Chapter 530 Emotional Intelligence
Moreover, this kind of discomfort is more unfamiliar than if you get 20th, 15th, and 10th place, and it is much more unfamiliar with it.
Because the so-called fourth place, 15th place, and 20th place sounds very powerful, but in fact, when everyone mentioned it in the end, it was just one sentence, others.
The only thing that can be remembered by everyone in the end is that you are the first place. If you reach the runner-up level, it means that you and this first place are very big, and you almost got it.
There was a very popular problem on the Internet before.
That is, in the end, not being together, and never being together, which one is more regretful.
The final answer was 85% of the choices that were not together in the end.
The so-called never being together means that yours have never been intersected, but there is no regret or regret, no gain or loss.
But the so-called failure to be together in the end means that you two were once boyfriend and girlfriend, which means that you two were anxious. It means that you have many problems.
It is the feeling that I almost have to get together until I grow old together, but then I can’t walk together in the end. It is the most heartbreaking and regrettable.
They clearly sympathize with those dear couples who are about to get married. But it is because of their parents' obstruction that they are unable to be together in the end.
They are really sad. There is no way to do it. Their parents' orders are not good anyway, and they must not be violated.
However, Tang Benming also wanted to persuade those so-called parents.
Especially for some girls, according to Tang Benyun's observation, he found that for a long time, most of the boyfriend and girlfriend were about to get married, but they did not get married. The reason for the final failure was the fact that a girl's parents were.
Because they wanted a high-priced bride price, the amount of this bride price was so scary. Tang Benming found that it was impossible for those boys to take it out. That number was simply astronomical.
Tang Benming really cannot communicate with the thoughts of many girls' parents and cannot understand them. They think that if they ask for less bride price, the woman and the man may not be very good to their children. Don't remember the bad daughter, such a girl will live a miserable life. She is also lying alone and really can't understand how this so-called thought comes from.
Do you think that if you want to pay a high bride price, just like selling your daughter, can make your daughter happy? You don’t think what will happen to the product name?
OK, what is even more strange is that many women's parents do think this is right.
Tang Benming always felt that the so-called marriage is actually a certain stage of love, which is nothing to do with other things, but as for love. Then in the actual situation, their reason is that they found that they were powerless, because today's society is equivalent to selling their daughters. They usually have to find high-priced brides, houses and cars, no matter how her daughter is capable or how she looks? Or else it doesn't matter, as long as she is a woman.
Then those men want to do field work for them. If you don’t do it, the final result is that they say you are a scumbag. Why do many men like to be scumbags but don’t like Zhenzhen? They always pursue a girl. Because if you really pursue a girl who is good at helping him with everything, the final answer is that you are a licking dog.
The word Qiangou is really sad. I treat you so well. I got it in the end. Indeed, I am a licking dog, hahahaha, Tiangou is really good. I don’t know who invented this word? I don’t know what he experienced. Why did he invent such a word?
Being kind to others is called Tiangou, not being kind to others, and being called straight men by others. What do women love? They eat the so-called scumbags. It seems that a scumbag is particularly liked by girls. If a society becomes like this, then this society is really a bit scary. His real name cannot be imagined. It will become like this at that time, and where will the values of others go?
Tang Weiming always likes to think about some complex social relationships, and clearly has nothing to do with her. He likes to study and think about it.
For example, now he is a person who has a wife and lives a happy life. For him, pursuing girls is not short of money and has no other burdens, but he just likes to think about similar issues and then look at other brothers, their lives or what. He clearly sympathizes with those brothers because he remembers his former self.
I was so poor and I once liked many girls. These girls didn’t choose him in the end because he was too poor.
Of course, many girls would not tell Tang Meiling so bluntly, you are too poor, so we are not suitable. Their statement is very happy, that is, your emotional intelligence is too low, and I am not suitable.
In fact, everyone is not stupid. They can understand everything. The so-called low emotional intelligence means that you are too poor. If a person has no money, then he dares not think about problems with big thinking after all. Because if he thinks about problems with a big perspective, he needs to spend money. If he has no money, he can't do those things and can't do them. He will be in a row. He feels happy, so he gives people the feeling that he has low emotional intelligence.
For example, if you pick a bouquet of flowers from the roadside when a person who has no money gives it to a girl, it is called low emotional intelligence.
For example, a rich man bought a large bouquet of roses from a flower shop and gave them to girls, which is called romance.
The so-called romance and low emotional intelligence are actually in Tang Benming's view, which means having money but not money. If you have money, then you have high emotional intelligence. If you have no money, then you have low emotional intelligence.
It is really good to have money. If you don’t have money, others will turn the dishes when you eat. Transfer the dishes you want to add to somewhere else.
And if you have money, who dares to make the plate away when you go to add food? They even want to turn the dishes you eat, if they are elsewhere, and stand in front of you.
Why do people work hard? Why do you have to be rich not just happiness, but also your parents’ happiness. Your daughter’s happiness and your wife’s happiness.
If I have money, how can my parents be treated? You dare to make things difficult for them. What I want is whether I am here or not. You don’t dare to make things difficult for him.
And if I don’t have money, then I can only guarantee that you will not make things difficult for my parents when I am here, because if you make things difficult for my parents, I will directly fist up and help you knock it down.
Chapter completed!