Chapter 056 How to Build Confidence?
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After returning to the county's first high school, even though he drank a little too much at noon, Huang Jingyao was a little dizzy when he arrived on campus, but after soaking two cups of coffee and resting for half an hour, he still appeared outside the class on time during the last self-study class in the afternoon.
The scene in the classroom when he arrived was relieved. Most of his classmates were studying. This kind of self-discipline was so heartwarming.
But after a glance, Huang Jingyao naturally found a student sitting in his seat with a frown and staring blankly. He stood quietly outside the classroom for about two minutes, and the student was also staring blankly.
Huang Jingyao then sighed helplessly. He was naturally familiar with the idle guy. His name was Han Lei. He was born in a rural village under Luoquan County. He was 1.68 meters tall and had an ordinary appearance. He was dressed in this era and was relatively rustic and outdated. His family environment was average and worse than Huang Jingyao's family background. Huang Jingyao's parents were both elementary school teachers, so it was not bad in the countryside. It was much better than Han Lei's parents who were all farming and had to go out to work in their spare time.
Han Lei's test scores have always been in the middle and lower reaches of Class 5.
The middle and lower reaches mean that before Huang Jingyao came, Wang Hao's group of poor students could occupy the middle reaches before they broke out. The poor students began to get angry, and Han Lei fell to the downstream.
When he walked into the classroom, he alarmed several students who were studying to look up. When he saw him, Huang Jingyao smiled and nodded as saying hello. Then he turned his eyes on Han Lei. Without saying anything, he gestured to Han Lei's deskmate. Han Lei gently poked Han Lei. Han Lei woke up and received Huang Jingyao's eye gesture, and immediately stood up and walked out of the classroom uneasy.
After more than two months of communication, Huang Jingyao not only established feelings with this group of students, but also had a tacit understanding. As the students showed their eyes slightly before, the students could clearly understand his intentions.
After dozens of seconds, Han Lei waited for both of them to stand outside the classroom, and then he lowered his head with a bitter smile, his words were full of bitter eyes and guilt, "Teacher Huang, I'm sorry."
"Why are you sorry to me?" Huang Jingyao asked gently.
"You gave me so much encouragement over a month ago, I have never met a teacher as good as you, but I didn't expect that I would fail the exam." Han Lei's voice was choked, and he was so low that he almost wanted to bury it under his chest.
After the poor students broke out, he fell from the middle to the downstream. It was not because Huang Jingyao didn't take care of him. Huang Jingyao's encouragement and even increased students' talent behavior, and he was tilted towards the whole class in the previous month.
But in the last exam, Han Lei had Chinese 108, mathematics 97, English 72, liberal arts 132, and the total score was 409, which was still much worse than the average score of the monthly exam of Class 5.
As for Han Lei’s talent?
Chinese 6, Mathematics 4, English 4, Politics 4, History 3, Geography 4.
Last month, because of insufficient talent, Huang Jingyao only added two points of Chinese talent to him. The talent value of the latter 6 is second only to the top of the sixth class, but he only took 108. Even Han Lei scored 99 points in Chinese during the middle exam, and the first monthly exam was 92 points.
Don’t he learn? Han Lei worked very hard for more than a month during the encouragement of Huang Jingyao, and his hard work was not as good as Zhang Ting and Wang Xingjie, but he was also included in Class 5.
He is talented, basic and hardworking, but he did the exam so badly. Why? This kid has exam anxiety!
Exam anxiety is a common psychological adaptation disorder among middle school students. The causes are very complicated, and the manifestations are also mild and severe. Han Lei's performance is that he feels nervous and excited when he enters the examination room, his hands and feet are chilled, his heartbeats are accelerated and even dizzy. For example, perception disorders, he often gets nervous and misreads the test questions. He can't recall the things he is familiar with, but he will remember them immediately as soon as he leaves the examination room. He is slow and confused. He can only give him a quiet and comfortable environment to solve the questions he can't reason and think rationally in the examination room, and he often does it wrong.
When he communicated with Han Lei for more than a month ago, Huang Jingyao understood these things, knew these problems, and gave him a lot of encouragement and comfort. Before the exam, he also used his heart on Wang Lei, but he failed the exam in the exam room.
According to Huang Jingyao's understanding of him, he should score 120 points in Chinese, and it is not difficult to score more than 90 points in English, and he can get at least 150 points in the liberal arts industry. In summary, his true strength is close to the second-tier line, but that anxiety has caused his total score to be pulled down by nearly a hundred.
So he could understand Han Lei's previous dazed scene, and he felt a little sorry for this little guy. The source of Han Lei's anxiety in the exam was that his parents had too much expectations for him. He was also a very sensible and obedient child. He had always wanted to study hard and get good grades.
He passed the entrance exam by his junior high school and high school by his strength. He was also a good student in the middle school in their hometown. He joined the high school and gathered the best group of students in the county. He suddenly became like everyone else.
The expectations of the elders in the family and his own desires turned into huge pressure as soon as they entered the exam room, which made him afraid that he would not be able to do well in the exam and did so if he failed? It was these tensions that made the first exam mistakes, and the ranking of the county high school was far lower than that of the township middle school, so no one explained him, and no one explained various reasons to him, he was also introverted, and the second exam was even worse.
After several consecutive times, the kid became less confident, his stage frightened became more and more serious, and his anxiety in the exam room became more and more serious, making this almost a habit, and he was unable to show his true level every time.
The most fundamental reason for all this is that he is too introverted and lacks confidence!
If it were a guy like Wang Hao who dared to hand in Chinese in the exam, would you say he would be stage frightened? In the hearts of those guys, it means that you can have a vacation to rest after the exam. Stage fright is just a joke.
"It's just an exam, you don't need to remember it too much. I know that your strength is far more than those scores on the test paper." In Han Lei's slightly sobbing voice, Huang Jingyao also frowned. It's really not easy to help an introverted and sensitive guy build confidence.
Ordinary comfort will have no effect on Han Lei, who has been like this for many years, otherwise he would not be stage frightened in the last exam and continued to perform abnormally. If he wants to help this student build up his confidence again, the best way is to take the exam well in the exam room, but how easy is that?
Her thoughts flipped quickly and Huang Jingyao suddenly smiled, "Let's go, let's not mention anything else today, come with me."
Han Lei was still in a low mood, but he still followed Huang Jingyao very obediently. It was not until the two of them walked out of the teaching building and headed towards the dormitory building that Han Lei became confused, "Teacher Huang?"
"Don't worry about what you do. Just follow me. Are you afraid that I will sell you?" Huang Jingyao still smiled gently and took Han Lei to his dormitory, asking the student to wait in the dormitory first, before he walked out and headed straight to the school convenience store.
Chapter completed!