Zhao Xuan'er was a little confused and said goodbye to Xiyuan first. She wanted to stay alone for a while and think about how she would go in the future. Some things Yang Hou's Mansion didn't count. Those wives looked down on her at all and didn't even answer her words. There was nothing we could do about it.

Maybe the marriage that I can talk about is the children of poor families and merchants who want to make a name for themselves. They are the same as his father, but it cannot be guaranteed that mother-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law, etc. are good people and have a good character.

Zilan made a cup of tea for his grandmother, "Grandmother, is it so difficult for Sister Xuan'er?"

This is something they didn't realize. Although they thought about it, the facts were still very shocked.

The old lady also sighed, "I was dissatisfied with the temper at the beginning, but this is the big reason. The orphan girl is not married to her for five years. This is not a joke. Her path will be difficult to walk as imagined.

She said nothing wrong. Her mother's surname is Yang, but she found a son of a merchant. She has nothing to do with my Yang family. Even if she is in Yang's house, the other party will think about it back and forth in her heart.

The reason why your mother can talk about such a good marriage in the Song family is because she is the registered daughter and raised in front of me as soon as she was born. And at that time, both your father and parents died, which is a shortcoming. There is a lack of connections. Even if there is a relative uncle, then the uncle still has his own son.

Only your mother can talk about the Song family. She is your grandfather's biological daughter. The Song family also hopes to get some support from our family. Adding and decreasing is no worse than anyone else, so that things can be accomplished.

This is much stricter than usual. It is about being a good match. Even if the boy and girl have good character, they still have to line up according to family background and relatives. There are many ways here."

Zilan and Shuhui looked at each other, sighed helplessly, both of them remained silent and were in a heavy mood.

Although it was expected, reality was still sad.

A good match was very strict in ancient times. When making friends, they might not be so snobbish at other times, but when they get married, they will definitely value this. This is the lifelong thing for their children and cannot be ignored.

It’s like her own. Her father planned an official position so much that his brother and sister could talk about better marriages.

Her father Song Zhengtian could not let her marry a low family. The highest family means that the talents in family education and inheritance are top, and such families also have some guarantees for their children.

Unexpected marriage will occur. For example, if you are a lady like Mrs. Zhao, you will be eaten without any bones. Although it has a lot to do with yourself, women are weak and unable to go out. It is very dangerous to travel long distances. In this era, traveling far away is a way to lead the way.

Mrs. Zhao took the Lu Gui back, which she bought for someone else. It was something that women could do so easily, and there were too many restrictions.

"When I think about it carefully, what my mother said about establishing a self-employed family is the most beneficial to her. Just in the capital, right in front of me, we sisters and brothers can still take care of each other in the future, and we will not be too far away and will not know nothing.

I was just afraid that she would not accept the result herself. All her dreams and hopes were shattered, and it didn’t feel good.”

Zi Lan also looked solemnly and repeatedly weighed it in her heart. Starting a self-employed person might be more suitable for Zhao Xuaner.

"I'm not in a hurry now. She's right. If she can't support her family, it's inappropriate. We can help with major issues, but it's not OK to come and ask for trouble every day. If she has half of your ability and enthusiasm, what else can I worry about?"

After all, who grows up before her eyes, who is not ruthless than plants? An old lady is kind-hearted, just a child. As long as she can give her a good result, she is willing to do her best to give her. However, there are some things she can’t help.

Rights and money cannot make people happy, nor can they let their husbands protect Zhao Xuan'er forever. Besides, her surname is not Yang, and no one is stupid. You can tell that she is a foreigner by her name.

This topic has no solution and can only be put on hold for the time being. The old lady remembered something else, "Lan'er, Mrs. Lin asked me about you today and asked if you had any kisses. I thought I really like you."

Zi Lan raised her head and was a little confused, "I'm not old enough."

She really didn't want to enter the Lin Mansion, which was a big family, a great family, and was involved in the problem of the emperor's mother tribe. There were both good and bad things.

Moreover, there is a disadvantage in the Marquis's house that she cannot accept. She has a concubine and has a room before entering the house. His grandfather has a room, a close maid and a daughter of a nanny. She is very close.

It was just to break this friendship that the old lady made a baby for her maid. Who knew that she was too honest and her pelvis was too small and she was difficult to give birth. The old lady felt sorry for the girl and made Yang the registered daughter of the daughter.

The whole room was also sent to the village to die of illness due to a crime.

The Marquis' High School is almost the same. Before the wife enters, the man has a family to teach people. Some of them have a good relationship but it is really hard to deal with. The wife cannot fight with the family. The decline is not the same level. If you do this, the man looks down on you.

Some people have the most strict tutors, and the man doesn't take it seriously, but they still value their wife. Lin Xi's father also has a family member. He is old and has a concubine daughter. Zi Lan didn't see her several times, which shows that.

Because of this, Zilan is unwilling to enter such a high-level family. What he wants to live is as peaceful and peaceful as a flowing cloud, rather than being earth-shaking and intrigue, which is too bloody.

She is also a normal person, and her thinking and thinking are all considered with normal values. Besides, her Song family is not worse than anyone else's family. There is no need to go to the Lin family to curry favor with it, so it is not good.

The old lady saw Zi Lan's nervous and scared look on her face, and chuckled, "Don't be afraid, how could I agree to her? I said that the Song family has its own concerns. I just can't interfere with it. After all, I have to check it out by my parents and elders. She doesn't seem to want to give up."

At the end, I was a little worried. What if I reported to the Queen Mother and gave me a marriage directly? It was obvious that the child was unwilling to do so, and there was no need for her family to go to the Lin Mansion. On the contrary, it would be great if the family family was a little in love with each other.

"I'm not worried now. I'm not old enough, and it's impossible to issue an order. Such an order will not be issued, and the royal face is not good."

Zilan was not panicked. She was apart from Lin Xi, so the Lin family could not wait.

"I still can't rest assured."

The old lady knew the domineering nature of the royal family.

"Another, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may not necessarily think of going together. Daughter-in-law always has his own ideas."

Zi Lan thought about it and felt relieved. Mrs. Lin might not be willing to enter the family daughter, for fear of suppressing her, and for fear of not being able to control her daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law spend all day together, and spend more time with her husband. It's really a lifetime. It's inevitable that they will have more thoughts. Men only see the benefits, but women always have to think more about the problems they get along with in the future.
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