【1915】Rare at home 3
Ximin's mother fell silent.
The son’s dream and the mother’s wish, when a conflict occurs between the two, you can imagine that the end of the contradiction is to let the bird fly by itself, or to keep the bird in its own cage.
When a bird flies by itself, it may fly higher, or it may fall more miserably with scars. When locked in its own bird cage, the bird will have no worries about food and clothing and safety for the rest of its life. However, over time, can the bird be called a bird?
When every parent faces this kind of choice, he feels very distressed.
"In ancient times, there was a saying that returning home in glory is enough to imagine that from ancient times to the present, some people who do great things have to leave their hometowns."
"I never thought that my son would return home in glory. Teacher Ning." Ximin's mother sucked the tears in her eyes.
"I have always believed that not only children return home in glory, parents should think about themselves, and do whatever their parents want to do."
Ximin's mother raised her head.
"Don't treat your child as the only one. He is just a soul that borrows you into this world. He owns himself. He is definitely not your only one. You can treat your lover as your only love, but the child is not allowed. Do you understand? Because you will leave earlier than him. Their era is not the same era as you." Ning Yunxi once again explained the topic of this cliché of the children's parents.
Ximin's mother's heart shivered, she calmed down for a while, and said, "I understand."
In the same world, but at different times, this is the biggest difference between parents and children. Parents always mistakenly think that living in the same era with their children is actually absolutely unfair. Because parents and children grow up differently, the environment has a huge impact on their children's growth. How can it be said that children's concepts can be equated with parents, which is impossible.
Cao Ximin's generation is destined to go abroad and is destined to be more confident with the strength of the country.
Looking at the future of children, you can imagine the future of the world. This may be the greatest significance of human beings' reproduction.
After Ning Yunxi bid farewell to Ximin's mother, he came back to continue writing to his second child. Meng Chenyi mentioned that he would definitely come back in April because of the Qingming Festival.
Before this, Ning Yunxi received a letter from the 108th Army Corps. One was written by Lin Zhiqiang, and the other was written by General Hou entrusted by Political Commissar Gao. Lin Shangxian, who came to change the medicine box to his teacher with a medicine box on his back, was stunned when he learned that his father had sent a letter.
After his father changed defense, his mother stayed at his original unit and called him several times. As usual, his father basically asked his mother to repost anything to him. It can be said that last time the father and son said that they had almost never lived on the platform.
Ning Yunxi said to him: "Your dad said you can write to him."
Lin Shangxian knew it as soon as he heard it and said, "Teacher, it was you who encouraged my father."
"No." Ning Yunxi denied, "Your father thought it himself."
"That must be where he heard from. Teacher Ning said that writing a letter is beneficial."
"Shangxian." Ning Yunxi criticized the student, "Your awkwardness needs to be changed."
I obviously like to write letters and talk to my father, but what awkward thing to do.
Lin Shangxian lowered his head.
Chapter completed!