Fengfan Elementary School subsequently held another parent forum regarding the Yan Ziyou incident, advising parents not to care too much about their children's grades and ignore their children's psychological needs.

Children are also human beings and have their own ideas and preferences. Blind suppression and restriction will be detrimental to the growth and development of children.

A good child should have a sound personality, a healthy mentality, a positive attitude, a happy life, and a harmonious parent-child relationship.

Achievements are only an insignificant aspect and should not be overemphasized.

It's just that although the principal and teachers talked about it, broke it apart, crushed it into pieces, and explained the truth, there were not many parents who could listen to the advice and reduce the burden on their children.

Most of the parents listened to Ziyou's story, but they just sighed for a while, and then they just did whatever they needed to do.

As Hegel said, the only lesson humans have learned from history is that humans cannot learn any lessons from history.

Even if living examples are right in front of them, they basically turn a blind eye.

…

The same goes for Nan Li, who still presses Xia Huanhuan to learn, and even uses Mi Tao as an example.

"Look at Mi Tao, the children from rural areas have much worse learning conditions than you. They don't even have their own bedroom. They live in the attic with their parents. It's difficult to move around in such a small place.

But if you look at their grades, they always come in first place. They also won first prize in the Selective Cup and will be admitted to the Hanlin Academy next year.

Look at you again, what are your conditions? When have your parents ever owed you anything, but where are your grades? You are still at the bottom of the class, and it is not certain whether you will be admitted to the Hanlin Academy next year. Are you going to hang out like this all your life?

Yeah?" Nan Li urged her daughter to learn.

Xia Junshan couldn't help but frown when he heard what she said, "I say, what you said is a bit too much. Although Huanhuan's grades are worse, you can't say that to her."

"Isn't this for her own good? If I don't speak harshly, how can I arouse her competitive spirit?" Nan Li explained, "Well, as long as she has some ambition and is half as self-conscious as Mi Tao, I won't

That’s what the leader said about her.”

"Mi Tao is Mi Tao, and Huanhuan is Huanhuan. Can you please not put the two together?"

Fake, but our Huanhuan is also versatile, isn’t this also her strength.”

"So what if you are versatile? Will you test it during the exam? Is it so good that you can get extra points in the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, so that you can make a living?" When Nan Li heard this, she immediately said plausibly, "If she can really be like those Lang Lang and Ding Junhui

, I can’t wait for someone like Han Han to be so talented and become famous at such a young age.

But is your daughter that successful? In the end, she is not like other children, taking the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, and finding a job. So she is the same as Mi Tao, and they all rely on their grades.

When the time comes, Mi Tao will take the exams for key junior high schools, key high schools, and key universities. As for your daughter, she will take exams for ordinary junior high schools, technical secondary schools, technical schools, and at most a junior college.

Let me ask you, apart from the janitors and the cleaning aunts, is there anyone in your company who has a bachelor's degree or below?"

Xia Junshan was speechless when she asked him.

Indeed, as the top architectural design company in the industry, their company's employees are basically top students who graduated in 1998 or 2012, including many master's degree students and international students. There are really no college graduates.

"That's the truth, but can you use some methods and speak softer?" Xia Junshan finally advised.

"There's no time. It's not like you don't know that your daughter is a cyclist. She can only walk once she pedals, but she won't walk until she pedals." Nan Li said helplessly, "In less than a year, she will be promoted to junior high school.

, do you really plan to let her go to Fengfan Middle School?

Are you willing to not give it a try and compete in the Imperial Academy? Don’t you want her to pass the key junior high school, the key high school, and then be promoted to a key university in the future?"

"Of course I have thought about it, but I can't force myself so hard." Xia Junshan said helplessly.

Everyone hopes that their children will become successful, so how could he be an exception? But what happened to Ziyou just happened, and he was really worried that something would happen to his daughter as well.

"I can't help it. You have tutored her in her studies before. Will she listen when you talk well? After three hours of homework, she wishes she could play for two and a half hours. If I don't push harder, she will linger until eleven or twelve o'clock.

Nan Li said speechlessly, "Our president told me that our class is the most vulnerable to decline."

Don't forget that you and I are both senior white-collar workers with high education, high status, and high income. But we cannot pass on these advantages to our children.

If Huanhuan and Chaochao fail to get into a good school, they will have to work in basic jobs in the future and fall from the middle class to the low-income. So, don’t think how good our family is.

If Huanhuan and Chaochao are not good enough, our family will be in tragedy in the future, not even as good as Mi Tao's family. At least Mi Tao works hard enough and will have no problem becoming a high-level white-collar worker in the future."

When Xia Junshan heard what she said, he thought about it carefully and couldn't help but sigh.

Although he didn't agree with Nanli Jiwa, what she said did make sense.

Their family is currently in a good situation. Both of them have stable salaries and are considered high-level white-collar workers. However, their knowledge, education, work, status, and even connections cannot be passed on to their children.

If children want to obtain these, they can only rely on their own efforts. Otherwise, the class will slip at any time, from middle-class to low-income. At that time, they will work a low-income wage and marry an average man...

…

Xia Junshan had nothing to say, so Nanli Jiwa naturally worked harder, urging her to study from time to time, and beating her with rice peaches, which made Xia Huanhuan become more and more disgusted with studying, and she also began to hate rice peaches.

At the same time, Yan Peng also started a divorce lawsuit with Tian Yulan.

Originally, he wanted to have a good deal and break up. He had prepared the divorce agreement, and because of his past kindness, he was also planning to leave the house they lived in now to Tian Yulan.

But Tian Yulan didn't want anything, she just wanted Yan Ziyou's custody rights.

Naturally, the Yan family firmly refused to allow this.

Yan Ziyou is a descendant of their Yan family. Although she is sick now, her Yan family can afford to support her. If she had left it to Tian Yulan, she might have tortured the child to death.

In order to obtain the custody rights of their grandson, they were even willing to pay Tian Yulan more money to avoid further complications.

But Tian Yulan refused and wanted to take custody of her son.

If negotiations fail, the only option is to go to court in the end.

The Yan family spread the word that since Tian Yulan was so ignorant of praise, nothing would be left for her.

The house that was originally intended to be given to her will be taken back.
Chapter completed!