【283】Mother and son talk
Chen Jiaoyang has not had time to go home recently, which means Chen Ouyang can go home and rest for half a month. Generally speaking, it is unlikely that the two brothers will take a vacation together if they take a vacation. There will always be one person who will stay at the base and then let the other rest.
This time, Chen Ouyang is on vacation. Chen Jiaoyang continues to stay at the base. It is because Chen Jiaoyang has not taken much vacation over the years. He is addicted to research and cannot extricate himself. It is obvious that he wants to devote his whole life to research.
Chen Tiezheng and Yu would not urge Chen Jiaoyang to get married or something. In his previous life, Chen Jiaoyang was hundreds of years old and never got married. In this life, he also did the job he liked with his memories. As parents, they would not force him to get married.
After all, Chen Jiaoyang is a researcher who has not had much rest time all year round. If he is unwilling to get married, as his parents, they force him to get married. Even if he gets married obediently, he can not take a leave after marriage. It is equivalent to his wife marrying him as a widow.
It’s not that Chen Tiezheng and his wife don’t love their children, and they can’t torture their children or other people’s children. So if Chen Jiaoyang doesn’t plan to get married, they won’t urge him. He will get married by himself when he wants to get married.
Chen Ouyang lay bored on the table and said to his still young and beautiful mother, "Mom, since you can do nothing to urge my fourth brother to get married, why are you urging me? I am only twenty-two years old, why are you getting married so early?"
He didn't find a partner he wanted to get married, why did his mother urge him to get married? He also planned to devote himself to research for the rest of his life. Why didn't his mother treat him the same as his fourth brother and not urge him to get married?
Yu spread his hands and said, "Your elder brother, second brother and third brother are almost married at your age. Your elder brother even got married with your sister-in-law when he was sixteen years old. Your second brother and third brother also got married after graduating from college, so don't think you can escape."
Chen Ouyang said depressedly, "Yes, my eldest, second, third and third brothers are all married, but my fourth brother is not married yet. Why don't you urge him?"
"I think your fourth brother has devoted himself to research all his life. Even if I force him to get married, he will not listen. Can I still use my life to threaten my son to marry a woman I have never met before?" Yu Shi became even more helpless.
"Even if I really threaten my son to marry a woman who has nothing to do with me, Jiaoyang was filial and married that woman after listening to me, according to his personality, wouldn't he still live like he was not married? Didn't he torture my own children, and torture that poor girl?"
"The most important thing is that Jiaoyang is my son. Can I force him if he doesn't want to get married? And I'm not the only son. If he doesn't get married, I won't have a grandson to hug him." Yu said, and then stared at Chen Ouyang, "But you are different. Jiaoyang really has no idea of getting married, no one you like, you have the idea of getting married."
Chen Ouyang smiled awkwardly when he heard this, "Mom, how did you know that I have the idea of getting married? I also want to study it with the fourth brother for the rest of my life, my partner has researched it."
Yu rolled his eyes at him and said, "Don't fight me, haha, you are twenty-two years old and haven't fallen in love yet, I won't say anything anymore. Are you really not planning to get married? You are not as pure as your fourth brother, okay?"
"Mom, you slander me. I don't want my fourth brother to be as pure and weak as he is. Would I be very slutty?" Chen Ouyang felt so aggrieved. How did he leave such an impression on his mother?
Yu smiled and said, "I'll ask you when will you get married? My mother, I haven't met any girl who can let me come forward to match you in the past few years, so you have to find these yourself."
"Mom, I'm still very young." Chen Ouyang also knew that his mother was not a joke, so he sat up straight and said with a serious expression, "Mom, I'm only twenty-two years old this year. I was very busy before I was thirty and didn't have time to take care of my family."
"Mom, you also know how strict our job is and there is not much freedom. My vacation time is because my fourth brother and I are quite capable. The superiors can give me some vacation and let me relax myself so that I won't force myself too much."
"But you also know that I only have half a month off every year. How can I get married if I get married? After getting married, is the different person who is my wife a widow? As a military wife's family member, he can still go to the army to visit relatives by himself, but outsiders are not allowed to enter at our base, which means that my family cannot visit relatives at the base."
"For so many years, parents, you know that even if you deliver things to me and my fourth brother, you have been tested layer by layer, and it is even more impossible to see us. With such a strict environment, you are sorry for the girl who made me get married so early."
"Mom, I haven't met someone I like, so I don't plan to get married now." Chen Ouyang said seriously, "You don't have to urge me."
Yu nodded, "Since you have made a decision, I won't urge you. It doesn't matter if you two don't get married anyway. We have many sons and grandchildren, so we are not afraid."
"But son, you are really not..." Yu whispered a few words close to his son, which immediately made Chen Ouyang's face flush.
"Mom, why do you think so too?" Chen Ouyang said with a blushing face.
"Tsk tsk..." Yu said with a stunning look on his face, "Why are you looking like this? You blushed. Is what I said true?"
Chen Ouyang took a deep breath to calm down his mood, and the blush on his face slowly dropped. He said to Shi very seriously, "Mom, I can't figure it out myself. I can't give you an answer now, but if there is really something in the future, can I explain it to you and your father clearly?"
Yu nodded, "Don't be stressed, I'm just worried that your child is too lonely. You are different from your fourth brother. Your fourth brother has a state of mind for hundreds of years and does not need anyone to accompany him. Since he has decided on his own, he can stand it by himself."
"But you are different. You are not the same as your fourth brother's non-marriage. If you really plan to follow your fourth brother and spend your whole life companionship, it will definitely not work. I am not worried about what to do when you get old. I am worried that no one will accompany you and you will be too lonely." Yu said seriously.
She also knows her own son. Chen Jiaoyang was originally a research madman who didn't understand loneliness but only knew how to study. Marriage was a burden to him. Chen Jiaoyang always longed for love and marriage, so he could still be very carefree if he didn't get married.
But Chen Ouyang is different. He is a person who really hopes to have a love relationship, have a happy and fulfilling family, and be with his beloved. So he never gets married in this life, and Yu, as his mother, feels distressed.
Chen Ouyang looked at her mother and nodded when she saw her saying seriously, "If I meet her, I will consider it seriously, don't worry."
He hopes to meet someone he likes, someone who can accompany him for the rest of his life, but he would rather have nothing than be too much, and would not talk easily, because he would talk for the rest of his life if he wanted to talk for the rest of his life.
Chapter completed!