was wrong, and that said your child was not right, you would be an adult, and the two did not give Yang Tian a chance to speak, so where did you fight to the death?
"Stop! Stop! Stop! I'll tell you, two aunts, who do you want me to listen to? Can't you calm down a little and let me say a few words? If you keep fighting like this, you may not be able to fight until dark." Yang Tian waved his hand and quickly stopped both sides and shouted loudly.
"Well! Xiaotian, what do you think?" This time the two of them have been surprisingly always. This matter really needs to be resolved. Although it is not a big deal, each family does not want to lose to each other. People live a life of one's face and a skin. Even if they are wrong, they have to argue with each other. But after all, they are people from the villagers. After all, they are from the villagers. Not to mention that this matter is not big. Yang Tian is doing things fairly, and everyone is convinced of what he is saying.
"Well! Then I'll say it! If you say something wrong, don't take it to your heart, two aunts. Since we live together, there is no grudge that cannot be resolved, nor does it have the resentment of life and death. If you look up and see each other, life still needs the care of each other. After all, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, you should say it!" Yang Tian asked with a smile.
"Yes!" The two nodded in agreement.
"So since everyone thinks so why do you still have to quarrel? Do you think such a quarrel is necessary? Besides, the child has not been hurt, Aunt Li, don't explain, Xiaolong's hand is obviously red when you were excited just now. I still know the importance of Aunt Zhang, who is so big. Of course, Aunt Zhang, you also have something wrong. Children need to coax, but we need to coax them meaningfully. When you see the child crying, you will mess with them, which will spoil the child. I believe everyone is familiar with reading newspapers now
You are used to it! Why do you read the so-called rich second generation and rich third generation in the newspapers who make more mistakes than usual? In fact, this has a lot to do with the education of children." Yang Tian gave a bowl of water and told the aunts on both sides all the time, and did not give them time to refute them. He compared the things about educating children. The villa is not worse than the cities now, and everyone has read the newspapers. He used what everyone saw to guide everyone and let everyone use the good or bad to judge their own educational problems.
After a little breath, Yang Tian continued: "Actually, I suggest that everyone should try to raise their children as much as possible. The so-called "release" is like when we were young. You can be naughty as long as it is not too hot, and don't be heartbroken when you cry. Who hasn't cried when you are young? We just need to give correct guidance when your children are wrong and tell them the good and bad novels. I believe that such education is much more obedient and sensible than the children taught now. As the saying goes, the poor children are early. Why do they become a family early because they have a sense of responsibility since childhood and have a self-knowledge that ordinary people cannot understand since childhood. Give less favor to children, give more space for free to play and think, and they will also have more ability to know and judge themselves. It is not easy for children to educate them, but adults must control the degree of education and do not even understand why they should educate their children like this. So what qualifications do you have to say that others have been wrong in education?"
"Haha, this is not my words. This is a summary of the experiences made by a large number of educational experts and practices on countless successful parents. This is based on scientific evidence. If you don't believe the two aunts, you can ask the children's parents to search for information online to see if I'm right!" Yang Tian didn't dare to say that this was his own personal experience, so he had to put this set of rhetoric on the experts. He was afraid that this young man would not have the ability to convince. In the end, he would say something, "You are not married yet, you know nothing!"
Chapter completed!