Mrs. Zhao said it very much, and Luo Yu listened very seriously. At the beginning, Mrs. Zhao was a little careless, but when she saw Luo Yu's serious look, Mrs. Zhao became serious, and at the same time, she seemed to have some understanding.

After listening to Mrs. Zhao's description, Luo Yu didn't say anything, but thought quietly, unconsciously playing with the tea cup that drank all the water in her hand.

"Mrs. Zhao"

Luo Yu suddenly spoke, causing Mrs. Zhao, who was looking at Luo Yu to be fun, to subconsciously turn her gaze away and then turn back. However, Luo Yu saw her hidden move clearly. Luo Yu laughed in her heart. Mrs. Zhao could finally adjust her mindset.

At the beginning, Mrs. Zhao always looked at Luo Yu with an elder's mentality of looking at the younger generation. Although Luo Yu did not feel any malice, this mentality made Luo Yu feel a little uncomfortable. Therefore, Luo Yu deliberately treated Mrs. Zhao with a peer's attitude and had been striving to take the initiative psychologically. Now Mrs. Zhao seemed to finally understand something and put her position in the right place.

This shows that Mrs. Zhao is a very smart and transparent person, and has a decisive and calm personality. She is definitely not an ordinary old lady who only knows how to take care of her grandchildren at home.

"Mr. Luo has found something?"

Luo Yu nodded and said slowly while thinking: "Mrs. Zhao, judging from your description, the problem may be in subjective consciousness."

Mrs. Zhao said seriously: "Oh? Subjective consciousness? Are you saying I am not focused?"

Luo Yu shook his head and said, "It's not that you don't have concentration, nor that you have poor willpower. I think the opposite is that you have too strong willpower."

Mrs. Zhao frowned and subconsciously leaned forward. In fact, she was not as relaxed as she imagined. In this world, she still had a lot of things to be reluctant to leave.

"Mr. Luo, I don't understand."

Luo Yu nodded, sorted out the words slightly and said, "Let me say so, visualization is actually a kind of self-psychological suggestion. Do you agree with this?"

"Yes, I think so too. Therefore, I think as long as I firmly believe that what I made up exists, then visualization can proceed smoothly, but the facts are."

Luo Yu nodded: "Yes, you're not wrong, but there is another problem with this psychological suggestion, that is, the subconscious mind, do you have a certain understanding of psychology?"

"Yes."

"Then you should also know that some people are difficult to be hypnotized, right?"

Mrs. Zhao was very smart. After Luo Yu opened her head, she immediately understood: "You mean my psychology, no, subconsciously, I don't believe that spiritual cultivation is feasible?"

"No, you want to believe it too much, but you are worried about gains and losses"

Mrs. Zhao was stunned. After a while, Mrs. Zhao sighed sadly, raised her eyes and looked at Luo Yu deeply and said, "Mr. Luo, you are right. Actually, I am really scared, but I have never shown it. Everyone thinks that I am open-minded and open-minded. How is it possible?"

Mrs. Zhao lowered her head and wiped the corners of her eyes, raised her head and smiled with shame: "I'll make you laugh."

Luo Yu shook his head: "This is not ridiculous at all. On the contrary, I admire you very much. You do this for the sake of the person you are closest to, and you are worried that they will bear too much psychological pressure. In fact, everyone is the same and has something to let go. There is no need to hide it at all, let alone feel ashamed."

Mrs. Zhao was stunned and couldn't help laughing: "Mr. Luo, do you know? I think this is strange."

Luo Yu raised his eyebrows: "What, I was wrong?"

"No, you're right, but you look so young, but you're saying these words to me, an old lady, always makes people feel very inconsistent."

Luo Yu shrugged: "Young? Haha"

Seeing a trace of vicissitudes and loneliness flashing in Luo Yu's eyes, Mrs. Zhao suddenly moved her heart and smiled, "Or, should I ask you the secret to eternal youth?"

Luo Yu was stunned for a moment, then smiled and nodded, "The secret is very simple. When you give up on your youth, your youth will never disappear."

Mrs. Zhao looked at Luo Yu suspiciously. He seemed to be hinting at something, but he seemed to say nothing. This man who looked very young seemed to have a cunning heart like an old fox.

Seeing that Mrs. Zhao was a little stunned, Luo Yu smiled and said, "Mrs. Zhao, let's get back to the point. I think visualization is actually not difficult. The key is still a matter of habit."

"Habit? What habit?"

Mrs. Zhao got serious.

"The habits of the brain, or the habits of the soul and the brain."

"Please keep talking."

Luo Yu gently turned the teacup and said, "I think that the soul and the body are a kind of subject-object relationship. The soul is the guest, the body is the main body, and the soul lives in the body. This is what is called the person who has to bow his head under the eaves. In order to successfully store it in the body, the soul has to succumb to the limitations of the body. If you want to perceive the world, you need to rely on the five senses, but is the world really what we see, hear and touch?"

"Isn't it?"

Luo Yu smiled: "Obviously not, at least, not just that."

Mrs. Zhao's eyes turned and said, "What is that?"

Luo Yu spread his hands and said, "How do I know, but all people who study this world believe that the world is not what we know, at least, not just that, right?"

Mrs. Zhao smiled helplessly and said, "Okay, I have to admit that you are right, so what? What does this have to do with habits?"

"It's very simple. When we understand the world through the five senses, what do we think about the world through? The information collected through the five senses, through the brain, through hormones, and finally, is the soul. Have you ever thought about what you are after all this is abandoned?"

"this"

Luo Yu continued thinking without waiting for Mrs. Zhao to answer, "I think the reason why Xiaodie can easily complete consecration and visualization is because she has been related to the virtual world as her main living environment since she was very young. She is not so dependent on her five senses, nor is she so dependent on hormones. She lives more by her soul. This is the biggest difference between her and others."

Mrs. Zhao seemed to understand something and said hesitantly: "Mr. Luo means that if you want to consecrate, you must abandon those habits, including the habits of perception and thinking?"

"right."

"But this habit doesn't seem so easy to get rid of, and how should it be removed?"

Luo Yu smiled and said, "I can't answer this, but it's just to think from another perspective. Although we are guests, our master does not want to interfere with us, so the initiative is still in our own hands."

Mrs. Zhao thought seriously and said, "I think I understand it, I need to go back and think about it carefully."

Luo Yu nodded with a smile: "I have a suggestion. You can start with memories and look at the path you have walked, and maybe you can find your true self."

Mrs. Zhao's eyes were a little dazed. She paused for a moment. She smiled and said, "Thank you, I will."

"You're welcome, I've also learned a lot of inspiration from your situation."

Mrs. Zhao nodded, looked at Luo Yu with a strange look, and sighed slightly, "What does Mr. Luo think of my Xiaoying?"

Luo Yu, who was about to say goodbye, was stunned and asked in confusion: "Zhao Ying? She is very good, a very capable girl."

Mrs. Zhao's eyes floated gently, as if she was recalling something, and then she showed a warm smile: "Yes, she is a girl who looks for someone to like, but she is also a silly girl. Please don't blame her for what she did last time. This is all the old man who is forcing her. I don't want her to do stupid things for me. After all, my life is about to come to an end, and she is just beginning."

Luo Yu nodded inexplicably and said, "I can understand, but Zhao Ying is also an adult, so she naturally has her ideas and choices. I respect her choices. As for other things, I actually don't mean to blame her. We are not working together happily now."

"It's a cooperation hehe"

Mrs. Zhao smiled playfully, and when she looked at Luo Yu, there was another smell that Luo Yu didn't like. It was the feeling that the elders looked at the younger generation. Luo Yu subconsciously frowned.

Mrs. Zhao smiled and slowly stood up. Luo Yu also stood up. Mrs. Zhao tidied up her dress and said gracefully: "I disturbed today. I really benefited from asking Mr. Luo for advice. If possible, I hope I can meet again."

Luo Yu nodded: "Yes, I want to thank my wife and the Zhao family for their care for Xiaodie, thank you."

"You're welcome, that's what we deserve, after all, we get more."

Mrs. Zhao did not mean to leave first. Luo Yu understood that Mrs. Zhao was saying that she did not mean to follow her, so Luo Yu said goodbye and left.

Mrs. Zhao watched Luo Yu's figure disappear at the door, and an inexplicable smile slowly opened the corner of her mouth, and muttered: "Xiao Ying seemed to have met a great guy, but this silly girl seemed to have not figured out her mind at all. No, I have to help her. Good things are fast and slow, and it would be too late to be so confused."

Luo Yu, who was walking on the road, sneezing hard. Luo Yu felt that today was strange, the strange old woman, strange eyes, and strange sneezing. She couldn't understand where the monster was. Luo Yu was too lazy to think about it, but today was not completely unrealized. At least, Luo Yu understood why it was so difficult to consecrate.

The ancients have long said that the greatest enemy of a person is himself. Now it seems that the ancestors have seen Wanli clearly and have long seen through the essence of the problem. However, this sentence is too obscure. The greatest enemy of a person is not only various delusions, but also his own body, that is, he should rely on this body. Many of the human desires are actually brought by the body. r1152

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