Zi Lan asked Shuhui and Xuan'er to go to the farm together. The important thing was to ask if Shuhui's sister had a good impression of Han. She had never seen Yu Han.

The two families had already made a verbal agreement and exchanged their tokens for the engagement, but the Geng Tie had not been changed yet, because the second uncle and second aunt had gone out to release them and could only come back on the Dragon Boat Festival. We discussed waiting for the couple to come back to witness the engagement ceremony in person. The engagement ceremony would be slightly later.

Cui Hao came early in the morning and wanted to send their grandparents and grandchildren to the farm to play.

"Why are you so happy?"

Cui Hao was wearing a stone-blue robe and a jade belt tied with his waist. He was so handsome that he was so handsome.

"My sister Shuhui is about to settle down and has already made a verbal statement. Do you think it's a big happy event?"

"That's a happy event, who are you talking about?"

Cui Hao also heard about Yang Shuhui from the Yang family, and I wonder how many people want to ask for marriage.

"Yu Jia, do you know Yu Han?"

Zilan asked in the carriage.

"Oh, I've heard of it, but I don't know it. The circles of civil and military affairs are different, and the gap is still very large. Most of me are classmates from the college who can say a few words. Almost all the noble families greet each other when they meet and don't have too deep friendship."

Zi Lan nodded and thought of these situations, just asking casually.

Cui Hao thought about it before speaking, "But I heard that the Yu family rules are very strict and the upbringing of their descendants is very strict. His family is also a family with ups and downs, and he knows a lot of things. The important thing is that his children and grandchildren are not allowed to take concubines and marry young people, so the house is very clean."

"That's okay. The important thing is that the family style is rigorous and the family style is clean. The children who are tutored by such families cannot go far."

Zilan believes more about this. You can’t live a life with a man’s love alone, but it depends on the family style and the character of the man. Things that are soaked in education since childhood are not easy to change, so family style and tutoring are very important.

"This is true. The rules of the military general's family are indeed a bit looser, which is also a huge hidden danger. However, Yu's family is famous for its strict rules, otherwise his family would not be able to stand firm forever, and the emperors of the two dynasties should pay attention to it."

"Then I'll feel much more at ease."

Zi Lan nodded with a smile.

After going to the farm all the way, Cui Hao took a break and left, and he had to go to the Hanlin Academy to organize the booklets.

Shuhui and Xuan'er had just arrived. When the second grandma was tired of riding in the carriage, she went to rest first. The third grandma stayed at home to organize Shishi's dowry and counted it again to see if she could get in the competition. She didn't have time to come.

"Sister, have you and Yu Han really decided?"

Zilan and Shuhui, the three sisters, were nestled in her room, leaning against the big kang and talking.

Shuhui nodded, "Well, it's decided."

"Have you seen people? How about it, what's the first impression?"

Xuan'er spoke quickly, "Sister, I tell you that Yu Han is very good-looking and competes with Young Master Cui. She has a good temperament. She is a bit like Zi Yan's cousin. Lang Lang has a very good spirit."

"Oh! Is the evaluation very high? Then I must meet you if I have the chance. What do you think, sister?"

"It's okay, my first impression is pretty good. I have a good attitude and etiquette and speak in a proper manner. The rules of Yujia are very strict, and I am willing to do it in my heart.

For me, this is the best family I can choose. The Yu family is deeper than my family. Yu Han is not the eldest son, so I don’t have to work as hard as you in the future. I am still very satisfied with it.”

Shuhui's face turned slightly red, but she still generously analyzed her thoughts.

Zi Lan thought about it and nodded. The circle of aristocratic families is not big, and there are only four or five families with better family traditions, and there are really not many choices.

As for the family of civil servants, it is not true that they are separated from the family of military generals by a dimensional wall. Although the relatives are not so strict, in fact, when the two surnames are good, they must consider their political stance.

For example, her family and the Yang family are both related and have the same position, that is, they are neutral and loyal to the imperial affairs, rather than any prince.

When you talk about relatives, you must consider these things. Old families are neutral. First, you can’t move such a big family for a while. People have the right to choose neutrality and do not rely on both sides;

The second is to consider the long-term family. Although there is no huge benefit from the Dragon Master, it is also less arrogant and avoids the crisis of being unconscious. Erlang can be more motivated and hard to learn well.

Neutrality means that you may be treated coldly by the new emperor, but after all, as long as you are capable and successful, you will still have a place. After all, Neutrality does not have a grudge against the new emperor, but it is just not a caring minister.

"You are right. I prefer a family with a clean and honest family tradition. Such a family has strict and relatively guaranteed children. This is much safer than a verbal promise. Just like me, my parents chose the Cui family for me because the family rules prohibit the taking of concubines.

Although girls may be more difficult and will be questioned by some wives, the family is promising and the girls will not worry about not being able to find a good family.”

"You are right. Grandfather and grandmother also talked to me carefully, and parents wrote back a letter. I myself think that the Yu family is my best choice, and I am not afraid of you making jokes. Yu Han is good-looking and I like it. No matter what kind of character, will he look good and please the eye?"

Shuhui covered her mouth and smiled embarrassedly. This is also the reason why she has a better first impression. In addition, Yu Jiajia’s rules are very strict, so she feels more willing.

The family of military generals is different from the family of civil servants. The first punishment for family rules is to beat military sticks. The stick is as thick as a child's arms and serious hardwood, one stick can break your legs.

There are usually not too many military sticks to beat people, and twenty military sticks will kill people. This is still a body that practices martial arts all year round. Generally, the small punishment and great commandment is the Five Army sticks, which is enough for you to recuperate for a month and give you a better memory.

"As long as you want, couples have to live their lives. If they don't like them at all, it will be difficult to live a good life. If they don't like them in their hearts, they will keep twisting. It's easy to have a good impression of them.

When you get married and have a formal status, if you come, don’t be squinted, give me a smile, communicate more with each other, don’t be shy and say nothing, that’s wrong.

Let me tell you that I was so nervous for a while after getting married, but I was stunned and made three rules with Cui Hao directly.

I must tell me the first time, if I have any bad things, you can tell me, you are not allowed to betray or deceive, and if I have nothing to do with my inconvenience, you can not tell me.

When we go from strangers to husband and wife, we always need to understand each other and communicate more to understand each other's habits and hobbies? Why not be more open-minded and say it clearly and set a tone, so that we can act in the future.

But my method may not be suitable for you, I'm just giving you a reference."

Zilan did not teach others blindly, but just the sisters said what they were saying. It would be a pity to tell Shuhui not to be shy about being stuck in her heart.

Shuhui thought to herself after hearing this, "I remember that if there is anything, I will talk to him actively. It is still necessary to be honest and sincere to each other."

"Yes, that's what I mean. Only when we are honest and sincere can we trust each other and understand each other."

"right."
Chapter completed!