Chapter two hundred and sixty seventh: immortal art of immortality(1/3)
Yin Qingfeng regretted it, he shouldn't be so strong.
The nine naughty kids started to "cause trouble" him on the first day of their arrival. If they didn't watch it for a while, they might cause some trouble.
While other students have not started classes yet, he must set rules for these naughty children.
When dealing with "disobedient" children, beating or scolding is simple and crude. Even punishing them for not eating is a sign of incompetence.
The formation of a child's personality is the most important stage before the age of ten. The foundation of this stage is laid well. Unless his family or individual encounters huge changes later, such as divorce of his parents, domestic violence or sexual assault, etc., it will be difficult to reverse.
He recalled the family education he received when he was a child, and his parents did not do well enough. After working for many years, he was accustomed to resolving some small conflicts and small conflicts by force. Fortunately, his parents sent him to a sports school when he was in elementary school. The boring training day after day made him develop a tough style.
Yin Qingfeng asked these naughty children to come and teach them. In addition to instilling his ideas, he also treated them as test subjects.
Everyone's life trajectory is behind his or her parents. It is either stronger than his or her or the opposite of his or her parents' personality.
Children who grow up with warm and harmonious families usually achieve higher achievements than their parents, as long as they do not spoil them. Children with poor family environments are either more naughty or self-reliant. Naughtiness is the manifestation of the evil nature, and self-reliance is the manifestation of the good nature.
Because it was difficult for the ancients to judge whether a person's personality would be related to innateness, that is, whether the child was affected by external and genetic influence when he was still in the mother's body, he had a debate on good and evil nature.
Modern medicine uses prenatal education to prove that sex can be "original" good. However, more people do not have the opportunity to prenatal education because even their parents do not know what prenatal education is.
Prenatal education can only change a person to a certain extent, and if you miss it, you will miss it. If you miss the education before the age of ten, you will basically be useless in this life.
Yin Qingfeng has no shortage of women in modern times, nor does he lack the material foundation for marriage. He just does not have the psychological preparation and knowledge reserves for marriage.
Children in most families are raised by their mothers, so the mother’s education method is very important. Sadly, regardless of ancient and modern times, most people, especially women, have no concept of education before getting married or have a scientific and complete educational concept.
Yin Qingfeng’s understanding of family education is that what a child’s personality will be like. Before the age of ten, it is attributed to the mother to lay the foundation, and after the age of ten or puberty, the father needs to be established.
It is not that the father can ignore or stand by before the age of ten, but that the consciousness conveyed by the child when he is in the cradle is that the mother who breastfeeds them is closer to the person. The instinct of this creature makes them more dependent on their mothers psychologically and more willing to obey their mothers.
Therefore, when dealing with a child's education, before the age of ten, the mother "mainly attacks" his father and "janitor". After the age of ten, the father is the main mother and the mother is the auxiliary.
But all of this is Yin Qingfeng's theory. He needs to verify from these naughty children that he will have his own children sooner or later.
Since you cannot beat, scold, or corporal punishment, then let’s change the method.
First, recite the rules he sets, and secondly, violators will not be punished, but will not be rewarded.
Children have children's nature. Parents should not only understand the existence of this nature, but also cannot bind certain natures of them.
Curiosity, possessiveness, appetite, hostility, kindness, creativity, desire to destroy, desire to express, jealousy, protection, dependence, that is, sense of security, fear, worship, loneliness, laziness, and curiosity about the opposite sex, curiosity about sexual behavior, etc. are all manifestations of nature.
If you want to educate a child well, you must improve the good side of these nature, such as the driving force of creativity, curiosity and eliminate the bad side, such as laziness.
To this end, after he returned from Li Shimin, he spent time writing a theory of nature to elaborate on his understanding of nature, the importance of nature, and how to use these natures to educate children. The rules he set were also proposed based on these natures.
For naughty children who show possessiveness, appetite, hostility, destruction, jealousy, etc., he will reward those children who do not show it, but the children who show it are not rewarded.
This reward may be like a hug and a kiss, or a material reward such as a paper cut, a small windmill, or points that can be redeemed for certain prizes. However, these rewards can make a child have a concept of honor and disgrace. Knowing shame and advancing backward does not simply refer to adults, but the younger the child is, the more sensitive he is to honor and disgrace.
There is an old Chinese saying: Teach your children in person and teach your wife behind your back.
Whose face is? How to teach? This scale must be well grasped. If you don’t grasp it well, the child will have a psychological shadow. If the shadow accumulates more, the child will form a personality that is opposite to the parents’ wishes.
From the perspective of security, a child feels a little insecure when he leaves his parents and comes to a strange environment. Therefore, in the three days after the naughty children arrived, all Yin Qingfeng, Yuemei and others had to do was to play with them and play in various ways.
Children will be familiar with the environment and Yin Qingfeng and others through these three days, while Yuemei and other girls must master the theory of nature as soon as possible. Wei Nizi also needs to be familiar with the teaching materials, disciple rules, idioms and stories he prepared for kindergarten.
Wei Nizi's arrival helped Yin Qingfeng a lot. He and Yuemei wanted to teach classes, and Xiangcheng wanted to attend classes. He hoped that Yu Niang and Fanxing could take full care of the nine naughty children, so he would be exhausted.
Wei Nizi and Yu Niang are the same age as Yu Niang, and are one year older than Yin Qingfeng. She has a good background and has bizarre experiences, so she, a person who is both old, talented and majestic, is very suitable to be a "kindergarten director".
On the third day after the children arrived, Li Yun quietly came to Duke Yun's Mansion.
After more than half a year of recuperation, Xiangcheng is not considered a fat girl, but she is also considered to be full of body shape. Li Yun is thinner than Xiangcheng at the time.
Fourteen-year-old Li Yun has a relatively wide skeleton and is about 1.65 meters tall, which is what she follows her mother. But apart from that, she can only describe it as Chaihuo Niuer.
In addition to secretly feeling sorry for her, Yin Qingfeng also decided to take care of her body. After all, her mother's health largely determines the health of the child.
He and Li Yun are the relationship between his sister-in-law and his brother-in-law, and of course, it can also be the relationship between his uncle and his niece. No matter what kind of relationship it is, Wei Nizi can only come to care for things.
He went into the study room for a long time, and then gathered all the girls together. The location was his bedroom.
Youth grows easily, and a woman's youth is even shorter.
Youth is a broad term. According to physiological perspective, in ancient times, the age of twenty was the standard, but in modern times, it was only delayed to twenty-five years old. After the age of twenty-five, the physical fitness of women will decline.
The ancients were married early because their fathers could not afford to raise their fathers. The moderns were married late because they could not afford to marry and late because their fathers were married late because their mental maturity became more and more.
The ancients had the sorrow of the ancients, and moderns had the trouble of the moderns. However, when it comes to marriage, women cannot have children earlier than eighteen or later than twenty-five years old.
Too early, my mother's land has not reached its most abundant level. Too late, too much nutrient loss will be insufficient.
Moreover, if a mother wants to live a long life and her children want to get the healthiest body, the best number of childbirths in seven years is twice, and three times is barely enough.
When the age of eighteen, it is most important whether the development of women's fertility organs is complete or what level of health they have reached.
The development of a woman is divided into three types. These three types correspond to three body types. Outsiders can roughly judge a woman's health from her body type.
The first type is called precocious puberty. It enters puberty at the age of nine or even eight. The sudden increase in height lasts about one year, which leads to a shortening of the entire growth period.
Therefore, most of this type of girls will be short and fat in the future.
The second type is called late maturity. It is necessary to start puberty between the ages of fourteen and sixteen. The sudden increase in height can last for about three years.
This type of girl is mostly tall and thin in the future.
The third type is called balanced type. Between the precocious and late-maturity type, the adolescence begins between the ages of twelve and fifteen, and the sudden increase in height can last for about two years.
For this type of girl, the measurement ratio is the most perfect.
Through comparison, we can see that women who are suitable for their wives and mothers come from girls with balanced development.
No matter which type of developmental girl, she needs to have double perfect breasts.
Men's obsession with breasts is no less than that of women's shopping complex. The main reason is that men are still in the "oral stage" and still have a subconscious attachment to women's breasts during infant breastfeeding.
Whether a woman’s breasts are perfect determines the quality of marriage and the effect of breastfeeding.
Therefore, the best development period cannot be missed. Nineteen years old is the deadline.
If the chest is not developing properly, it means that the kidney yin is insufficient and the qi and blood is insufficient. If the chest is dizzy and black, there will be hyperplasia, which will show that the spleen and stomach are weak, and the digestion, absorption, transformation, and metabolic abilities are insufficient.
In addition, insufficient blood storage in the liver will lead to insufficient amount of aunts. If the blood supply in the pregnant uterus is insufficient, the chest will naturally lack the nourishment of qi and blood, and the effect of fullness will not be achieved.
The development of the chest is affected by endocrine hormones of the anterior pituitary, adrenal cortex and ovarian. The anterior pituitary can produce a certain hormone that directly affects chest development. The ovaries can produce estrogen and progesterone, which can promote chest development.
Therefore, the more hidden the chest, the more health crises there are.
The cover is barely qualified, and the cup is 80, which is the best. As for, it is, it is better, and it is not!
Yu Niang's body is close to perfection. Yuemei, Fanxing and Xiangcheng are still in the development stage, and he is watching, so there is no problem. But the fourteen-year-old Li Yun has an average breast, and the girl is eighteen years old. She feels that her breasts are not as big as Yu Niang. They all need to "save" them.
Even if it is not for them, he will have a daughter in the future. He will not be able to directly guide his daughter in the future, so his women must learn these things.
Yin Qingfeng said: "I have a set of immortal arts for women."
"What?" "Un-age immortal art?" "What does it mean?" "Un-age immortal art of a girl?"
Except for Wei Nizi, each of the four girls was surprised.
Immediately afterwards, the four girls surrounded Yin Qingfeng, "Come out quickly, can you take it out!" "Where is it hidden?" "Look for it quickly."
Wei Nizi has also figured out the reason why Xiangcheng's personality has become lively these days, but she did not expect that the four of them were so "unscrupulous" and such a lack of "feminine virtue" in front of Yin Qingfeng. However, she vaguely felt envious of them.
Yin Qingfeng was itchy when his eight little hands touched him, and he shouted loudly: "No! Not on his body! Stop looking for it!"
Yuemei, who was still exploring in Yin Qingfeng's arms, immediately pinched a piece of flesh with her little claws and said threateningly: "Where is it hidden? Or is the husband coaxing us sisters."
Yin Qingfeng was sobbing. Is this still the gentle and obedient little girl? Who made her learn bad things?
He was looking at the five girls with their eyes shining, "I surrender, I ask you all to deal with it with mercy."
"Yeah" "Your husband admits defeat"
Weinizi looked at the four people cheering and hugging, and something seemed to be beating in her heart.
She looked at Yin Qingfeng.
The talented young man in her heart was filled with a strong sense of indulgence under her face. This kind of indulgence is like a father and a brother, but not like a husband.
She recalled the contact with Yin Qingfeng over the past few days. His eyes and what he said made her feel illusioned to face her elders.
"What kind of person is he?"
She asked herself in her heart.
Seeing that they had enough trouble, Yin Qingfeng said, "Whoever wants to learn immortal arts, just sit on the edge of the bed."
After hearing this, Yuemei and the other four ran to the bed immediately.
The Yin Qingfeng in Wei Nizi's eyes at this moment was like a child who won a game back when playing games.
She laughed happily.
She didn't know why she laughed, but she just couldn't stop laughing.
She smiled and sat down beside Fanxing.
Yin Qingfeng didn't pay attention to Wei Nizi's actions. He held his hands behind his back and looked proudly at the five girls who were sitting obediently, "Ahem, that's haha."
Yuemei immediately waved her fist and said with gritted teeth: "Langjun"
To be continued...