I have to admit that you are having a big problem.

Li Mai also said with some laughter and cry that from a certain perspective, caring for you will be confused. If you care too much about her and care too much about her, you will be too afraid of losing her. So once she doesn't answer the phone or reply, even if she responds later, you will keep guessing, thinking that I can't guess her like this and that, and you can only rely on yourself to understand. But this is the truth.

Of course, it is also possible that there is indeed a problem with her. Because generally speaking, women in love want to be together with their boyfriend every day, and rarely do they fail to answer the phone.

After a pause, Li Mai said, you can actually think like this. All your guesses are because of you, you don’t trust her enough. Then you can change your perspective and stand on the premise of absolute trust and think about it again. In this way, what she told you is true. She is really busy with work, she is really too tired and doesn’t want to go out. There must be such a woman. According to my opinion, the self-woman will not consider other people’s feelings. To be honest, I feel this from your description.

Tang Zheng became more and more scared and said, Brother Mai, so I was looking for the wrong person? In fact, she is not suitable for me.

He shook his head slowly and Li Mai said, "You can't say that." On the contrary, for you, from the perspective of feelings, you have found the right person. But feelings are a matter between two people. If you treat her like this, the question is whether she treats you like this, at least she loves you enough. In fact, as long as you understand this, you can let go, and other problems are easy to solve.

The key is whether she really loves me, when I know I already love her very much. Tang Zheng himself summarized, is this what it means?

Li Mai smiled and nodded.

In love, it is you who tests her and she tests you, constantly tests each other, and the sea of ​​suffering is endless. Li Mai said with emotion.

Tang Zheng asked, Brother Mai, is this the case when you pursue your sister-in-law in the past?

Shaking his head, Li Mai said, "Your sister-in-law and I are quite special." We have never had a serious relationship, and we didn't even have a date alone except for the day of the proposal. There is no way, with a bottle of oil, the two of us want to have some private space.

Tang Zheng smiled and said, "But I think my sister-in-law value Haohao more." In fact, we have seen it a long time ago that my sister-in-law is a good mother."

After a bitter smile, Li Mai said, so I said that the relationship between me and her is quite special. Because my son knows her, and because his son gets together, he then starts to understand. The whole process is inverted with the general love.

I also want to have a son. Tang Zheng said enviously and annoyedly, watching Haohao grow up slowly this year, I find that life is really magical. I think it is the greatest meaning of life to be able to grow with new life.

After clicking him, Li Mai said, it seems that you have the potential to be a dad, and you have a deep understanding and will be a good dad in the future.

He shook his head with a wry smile, and Tang Zheng said, "It's hard, her parents strongly oppose it. I'm very worried whether she can withstand the pressure. There are too many couples who part ways due to family opposition.

It may not be a bad thing. Li Mai said, just treat it as the first hurdle. If you can pass, you will get smooth in the future.

I hope I can overcome this difficulty smoothly. Tang Zheng said, and asked again, Brother Mai, when do you think I should confess my true situation to her?

After thinking about it, Li Mai said, don’t worry, take one step at a time. At least their family has to accept your identity as a poor boy, and then they can accept your current status as a tall, rich and handsome man.

Smiling, Li Mai said, getting married is a matter of two families, or a fusion of two circles of friends. Have you ever met her colleagues or friends?

Tang Zheng shook his head, and became more and more scared.

After knowing you for more than two months, Li Mai pondered and said, if she treats you as her boyfriend, she will hope that the friends around her will know your existence and will be happy to take you out. People have subconsciously showing off their minds and get a good thing, and always hope that more people will know.

Tang Zheng's expression became serious and said that she had never mentioned these things. Until today, the circle between me and her is still completely independent. I mentioned taking her to meet with my friends, but she did not agree.

Shrugging, Li Mai said, it was obvious. At least she was hesitant about whether to recognize you. After a pause, Li Mai couldn't bear it and said, "Oh, there is no equal love. Either you love her more or she loves you more. You love her more. The initiative is in her hands. You can only play the role of the uncomfortable one.

Tang Zheng calmed down his emotions. Of course, he didn't want to be too fragile in front of the big boss, even if his personal relationship was good. He said, Brother Mai, I think it's too hard to fall in love and I feel very tired.

So people are actually very cheap, but it is precisely because of this that humans and other animals appear to be more advanced. Li Mai smiled and said, "You don't have to worry. Get along slowly. Just concentrate on falling in love. Don't rush to get involved in the topic of marriage."

He emphasized again: Be cautious when getting married.

Tang Zheng thoughtfully, nodded slowly and said, Brother Mai, I am much better now. I chatted with you and was no longer confused. I think I know how to continue with her. Let it go. It’s mine that can’t escape, it’s not that I can’t keep it.

This kind of words can only serve to comfort yourself. Li Mai smiled and shook her head slightly. He had to fight for everything by himself, and inaction would only lead to failure. This principle also applies to finding a wife. I have hesitated before, so I almost lost her. The opportunity is often only once, so I should cherish it.

Tang Zheng was confused again and asked, Brother Mai, what you mean is that I want to cherish her

Smiling helplessly, Li Mai said, "It's said that people in love have low IQ, it seems that this is a certain reason. Xiao Tang, it's you who fall in love with her. Is she the one you should cherish? Only you know in your heart. I said that, just to tell you that truth. Do you understand."

Tang Zheng was stunned for a moment, then quickly reacted and said with a bitter smile that he was indeed a little slow.

Shaking his head helplessly, Li Mai stood up and said, "Okay, don't think too much, date, do whatever you should do, solve the problems one by one. Go back, I have to coax your sister-in-law to take a nap. Come and see me any time you have something to do.

Tang Zheng stood up and said, OK, Brother Mai, then I'll leave first.

Go.

He sent Tang Zheng to the front yard and watched him drive away, he sighed helplessly. He said in his heart that these people under him could do more and more. They clearly drove a good car worth 600,000 or 700,000 yuan, but he said that he usually squeezed into the bus at work.

This little Tang usually looks like a very regular person, but he didn't expect that he is also a pretentious expert.
Chapter completed!