Brothers, I am confused.

In the 81st courtyard of Harbor New City, Li Maiban was lying on the recliner in the backyard, enjoying the warm afternoon sunshine of late winter and early spring. Wei Zhenhua and Hu Wenbing were on both sides, Li Xian and Pei Xiaoshuai sat in front and drank wine.

They were so idle that they were getting sunny.

I don't know if you are confused or not, but I know my wife can't say when she will give birth. Wei Zhenhua rubbed her temples and said, "Oh, I'm nervous." As he said that, he turned his head to look at Li Mai and asked, "I said Maizi, did you feel this way when you were a father for the first time.

Li Mai was speechless and said, "I was in the army when Haohao was born, and I didn't know about this at all, how did I feel when I went to."

Uh, I forgot. Wei Zhenhua said, then looked up at the blue sky. Oh, as Xuanxuan's childbirth day approached, I was not at ease, and I had all kinds of feelings. You said, a little guy is coming, how should I bring him up and grow up as big as Haohao. Mom, the more I think about it, the less I feel, the less I feel, and I am confused.

Hu Wenbing smiled, lit a cigarette, and said, "Don't think too much. There is no internship period for this kind of thing, sooner or later, there will be such a day. You feel confused now and don't know how to take care of your children. When the children come out, you will naturally know what to do."

As he said that, he added, this is human potential, and all mammals are like this.

Wei Zhenhua immediately said: I was so strange, where did you learn theories from? It seems like you have been a father.

Haha Hu Wenbing said, I read it in the book. Besides, Zhan Tianqi is pregnant.

What's pregnant with Wei Zhenhua immediately said in surprise, when did it happen

Hu Wenbing's complacent heart could not be concealed. He said, it was more than three months and he only found out last week. As he said that, he looked at Li Mai and said, "Maizi, should you find someone else to replace Zhan Tianqi? My wife is pregnant, you must not let her fight like this."

Li Mai waved his hand and said, "You have said it ten thousand times, okay, I will arrange it." Besides, the due date is still far. Unless you convince her to take the initiative to hand over the company's affairs."

Hu Wenbing suddenly felt bitter and said, forget it, I don’t want to be beaten.

Everyone burst into laughter.

It has been seven months since Li Mai's successful proposal. For men, Li Mai has accomplished both major events in life, career and family. Although he has experienced some hardships, he can finally enjoy a happy family life. The career and the Gun Group Construction Group that has been on track no longer needs him to worry about it. Making the direction and making decisions is his job.

Hu Wenbing also got married with Zhan Tianqi with certificates, but he was always joked that he was not good at shooting skills. It took more than three months to get pregnant. Compared with Li Mai, he was far inferior.

Brother Mai, my sister-in-law's due date is almost here, Li Xian took a sip of wine and asked with a smile.

Li Mai was in a good mood when he mentioned this matter and said that the doctor said at most there were two months left.

Tsk tsk Wei Zhenhua shook his head in admiration, Maizi, according to time, you made accurate shooting on the night of your proposal. As he said that, he sat up and pointed at Hu Wenbing and Lao Hu. Compared with Maizi, you have to throw your marksmanship.

Li Mai laughed proudly.

At this time, Li Xian smiled and asked, Brother Mai, is there a higher success rate on the plane?

Wei Zhenhua said first, I don’t know whether the success rate is high, but I know I must feel good.

Li Mai smiled and said, "I want to give it a try. You can buy a flying RV, and I'll say it to the red plane."

Forget it, I don’t have that much money. Li Xian said with a wry smile.

Li Mai squinted his eyes and looked at him, saying, "I said Xiao Xianzi, there is no need to cry in front of my brothers and others. I remember that you received 90 million yuan in dividends at the end of the year."

Smiling awkwardly, Li Xian lowered his head and his voice lowered. Uh, that, all the money is under Dandan's control. She must not agree with the helicopter that cost hundreds of millions of dollars. It's better to wait for another two years.

It is impossible to tell that Xiao Xianzi is still a wife, Guan Yan. Hu Wenbing said with a smile.

Wei Zhenhua snorted, no matter how strict the person is, he is not as good as the one with your long legs. I can't figure it out, she is really fighting with you.

But no. Hu Wenbing had a bitter face and really hit me, but I didn't dare to fight back. No, I think I quit my job at Nangang Station and went to work at Maizi's company, otherwise the salary would not be enough to heal.

You are enough, is it that exaggerated? Li Mai said helplessly, "Besides, your man beat me. In a year, he really increased the assets of the rental company ten times. She now holds 10% of the equity. It is more than enough to frame it with diamonds for you.

Hu Wenbing also sat up, his expression became serious, he glanced at everyone, and said, "This is the problem."

Everyone didn't react and looked at him.

Li Mai thoughtfully, took the cigarette handed over by Wei Zhenhua and lit it, waiting for Hu Wenbing's following.

Look, Hu Wenbing spread his hands, lighted and scratched his right finger on his left palm, putting aside the equity gains in her hand, and just mentioned the salary. My monthly salary is less than 8,000, and the average allowance and subsidy bonuses for all the combined allowances and subsidies is less than 8,000. As for her, she is nearly one million a month.

Pointing at Li Mai, Hu Wenbing was full of resentment: I was puzzled, are you burning too much money? Isn’t it just a CEO? What kind of annual salary do you give her tens of millions of yuan?

You see, the houses, furniture, cars, and diamond rings I live in now are all bought with her money. As for me, the moonlight clan, I don’t have a penny to save. Hu Wenbing said painfully that at the beginning, they loved each other so much that they were confused and they had to love each other and could ignore anything. But over time, the problem arose. I, a big man, can’t always rely on women to earn money to support my family. My salary is barely enough to meet the monthly maintenance fee, water and electricity costs of the house.

Everyone was silent.

Li Xian lowered his head and pondered for a moment, and then said, what Bing Ge said makes sense. Dandan has actually been working hard for a long time. For women, the gap in economic strength will also make them feel uncomfortable. Maybe money is not the ultimate goal, but to reflect their ability to make money. I am also very troubled now. As soon as she works hard, she spends less time together and has not been able to conceive a child. I guess it is because her mind is not on this.

Li Mai asked strangely, I feel like Dandan is a girl, why is she a strong woman?

He shook his head with a wry smile, and Li Xian said, Yes, I wondered too. Oh, if you want to talk about the reason, it might be because I have earned too much.

Li Mai sighed speechlessly and said, "Oh, when you earn less, this one is not enough, and you dare not buy it. Thinking of earning more, it's this problem and that change again. This life is just tossing and struggling."

I don't think so. Wei Zhenhua calmly analyzed that our Xuanxuan didn't have this idea. Now she finds something to do when she feels bored, and when she doesn't want to work, she plays and shops everywhere. Oh, I'm so relieved to see her spending money like water. This way I feel that the money I earn is meaningful.

No. Li Mai waved his hand and said, "Your Xuanxuan is pregnant and her mind is all about the child." Dandan's situation is different from hers. There is another reason.

As he said that, he looked at Hu Wenbing, and might have had a lot of contact with Dandan and Zhan Tianqi, which was affected.

Hu Wenbing was stunned for a moment, and it was my business again.

Everyone laughed softly.

After pondering for a while, Li Mai said slowly, but the problems mentioned by Lao Hu and Li Xian did exist and were very common.

During this period, I carefully observed the people around me. For example, Qian Mangui and his wife are a very typical example. You all know that they had divorced before. The root cause is that at the beginning of their business, Qian Mangui was responsible for the outside, and his wife was responsible for the inside. When his career stabilized, his wife began to have ideas. She felt that she had not been able to contribute her strength in her career. Perhaps she felt that she was unable to contribute to her efforts in this regard, which was irresponsible to the family or other ideas. In short, she wanted to manage the company. The well-profit company was almost bankrupt under her management, and I also started investing in the well-profit company at that time. Do you think the problem is very serious?

Hu Wenbing took the conversation and said slowly that the huge gap in economic status will sooner or later affect his life after marriage. Of course, I don’t care about how much money it costs, and Zhan Tianqi won’t care. But the gap exists with certainty, and this is a problem that needs to be solved. Besides, now, Zhan Tianqi may not think it doesn’t matter. Everyone’s money is spent. But after a long time, God, there are still decades. Maybe one day she will think, Oh, this Hu Wenbing is really useless, and he doesn’t have much money to be a loser. Or maybe she doesn’t want to work anymore, rely on me to support her. Is that little money enough for her to buy a bottle of perfume?

Shaking his head, Hu Wenbing said with a wry smile, "Love and marriage are really different things." Marriage life is the most challenging task for mankind to date, and it is really a difficult problem that needs to be overcome everywhere."

The so-called equality of the family is not without reason. Existence means meaning. Li Mai nodded slowly and said that this actually affects the difference in the growth environment.

Drinking some wine, Li Mai said that the growth environment determines a person's personality, also determines the consumption level and the psychological standards. We may think that eating a roadside stall worth more than ten yuan is already very satisfied, but for people who grow up in a superior environment, it is impossible to swallow it. Hundreds and thousands of simple meals are the normal meals they think. Just imagine that children who grow up in a superior environment have enjoyed high-end products in society since childhood. One day, they have to lower their demand standards, and there will undoubtedly be various problems.

After a smile, Li Mai said, but there are always some people who are restless and want to challenge the difficulties. For example, you, like me.

In short, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will be defeated by a long marriage. The key is whether we can keep our original intentions in this long war and go to the end as always.

Everyone felt that listening to your words was better than reading for ten years, and they all lowered their heads and thoughts.

Note: The following text is free

Written at the beginning of the volume

I spent a day thinking about how this paper should start. In fact, the dad has no outline after going through it. In the past eight months and sixteen days, I spent all this time pushing down Teacher Zhang. I think it’s been long enough.

Originally this was a very pure emotional story.

Today, readers asked me, Rifle, are you writing real stories?

The rifle was silent for a long time and answered against his will, no. It should be said that it is not all, nor is it not all. In terms of relationships between men and women, in terms of marriage, the book expresses the views and opinions of the rifle, which is inevitable.

Have you ever encountered too many things to say to him or her but you always feel that you don't know how to say them?

I think everyone has encountered it. The necessary stages of life are a bit disgusting. People must have one or two unforgettable love experiences. To put it bluntly, people must throw themselves out of reason with their own hands.

My dad finally got to this point according to his mental plan. Is it going to be a situation I imagined if Rifle really wants to write about his life after marriage? I don’t know.

Many people believe that life is not easy, and if you even feel so uncomfortable, you will have no hope. Rifle believes that literary works must have their attributes after all. It should be explained profoundly, teach people to keep an optimistic attitude in life, and give people thinking and correct values.
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