One hundred and fifty, the regret of childhood sweethearts
Of course, external dressing is also required, but that is just some decoration and not all.
I know he is comforting me, and I also find that I have looked in the mirror more and more recently.
Sighs are getting more and more. Is it because I am aging before I grow old? Entering the worry period early?
So I decided to apply for an adult university and specialize in a subject to improve myself.
At night, I told Mingyu what I thought.
"Okay, it's great for you to have this idea. I support you. But what do you want to learn?"
“I want to learn music!”
"Well, that's pretty good. Aren't you writing? You can learn some cultural and artistic music appropriately, and singing and dancing can also foster your physical fitness and quality.
OK, I support you. I will help you see if there are any suitable schools online in the past two days? You can also pay attention to it."
"Thank you, my dear husband." With his support, I became even more determined.
But after I expressed my thoughts, someone still objected, is that mine?
"What! How old are you? You are all a mother? What books do you still study? What qualities can you improve your ability?
You, now you are preparing for a second child with Mingyu. That is the main thing. Let me tell you that in one or two years, you will be 30. If this woman is over 30 years old, it means that the elderly mother will recover slowly, which will also have a bad impact on your body and body.
I heard my mother’s words and gave birth earlier. Last time I said it would take five years to come soon, so we can prepare in advance.”
My mother talked about this for a long time, and I didn't dare to go home.
Even if I go back, I will go back in a hurry and will not stay for a moment.
Recently, the urging of a second child is getting faster and faster. If you don’t go, you will call me. Sometimes you don’t want to answer the phone when you are upset.
My mother was still angry in front of Mingyu for this matter.
"Don't be angry, mom is also doing our own good. You are patient and don't worry, I'll do it."
I naturally know what kind of temperament and personality of my mother. Of course, I can speak well with my son-in-law, but once she decides something, others cannot shake it unless she changes her mind.
"Xiaoping, why are you in a bad mood recently? Look at you who are always frowning. Are you feeling uncomfortable? If you feel uncomfortable, let Mingyu take you to check."
One night at Mingyu's house, my mother-in-law was concerned about the issue.
"I'm fine. Maybe I'm busy with work recently and under a lot of pressure."
"Oh, this child's work is of course important, but his health is even more important. You are Siyu's mother. If you are sick, Siyu will be affected."
"I understand mom!"
"Xiaoping, if you are tired, take a leave to rest at home for a few days, and don't destroy yourself." Mingyu's father also said caringly.
Fortunately, they didn't urge them, not as impatient as my mother.
But I feel that I will see some hopeful light from their eyes.
Maybe they hope we will have another one too!
"This person lives in this world. Life will never be the same since childhood. My father and I have been here together.
I used to remember that when we were working at work, we once left Mingyu alone at home.
At that time, the elderly at home were all in the countryside. As for us, we entered the city because of our studies, and were assigned to state-owned enterprises.
If you want to say the treatment is good, at least at that time, you could have enough food and warm clothes, and you could rent a house, which was considered a well-off level.
After a while of hard work, we had Mingyu. The little guy came and was surprised and surprised.
Later, after approval, I successfully gave birth to Mingyu.
I was afraid that my children would not be accustomed to living in the countryside, so I gritted my teeth and took him with me. When I was a child, I took him to work.
When he gets older, he will take him to kindergarten, just like when we are so terrified, it is almost four years old.
I remember one time when my child had a high fever, I was so anxious that I didn’t know what to do? Mingyu’s father usually came back very late when he worked overtime.
So I just waited hard and kept changing his towels for him. Later, Mingyu's father finally came back, so we carried the children to the hospital. It was already midnight at that time.
It was drizzling at that time. In order to prevent the child from catching a cold and getting wet, his father took off his coat and put it on the child!
Unexpectedly, Mingyu's mother would tell me about their past events. Listening to the past events of the older generation, I couldn't help but feel moved and burst into tears.
At that time, they were not as happy as we are now. They must have worked harder and more pressure.
"The most regrettable thing is that I was so busy with work later. I didn't even give Mingyu a little girl. His father said that Yu was too lonely alone.
In fact, we also considered whether to have another one at that time? But you also know the state at that time and the social environment did not allow it. Family planning was very strict at that time.
Our first child is a son, so we naturally cannot have another child.
Later, a new neighbor was moved next to us. You also know him, and it was Li Xixi and the others."
"Oh, it's her."
I knew it before, "After they moved here, I went to visit my family and saw their little girl. She was very cute and sweet. I liked it as soon as I saw it.
Li Xixi was really a cute little guy when she was young. She thought to myself that I would be able to have such a cute daughter, so that Mingyu would have a companion.
But no matter how imagination is, real problems do not allow them, so I can only think about it occasionally.
So I like her very much. Every time she comes to our house, I ask him to play with Mingyu. At first, Mingyu was shy and a little shy. Later, they went to school together and met each other more times, so naturally they became good friends.
This makes us feel much more at ease. As long as the adults are not around, let the two of them do their homework, play together, and go to school together. Over time, there will be no more problems than before.
Xiaoping, I told you all this today, because I want to tell you that your child will sometimes be lonely. If he can have a companion by his side, his childhood will be even more perfect.
Of course, parents' love is also very important. The harmonious reunion of a family is the best education for children's growth.
But if you had one or two playmates in childhood, it would be very complementary." After talking for so long, I have to say that Yu's mother is really a cultural person. Although her speech is turning, her purpose clearly told me in her words.
I know she is reminding me to find a companion for Siyu! But what I think is the relationship between Mingyu and Li Xixi since childhood.
They have been childhood sweethearts since childhood. Although Mingyu admitted that he once liked Li Xixi, Li Xixi also said that he liked Mingyu.
They weren't together for some reason.
When I was young, I didn’t know what love was. When I grew up, I gradually realized that the people around me were what I always liked.
Although it was because a long time ago, today I suddenly heard it for some reason, and I felt a different feeling in my heart. I couldn’t tell what it felt like, jealousy, not like, feeling uncomfortable, not either!
It was not until I turned on the computer and started updating my novel that I understood my feelings.
It's a pity!
They have been separated for so many years, so some things can no longer be saved.
Chapter completed!