Qian Mangui's home, Gu Xinting took Duoduo to watch TV in the living room. In the pavilion in the yard, Li Mai and Qian Mangui sat facing each other, drinking tea and talking.

Li Mai smoked cigarettes one by one, and the sadness and confusion on his face were very obvious.

After coming out of the cramped residence, he drove around the city aimlessly, his mind was messy, and various thoughts and thoughts appeared at the same time. Gradually, he found that what really bothered him was not because of the birthday celebration, but because of the fear in his heart that had never been discovered.

For some reason, he came to Qian Mangui's home.

As a Qian Mangui investor, Li Mai rarely communicates with Qian Mangui, and there is no need for him to deal with business matters. Logically speaking, when a person is most irritable and confused, the first thing he thinks of is the best friend, and he can usually get a way to uncover his heart from there.

For no reason, Li Mai remembered that Qian Mangui was Qian. As for why this happened, perhaps the marriage life between Qian Mangui and his wife touched Li Mai.

When Chuchu met Qian Mangui, he complained almost every time that there were prodigal girls in his family. This was not good, there were all kinds of conflicts, and even divorces. Perhaps Li Mai had not taken these things in his heart for so long, but when he suddenly realized that he was about to enter the marriage, he would suddenly remember this lesson.

All doubts and fears will gather together and suddenly burst out, and the fuse is that the birthday celebration is cancelled.

Li Mai shook his head unconsciously, looked at Qian Mangui, and said slowly, "Old Qian, I definitely love Zhang Xiaoyu, and no one has ever made me love this deeply." However, an hour ago, I suddenly looked forward to life after marriage, but found that there were conflicts and unhappiness everywhere. I always felt that I couldn't explain clearly, was very scared, and felt very unsure. But I couldn't explain clearly what it was.

Qian Mangui added tea to him, and was silent for a moment. He said seriously, Mr. Li, call me Lao Qian, how old are you? I am earlier than you in terms of getting married and having children. I am considered a person. I will be grateful and tell you my opinion.

Li Mai listened carefully.

After sighing slightly, Qian Mangui looked at the night sky and said, "I want to tell you about the marriage between my wife and I at that time. She and I were college classmates. In fact, you saw it, and I couldn't find a rough man who I threw in the crowd. She was beautiful and had many suitors. The only reason I could catch her was that I told her that I wanted to find a suitable woman to marry. She told me that many people who pursue her wanted a passionate love and a sweet love. I was the first to ask for marriage, so she agreed to me.

After a pause, Qian Mangui continued to say that she believed that men who want to get married were responsible men. The combination of two people is not a simple change in the household registration book, nor is it the one from the Civil Affairs Bureau, but a complete integration of the two people and two families. Things that can be ignored when dating, and you must consider them everywhere after getting married. As a man, marrying a woman is equivalent to putting pressure on your shoulders to your shoulders.

Looking at Li Mai, Qian Mangui said that fear of this situation before marriage is caused by the existence of this potential pressure. The more you love her, the more fear you are. Because you will always worry and doubt yourself. I think if you have the ability to give her the life she wants, no one dares to pat your chest and say I promise.

Qian Mangui smiled and said, at the beginning of the marriage, because of the limited economic conditions, in order to have a better life, we focused our energy on making money and working together. Although the normal family life is hard, it is very sweet. As a result, after enough money is made, various conflicts begin to appear. The root cause is that everyone's energy has begun to shift from career to family. Two people have two hearts, the most complicated thing in the world is the heart of the people. When they are idle, they start to suspect me and I suspect you, so there are conflicts and conflicts. Before, when they are about to divorce, it is precisely because of the accumulation of trivial conflicts that have reached a critical point.

Speaking of which, I have to thank you. Without your help, I am afraid we might have regained the hard but happy days we had, but we would have lost the superior living environment.

He shook his head with a wry smile, Qian Mangui said, "The person who is in love with you is the one who is married and has children." Mr. Li, to be honest, I personally agree with this sentence. Because life is full of such examples. Exceptions like me are destined to go through the ups and downs of marriage. If you can go through these moments together, you can completely integrate with each other. All the contradictions and conflicts in the future will only be small problems that will inevitably arise in life.

He smiled again, Qian Mangui said, Mr. Li, you suddenly feel unsure and fearful now. From me, you care too much about Teacher Zhang, so you are afraid that life after marriage is not what she hopes. If this happens, you will feel guilty and blame yourself.

Li Mai's eyes drifted a little, and his mind was constantly digesting what Qian Mangui said. It was obvious that he was a hundred times more powerful than Qian Mangui in business. However, in terms of marriage, Qian Mangui's perception was deeper than him.

I thought I actually understood marriage. I went to register for marriage with Haohao's mother in private, but after less than two months of getting along, I went to the army. Li Mai pondered and said, maybe I had experienced the sweetness at the beginning, but I had not experienced the mixed feelings later.

Qian Mangui nodded and said, every marriage is like this. From the initial sweetness, it gradually becomes dull and loses passion. Everything I did together before has a freshness and will remember it very clearly. After a long time, it becomes natural to do those things. People are like this, and the desire for freshness and thrilling in their hearts will always exist. The key is not to let these dominate.

Marriage means responsibility, and it reflects responsibility. Without a solid skeleton, it is difficult to bear such a burden. Qian Mangui said seriously that marriage is the grave of love. This sentence is not without reason. From love to family affection, marriage is a watershed. Love can be beautiful most of the time, but family affection is heavy most of the time. In such emotional changes, the views and opinions of the two people will naturally be affected. Therefore, friction and contradictions will arise.

Qian Mangui suddenly smiled and said, but a truth I have realized during this period shows that these are not problems as long as the hearts of two people are still together as usual.

Li Mai looked at Qian Mangui with admiration and said, "Old Qian, you surprised me." I didn't expect your understanding to be so profound.

Alas, life is a lifelong mentor, and people are a lifelong student. Who is willing to hurt your brain? But life forces you to think without thinking. If two people don’t think as before, the conflict will never be resolved. Qian Mangui said, Mr. Li, I think you have considered too much. I have heard of your affairs with Teacher Zhang. To be honest, Teacher Zhang is not a big beauty, I believe you think so. Your family background is not very superior. However, the most important thing is that you and her are suitable.

Li Mai repeated these two words, thinking, and slowly said, I often see such a phenomenon. Many couples, if the man is a handsome guy, then his wife will definitely be less beautiful. If the woman is a beautiful woman, then the man must have an ordinary appearance. Many times I am puzzled. Why did such a beautiful woman find such a handsome guy and marry a woman with a poor appearance?

Smiling, Li Mai said, the only explanation is what you just said is appropriate.

Haha, that's right, Qian Mangui patted his thighs, pointed to his neck and pointed to the room. I'm a very typical example.

Alas, God is fair. The so-called handsome men and beautiful women are paired up, and most of the time they only exist in TV series. Li Mai said helplessly.

Qian Mangui nodded in agreement, thought for a while, and said, Mr. Li, have you ever thought that the life you imagined that Teacher Zhang wanted may not be the life she longed for.

Li Mai didn't react for a moment, what does it mean

You think that the life that Teacher Zhang wants may not be what she thinks. Qian Mangui said, maybe, all she wants is a reliable man who can stay with her until old age. As for what kind of life will be like when two people are together, whether it is wealth or poor or poor, it is probably not the focus of her consideration. They are all adults, and I believe that Teacher Zhang also has a very cautious idea when considering marriage, so she is mentally prepared.

After a pause, Qian Mangui concluded with a smile: In other words, you are scaring yourself and giving yourself inexplicable fear.

This time, Li Mai pondered for a long time. Over the past few days, he and Zhang Xiaoyu rarely communicated about this. The topic of marriage has never been mentioned. Does Zhang Xiaoyu know what he was thinking in his heart? He didn't know. As Qian Mangui said, maybe all of this was Li Mai who was scaring himself.

A woman took care of her son without any name, endured the rumors outside and was almost expelled from the school. Can't she see something?

I think I'm slow, very slow. Li Mai said guiltily, I should have understood a long time ago that she had already expressed all her thoughts and attitudes with practical actions.
Chapter completed!