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Jiang Feng looked at Liu Lian sitting in front of him, started the second wave of mediation, and said bluntly: "Ms. Liu, from what you said before, I heard that you are indeed very dissatisfied with your mother-in-law.

You think your mother-in-law's cooking is not to your taste, you think your mother-in-law is too lenient and you don't have freedom, you blame your mother-in-law for not spending more time to help you take care of your children during your confinement period, you can't stand your mother-in-law taking care of your children.

Various behaviors...

But from my perspective, I think you are wrong!"

Liu Lian felt dissatisfied and asked in a deep voice: "Master Jiang, tell me where I went wrong?"

Jiang Feng looked at her and said, "You are wrong because you don't respect your elders enough, and you think that your mother-in-law's contributions to you are all deserved. You even ignore her mother-in-law's contributions to the family, and think that you are taking care of you who are pregnant and in confinement, as well as your family."

The child is her duty.

To put it harshly, it means that you don’t have a grateful heart, which is the main source of the conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."

Liu Lian argued: "Master Jiang, I don't agree with what you are saying. I am a big girl. I have not eaten a morsel of food or a sip of water from the Kang family for more than 20 years. I married here to continue the family lineage of the Kang family.

Do you still want to be angry with her?

I carry the blood of their Kang family, shouldn't she, as the mother-in-law, take care of me?

After the child is born, he will belong to their Kang family, shouldn’t she, the grandmother, take care of it?”

Jiang Fengdan smiled and said: "Ms. Liu, when teeth and tongues touch each other, there will inevitably be some bumps and bruises when living under the same roof. As a daughter-in-law, you must be more understanding and tolerant of your mother-in-law. There is no need to insist on many small things.

Argue clearly.

Also, it is really not your mother-in-law’s obligation to take care of you while you are pregnant and confinement, and to help you with your child.

Don’t make any excuses about the descendants of the Kang family. When your children grow up, it’s you as the mother who will benefit, not her as the grandmother. There are not many grandmothers in the world who can enjoy the blessing of grandchildren, but they are really rare.

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Liu Lian frowned and said: "Don't they all say, 'I look after my mother-in-law for the first ten years, and my daughter-in-law for the next ten years'? If she doesn't take care of me and help me take care of my children when I'm in trouble, what will happen to me when she gets old?"

Why take care of her?"

Jiang Feng said: "This sentence is very subjective and there is no reference standard. For example, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat you very well in your mother-in-law's opinion. But in your opinion, your mother-in-law obviously treats you very badly.

good.

Moreover, this is actually very unfair to my mother-in-law.

Visiting your mother-in-law for the first ten years requires her to work as a cow or a horse for the first ten years, working hard without complaining.

To put it bluntly, with the current high divorce rate, maybe as soon as your mother-in-law has finished serving you, you slap your butt and leave the house. Even if there is no divorce, there are still many mothers-in-law in today's society who will wait until the day before they die.

They are still taking care of their children and grandchildren, instead of being taken care of by their daughter-in-law.

Therefore, the so-called "seeing a daughter-in-law in the next ten years" has become an empty talk here.

Therefore, as a daughter-in-law, you must know how to be grateful. Your mother-in-law helps you out of love, not out of duty. Don’t judge your mother-in-law’s efforts now by taking care of her in a few decades, something that has not happened yet.”

These words left Liu Lian speechless.

Jiang Feng concluded: "In short, if you are more understanding and tolerant of your mother-in-law, she will definitely treat you much better than her mother-in-law treated her back then. She has worked hard to raise her son for more than 20 years, and she has earned

The money you get is given to your wife instead of her as your mother, you should be satisfied!"

Liu Lian's heart was shaken, and there was a hint of thinking in her expression.

Upon seeing this, Jiang Feng said: "Ms. Liu, think carefully about what I said to you. Now you go to the hall outside and wait, and call your husband in by the way."

"Okay, Master Jiang!" Liu Lian responded, then got up and pushed the door open and walked out.

Soon, Kang Buping opened the door and walked in.

After he sat down, Jiang Feng continued his straight-to-the-point style and said: "Mr. Kang, in the conflict between your mother and your wife's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you bear an unshirkable responsibility.

Originally, your mother and your wife were just strangers who didn't know each other. They became a family through you, and you played an extremely important role in it.

When the conflict between your mother and your wife first arises, you should find a way to solve it as soon as possible, instead of just being conciliatory like you, which will only make the relationship between the two of them more and more tense.

It was just a small thing at first, but when things accumulate and explode, it is no longer a small thing!"

Kang Buping smiled bitterly and said: "Master Jiang, I understand everything you said, but I really can't solve it. Apart from trying to persuade each other, I really can't think of any way to make them stop worrying about trivial matters.

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Jiang Feng said: "Actually, I can't blame you. You and I are both men. Although I haven't been married yet, I have seen many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that make people laugh.

Many times, when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, men don’t know where to start.

Speak for your mother, my wife is not happy.

Speak for your wife, but you're afraid of hurting your mother's heart.

In short, men who cannot resolve conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will most likely choose not to say anything."

Kang Buping said with deep sympathy: "Master Jiang is right, I am such a man. Every time my mother and wife quarrel, I remain silent. It's not that I don't want to persuade, but in front of both of them.

They didn't know how to start persuading them, so they could only wait for them to finish arguing and then talk to each other in private.

Unfortunately, it had little effect, and later I didn’t even bother to persuade him in private.”

Jiang Feng nodded understandingly, "Mr. Kang, after my mediation this time, I believe your mother and wife will rarely have disputes. Occasionally when they have a dispute, you really don't know how to persuade them, so they separate in private."

Tell them that if they don’t want to pay high mediation fees again, they shouldn’t worry about it so much.”

Kang Buping listened and said yes again and again.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, so it would be much better to live separately than under the same roof. However, Jiang Feng did not mention this to Kang Buping, mainly because his family situation was somewhat special.

First, their family moved from Guangdong Province to Gan Province decades ago. No one can live there anymore. If they lived separately, they would have to spend extra money to rent a house. This is a completely unnecessary expense.

Secondly, Kang Buping's father has passed away, leaving only his mother. For him to live alone without her while he lives with his wife and children, this is undoubtedly a big blow to his mother.

Therefore, Jiang Feng never mentioned this matter to him.

Feeling that he had finished talking, Jiang Feng called in his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who were waiting in the hall.

Seeing the three of them sitting down, Jiang Feng directly used his wall-breaking ability on them.

The original marriage matching value of Kang Buping and Liu Lian was as follows:

[Current marriage matching value] 56 (husband and wife relationship 62 + well-matched pair 68 + family relationship 38)

[Extreme Marriage Match Value] 60 (husband and wife relationship 69 + well-matched pair 71 + family relationship 40)

After Jiang Feng used his wall-breaking ability on them, their marriage matching value changed drastically and instantly became like this:

[Current marriage matching value] 68 (couple relationship 68 + well-matched pair 68 + family relationship 68)

[Extreme Marriage Matching Value] 79 (couple relationship 79 + well-matched pair 79 + family relationship 79)

At the same time, Jiang Feng looked at the three of them and said, "I believe you have thought clearly about what I just said to you. The rest of the time will be left to your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Ms. Liu, do you have anything to say to your mother-in-law?"

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At this time, due to the current increase of 30 points in the family relationship, Liu Lian's impression of her mother-in-law has also changed greatly. In addition, Jiang Feng's previous mediation on her also played a big role.

Therefore, when Jiang Feng asked her what she wanted to say to her mother-in-law, Liu Lian might have gotten emotional, and she looked at her mother-in-law with a sincere face and said, "Mom, I'm sorry, it was my lack of understanding that made you suffer!

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In Hu Jinhua's eyes, her daughter-in-law at this moment was more pleasing to the eye than ever before. She also said emotionally: "Mom also did something wrong. I hope you can bear with her more!"

Seeing this scene, Kang Buping was so excited that he was shaking all over. He really dreamed of his mother and wife living in harmony. Now that his dream has come true, he feels that the 100,000 yuan spent is really worth it!

Needless to say, what happened next was that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, who had cleared up their old grudges, quickly warmed up. In just ten minutes, they went from being disgusted with each other to becoming deeply in love with each other.

The main reason why the two of them had such a huge change was naturally the wall-breaking ability Jiang Feng used, and secondly, his mediation words, which made both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law reflect.

Afterwards, Kang Buping paid the money readily, and the family of three thanked Jiang Feng profusely before leaving happily.

Jiang Feng didn't have much time to lament. He now focused his time on marriage mediation on Saturdays and Sundays. There were still more than ten clients waiting for him to conduct marriage mediation!

…

Sunday.

Half past eleven in the evening.

On a sparsely populated old street in the provincial capital, a car parked on the roadside was shaking rhythmically, but the shaking was not large. If you were not staring at the car, you would not feel it.

Ten minutes later.

The car stopped shaking.

After a few more minutes, the car lights came on. Zhang Rongying reached out and pinched Jiang Fei, and said with a shy look: "You seem to be a very honest person, but I didn't expect you to be so bad, bullying me in a place like this."

, if someone sees it..."

Jiang Fei looked satisfied and said with a smile: "There will be no one walking on this road at this time, and the passing vehicles cannot pay attention to this. In addition, our movements are very light, so no one will notice."

There was still a hint of flushing on Zhang Rongying's face, "If I were discovered, I would be shameless!"

Jiang Fei was moved by what he saw. He leaned over to kiss her and said with a smile, "I see you were quite excited just now!"

"Nonsense, who is excited?"

Zhang Rongying was so ashamed that she kept reaching out to pinch him, pinching Jiang Fei until he repeatedly begged for mercy before stopping.
To be continued...