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Huang Jingyao said that self-aspiration and admiration during adolescence are very different from true love, which is two different things, and it is not aimless. He has walked from that age and encountered some things. When he was a teenager, he fell in love with a opposite sex for the first time. The feeling was very unique and simple.

It’s not just him, I’m afraid that for most men and women, the feeling is very unique. Even if you really fall in love or get married in the future, you may not forget the unique ignorance of the first time.

But the feeling of that period would be so unique, often mixed with too many self-fantasies. Whether a teenager or a girl, she would put everything that she ideals in her heart on the object of the illusion, and overly perfect and idealize the other person.

And ideals and reality?

You will understand that these are two different feelings after you have actually talked about it.

If the former has the opportunity to transform into the latter, for example, if you really achieve the right result with the object of admiration, it can also become true love, but at least that is not before the transformation.

It was with this starting point that he began to persuade Zhou Lu. During the process, Zhou Lu either curled her lips or stared at him with depression. Huang Jingyao didn't care. After a rational analysis, he smiled, "If you don't believe it, what should we make a bet?"

"What bet? You won't ask me to wait for a year or two, and then I will confirm what you say now when I grow up, right?" Zhou Lu still looked angry and her tone was a little uncomfortable.

"This is really not true. One or two years is too long. You are so smart. You know that I am perfunctory when you hear it. This way, you can find some friends, or seniors who are a few years older than you, as long as you know each other, if they or they have a partner they are dating, you can ask them about their views on love and the current situation of the relationship that is going on. As long as you ask, you will understand whether what I just said is true or false."

Huang Jingyao laughed silently. He didn't lie to her, so he didn't have to say anything, waiting for a year or two to perfunctory her. As long as Zhou Lu dares to do that, she will inevitably find some differences between her self-love and the real relationship between men and women. After discovering the difference, she will continue to correct it. This will be much easier than now.

Zhou Lu stared at Huang Jingyao in a strange way, then suddenly whispered, "Actually, there are two friends around me who are dating. They occasionally talk to me about boyfriends, and when they talk, they also complain, sad, and... But at that time I would think that if it were you, you would definitely not be like that."

“…”

Huang Jingyao lost his voice again for a moment before shook his head. "Your listening is also a kind of understanding and contact, but the contact is too shallow. I suggest you to go deeper and understand more, and I am definitely not as good as you think."

I started persuading myself with the previous theory again. I chatted with Zhou Lu for more than half an hour. During the process, the food they ordered was also served, but neither of them ate much.

It felt like the time was almost over, Huang Jingyao smiled and said, "Okay, you can try all the things I said before. Then, after a calm and rational analysis, you are so smart, you can confirm whether I'm lying to you by doing it. It's still late now. Should you go home, or go back to school and change your clothes before going back?"

Zhou Lu still looked unwilling, but she did not object anymore. Huang Jingyao took her back to school. After the little girl changed into normal clothes, she stopped a taxi to take her home.

Looking at the vehicle that disappeared under the night sky, Huang Jingyao breathed a sigh of relief.

But this persuasion cannot completely end Zhou Lu's feelings, but as long as she can calm down and use other means, it can be successful.

He walked towards the dormitory with some ease. Before Huang Jingyao could get there, a ringtone rang from him. When he grabbed the phone, he found that it was his father's phone number.

"Jing Yao, you're on holiday on National Day?"

When his father's hearty laughter sounded, Huang Jingyao also answered affirmatively. After a few simple words of jokes, Huang Weibing on the opposite side of his phone said, "Since you are on vacation, come back tomorrow? Something at home needs to be discussed with you."

Huang Jingyao was stunned when he heard something at home, but after carefully distinguishing the joy and happiness that could not be hidden in his father's words, he answered with certainty. After answering the matter, he hung up the phone and stood there thinking about it. Huang Jingyao took his cell phone and started dialing. The phone was dialed to Qin Xingpeng.

He is not far from his hometown at the first high of the county, just over 30 miles away. If he borrowed the car, it would take only 10 or 20 minutes to drive home. Now it is only seven or eight o'clock in the evening, which is not too late.

More than half an hour later, when Huang Jingyao drove back to his hometown, as soon as he arrived at the door, he saw his yard was brightly lit. He got out of the car and walked into the yard. What he saw was his father sitting in the living room drinking and eating, and he was the only one.

"Jing Yao? Why are you back at this time?" After Huang Weibing also stood up in surprise and asked, Huang Jingyao smiled and said, "I borrowed a colleague's car, which is convenient for me to come back. What happened?"

"Forget it, I'm back now, haha, you'd better know if you'd come back now. Your sister-in-law has it, and I'm finally going to hold my grandson."

“Ah~”

When this sentence was put into effect, Huang Jingyao also screamed in surprise.

"Your brother and the other two have been married for more than three years, and finally they have it. You young people are really afraid of any pressure. You want me to give birth if you want. After having a child, your mother and I will help take care of you without delaying your work. Isn't that enough?" Huang Weibing spoke excitedly and annoyed, as if he was scolding Huang Jinghou, but that glance made Huang Jingyao feel a little uncomfortable.

However, Huang Weibing just said casually, and then he called out, "Come on, sit down, such a big happy event, let's have a few drinks to celebrate."

Huang Jingyao sat down with a smile, chatting and chatting with his father for a few cups, Huang Weibing said again, "By the way, Jingyao, how much money do you have in your hands now? If you have enough money, give me some first? Although some things are easy to say, but... Well, your sister-in-law is over two months pregnant and should take good care of her. Your mother plans to take a long vacation there to take care of her. After that, she will take good care of her, such as renting her a better house, and buying more supplements."

"The main reason is that I got sick a lot of money in the past few years. My brother borrowed a lot of houses after getting married. In the past few years, your mother and I just paid off the foreign debts, so you should borrow some first."

After these words were finished, Huang Jingyao's drinking movements were frozen. After two seconds, he became embarrassed and embarrassed.

This embarrassment and embarrassment is not something else, it is not that he can't afford to pay, nor is it that he is unwilling to do so, but that his father said that he was so embarrassed. In addition, after he came to this day, he neglected to improve his parents' living environment more, etc., which made him even more embarrassing and embarrassing.

This is definitely Huang Jingyao's own negligence. (To be continued.)
Chapter completed!