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Chapter 505 Happy Marriages Are Really Too Few(1/2)

"Damn it, that little naughty kid is so annoying. If I were there, I probably wouldn't be able to control my bad temper and would have to give him two mouths."

"There are just as many naughty children as there are naughty parents. This is a wise saying. From what the naughty child does and the indifferent attitude of his parents, if we continue to educate our children in this way, then I will

I dare to conclude that this naughty child will become a social cancer when he grows up."

"Encountering such naughty children in the car is really annoying. I have encountered such naughty children before, and that trip really made people feel angry."

"The young man wearing the mask is really cool, especially when he uses the same way to step on that naughty child's chair. It's really refreshing. But the subsequent operation is a bit hard to understand. Does the young man wearing the mask know that family?

Three mouths?”

"Damn it! Am I not dazzled? That young man wearing a mask seems to be Master Jiang?"

"That's right, you're not dazzled. That's indeed Master Jiang. Master Jiang took action to rectify the family of naughty children. This is really satisfying!"

"Haha, if Master Jiang's unpredictable calculation methods are used here, it's really like using an anti-aircraft cannon to swat flies. Then the naughty kid's family can be considered "dead with no regrets."

"What a "death without regrets"", parents of naughty children said that they don't want to be flies killed by anti-aircraft guns!

!”

"It's great to hear. Someone should have stood up and punished this kind of naughty kid. It's okay to be lawless in your own home, but it's also like this in public. It really deserves a beating."

"I tried to put myself in the shoes of the beautiful woman in the front row. I imagined myself encountering this situation while riding in the car, and my blood pressure would skyrocket. This family of three is really disgusting!"

"I hope there will be more people like Master Jiang. In the future, if everyone encounters this kind of situation on the bus, they should have the courage to stand up and don't choose to tolerate it, because the more you tolerate, the more shameless people will become more rampant."

"..."

After the video in the carriage was circulated, the entire Internet was abuzz. Everyone hated what the naughty kid had done, and they all praised Master Jiang for taking action to correct the naughty kid's family.

Then the topic expanded and everyone discussed the importance of children's education.

Just when the whole Internet was talking about it, Jiang Feng had arrived at his destination, the provincial capital of Guizhou Province.



Marriage can be said to be one of the most important things in life.

Both men and women want to find a satisfactory partner to spend their lives with, but in practice, no matter how cautious they are about marriage, or how bright their eyes are when looking for a partner, it doesn't make much difference.

A large number of couples will inevitably end up on the road to divorce.

Here are the most common reasons for divorce:

1. Extramarital affairs.

According to surveys, extramarital affairs are the primary cause of marriage breakdown.

The inability of one party to satisfy his sexual desire, or the gradual fading of the passion between the couple, is the trigger for an extramarital affair, and the anger and resentment after the extramarital affair is exposed becomes an accelerator of divorce.

2. Economic issues.

The divorce rate it leads to is second only to extramarital affairs.

In love, romance is enough, but marriage is a reality, and you need to consider issues such as daily necessities, the upbringing of children, and the pension of parents.

Nowadays, many girls want to marry a rich man, just because they don’t want their marriage to be troubled by financial reasons in the future. Many women always complain that men do not let her live a life without worries about food and clothing.

The so-called poor and humble couples suffer from everything. Only those who have experienced the embarrassment of having no money can deeply understand the meaning of this sentence.

Without money, children cannot receive a good education, parents cannot enjoy their old age, and they themselves cannot live a quality life.

Many women often don't blame themselves. They only blame men for not having the ability to let her live a life without worries about food and clothing. Financial constraints and life pressure and other trivial matters in the family also affect the relationship between the couple to a certain extent.

, which led to frequent quarrels, and then the family broke up due to the quarrels.

3. Lack of communication.

Good communication is the basis for establishing trust between husband and wife, which can effectively enhance the relationship. On the contrary, it will increase the resentment and frustration of both parties. If you don't talk much all day long, you will yell at your partner or even use bad words, causing misunderstandings and not getting rid of them.

Resolution, etc. are all bad communication methods that need to be abandoned in marriage.

4. Frequent quarrels.

Couples are bound to have stumbling blocks and even heated arguments.

Among the main causes of quarrels between couples, housework issues are at the top of the list. Small things such as washing dishes and cleaning the room may be the "spark" that ignites the source of anger.

Secondly, there is the issue of "financial power". How the family manages finances, who should manage the money, etc. can easily lead to disagreements and affect relationships. If a reconciliation or solution cannot be reached after a quarrel, it is likely to eventually lead to divorce.

5. The figure is out of shape.

Although this reason sounds superficial, it is indeed an important factor affecting the relationship between couples. Weight gain will lead to a decrease in attractiveness, while damaging self-confidence and self-esteem. Over time, visual "fatigue" and lack of freshness will cause each other to

Estranged until divorce.

6. Relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. Arguments with husbands because of mother-in-law have happened in almost every family. In serious cases, people have even died, let alone divorce.

7. Flash marriage.

Needless to say, the two parties only have a superficial understanding and get married in a hurry. After the marriage, the shortcomings are exposed one by one. If they cannot accept it, the marriage will naturally not be able to survive.

8. Psychological imbalance.

When one party feels that he has taken on more responsibilities in the marriage, he or she will often become unbalanced and resentment will snowball, eventually leading to the breakdown of the marriage. Couples must not only learn to communicate effectively, but also stand in each other's perspective.

Look at the problem, empathize with each other, and help each other, so that you can enjoy an equal and harmonious relationship.

9. One spouse has bad habits.

For example, if one spouse is involved in pornography, gambling, or drugs, it will be a matter of time before the marriage breaks up.

10. Domestic violence.

Domestic violence can be divided into two types: physical and mental, both are sad.

Zhao Yuanming summarized the reason for his divorce, which was probably the lack of communication with his ex-wife.

Originally, Zhao Yuanming's communication skills were quite good, at least when he communicated with patients and their families in the hospital, they were usually relatively smooth.

However, everyone has two sides. When facing outsiders, many people behave very politely, have a very good attitude, and talk and laugh.

But when facing the people closest to me, my attitude is different, and I often have a bad look on my face.

Of course, Zhao Yuanming is not such a person, but when he faces his wife, his attitude is indeed not as patient as when he faces patients and their families.

In his opinion, his wife should be the person who understands him best. He is tired enough from working in the hospital. He can relax when he gets home and does not want to communicate with his wife in the same manner as he does with patients.

Even if he doesn't say a lot of things, his wife should still understand.

But it turns out that Zhao Yuanming overestimated the tacit understanding between him and his wife. Originally, young doctors were notoriously busy in hospitals, and his wife also had her own job. Their daily routines were inconsistent and they did not spend enough time together.

many.

If the couple communicates well, it doesn't matter. But if the communication doesn't go well, the relationship will naturally become cold in the long run.

Zhao Yuanming didn't understand it at the time. It wasn't until he divorced his wife that he realized how important it was for husband and wife to communicate in a timely manner.

However, the marriage has been divorced now, and the most important thing is that his ex-wife became someone else's wife less than a year after the divorce. Zhao Yuanming has no chance to recover even if he wants to.

Zhao Yuanming felt a little regretful about this. After all, he still had feelings for his ex-wife.

It is said that if your relationship is not going well, your career will go well, and there is some truth in this saying.

After the divorce, Zhao Yuanming devoted all his attention to work, making his surgeries better and better. He was also praised by the boss of the department many times. It can be said that he has a bright future.

That afternoon, after the last operation, Zhao Yuanming, who was tired and hungry, washed his hands and changed clothes, then walked to the parking lot to prepare to drive home for dinner.

Originally, after Zhao Yuanming got married, he no longer lived and ate with his parents, but since his divorce, he went back to live and eat with his parents.

As soon as he reached his mobility scooter, someone greeted him: "Hello, Dr. Zhao."

Zhao Yuanming looked over and saw a handsome young man who looked somewhat familiar. He thought he was his former patient, so he also said hello: "Hello!"

The handsome young man introduced himself: "Dr. Zhao, my name is Jiang Feng, Jiang from the Yangtze River, Feng from Maple Leaf. I am a matchmaker from the Happy Dating Agency in Guangxi Province. I want to introduce you to a very good match. I don't know Dr. Zhao, so it's convenient for you to join us."

Want to have a chat over dinner?”

When Zhao Yuanming heard this, he reacted instantly and said in surprise: "Are you Master Jiang from Guizhou Province?"

Master Jiang was a master matchmaker. He had heard the nurses in the hospital talk about him when they were chatting. He had even seen Master Jiang's photo. This was why he felt that he was familiar to him just now.

"It turns out Dr. Zhao also knows me!"

"I have admired your name for a long time!"

Next, the two of them exchanged polite greetings before getting in the car and heading to a restaurant for dinner together.



Half an hour later.

In a private room of a certain restaurant, Jiang Feng and Zhao Yuanming were chatting while eating.

Jiang Feng said: "Dr. Zhao, let me introduce her personal information to you first!"

Zhao Yuanming nodded and said, "Okay, you say it and I'll listen."

Jiang Feng briefly introduced: "She is from X City, Guizhou Province. She is an only daughter. She is 28 years old, 1.63 meters tall, has a good figure and good looks. She has a bachelor's degree and is proficient in the local dialect of X City, Mandarin, Japanese and

English, once married in Japan and had a daughter, got divorced last year and returned to China with her child, and is currently preparing to open a Japanese food store in the provincial capital."
To be continued...
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