The eldest brother said, "I will give her alimony."
Chen Yiqian said: "Then will you give her money for the rest of her life?"
The eldest brother said: "No one can bear full responsibility for anyone's whole life."
"But how do women like her live after divorce?"
The eldest brother said for granted: "She can study like you and become independent."
Chen Yiqian: "Do you have to experience these pains? My sister-in-law has no faults and mistakes. For years, you have been away from me for serving my father and mother in your hometown. Why should you divorce her?"
The eldest brother said, "No, I just don't want to live like this confused again."
"Why are you confused? Are you not clear now?"
The eldest brother said: "Just like I am now, I see my wife looking at me every day with a pair of ignorant eyes staring at her. Whenever I chat with her, I don't know what to say. Now is a new era, but she still lives like a feudal woman from the previous dynasty. Our Chen family does not restrict her. I am not a person like old antiques. She can enrich her knowledge while taking good care of her family. She lives more suitable for this era when the times change, rather than becoming a person abandoned by the times!"
The eldest brother finally said, "I really don't know how to get along with her. If she continues to be my wife, I will be responsible for the responsibility of raising her as a husband. But apart from raising her, I don't know what to do to become a husband and wife with her. I think my life will be a stagnant pool. In my lifetime, no one will understand me, my thoughts and works. I will not be willing to live like this for a lifetime."
Chen Yiqi heard his elder brother say this to his sister-in-law and his life, somehow he remembered himself in his previous life. Didn’t he imprison himself in the previous life? After the divorce, the second son died and she survived the repeated blows. After that, she felt like a warrior, and she could grit her teeth and survive all the difficulties.
There are some women who can survive the life and challenges after divorce, and more women cannot survive. Old-style women have never read books or learned knowledge. Their world is only in the backyard. In their eyes, they only look at their husbands and children, and they are around them and the pot. The affairs of husbands and children are the biggest things. Most of them are hardworking and hardworking, but they don’t have themselves, and they don’t even realize themselves.
Chen Yiqian said: "But you married her and you have been married for many years. After the divorce, how can you let her survive like a woman who is incapable of living? Are you trying to kill her for your own pleasure?"
The eldest brother said: "The society is becoming more and more open now, and women will gradually step onto the stage of the times. If she works through her own efforts, I think life will change new things for her, and I will also give her a lot of money."
At this time, Chen's father, who had been listening to their argument, opened his mouth and scolded his elder brother: "Beast, I think you are stupid in studying! What is your wife's fault? Do you want to divorce her? I tell you, I haven't died for a day, so I don't agree!" After that, he shook his sleeves and left.
Mom quickly advised her elder brother and said, "Boss, don't make your father angry. Have you forgotten the beats you were when you were disobedient when you were young? You are so old, why are you so willful? Is marriage a matter of one person's will? It's a matter of two people, or even two families. How can you allow you to make trouble? Although the eldest daughter-in-law has not been given over the years, she said to you, to me and your father, that you want to divorce, and I don't agree. What are you talking about now? But how many good women are there after the divorce? Don't mention Jiahe, is Jiahe a good thing now?"
Chen Yiyi thought to herself why she was still in trouble. At this time, the elder sister who had been watching the show said: "It's the New Year, how could a brother have such a thing? Could it be that there is someone outside, right?"
The eldest brother immediately said: "There are no people, only ghosts, my own ghosts, I don't want to be trapped and died in marriage."
The third sister said, "Brother, my sister-in-law is really good to us younger brothers and sisters. She also embroidered a handkerchief for me during the Chinese New Year!" Although the New Year gifts for many years have been a handkerchief every year, there are at least some.
Mom said again: "You can discuss things between you and your wife well, don't be so impulsive. Boss, you have had ideas since childhood, but you should consider the burden that a husband should bear as a man."
Chen Yiqian: "When I divorced, my elder brother thought that the divorce was all because of my fault. Now you are going to divorce my elder sister-in-law, and you think that divorce is all because of my elder sister-in-law. Are you not wrong, brother?" She has always been a person who likes to expose others' shortcomings or self-destruct his shortcomings. But after many years, she is a little unbearable to hear this argument.
The eldest brother was really stopped after Chen Yiyan said this. Finally, after everyone's persuasion, the eldest brother threw down a sentence; "Anyway, I have to divorce this marriage," he looked at the eldest sister-in-law lying on the ground and said, "I know you didn't really faint. You used to pretend to be faint. Today's move is not possible. What I said just now is heartfelt, and your marriage is never possible to continue." After that, he lifted up his long jacket and left.
After leaving for a while, tears flowed out of the corners of the lying sister-in-law's eyes. My mother sighed and said, "Brother's wife, you should get up too."
The eldest sister-in-law got up silently, thought of the words that the eldest brother said just now, and burst into tears and said to her mother: "Mom, Jiaguo is too bullying!"
My mother quickly comforted her sister-in-law and said a lot of words such as "I will definitely educate him", "I will never get a divorce", "I only recognize you as the eldest daughter-in-law", which made Chen Yiyan feel very familiar. It seemed that the parents of the Lu family also said similar things to her back then, but what's the use? Not liking such things is the most helpless thing in the world.
A person can be forced to do many things, such as being forced to maintain a relationship, or even forcing the other person to submit to you physically, but it cannot force the other person's heart. If he doesn't love you in his heart, he doesn't love you. There is no reason, just like there is no reason to love someone, and it is impossible to force him not to love someone.
The eldest sister-in-law went from crying to sobs and finally became choking. What she said intermittently was also complaining about how the eldest brother could treat her like this. She was doing her best to the Chen family, how could she do this...
Later, the eldest sister-in-law stopped talking about this, just sat blankly. Mom looked at her like this, sighed, and dismissed everyone who was advising and persuading her. She said to the eldest sister-in-law: "You calm down first, I will persuade the boss."
After thinking about it, he said to his sister-in-law: "Since the boss said he wanted a woman who knows him, the eldest daughter-in-law, you should try it too."
The eldest sister-in-law reacted at this time and said in a crying voice: "Why didn't I understand him? I've been working hard, but he ignored me!"
My mother sighed slightly again, stopped talking, and left.
Later, during the Chinese New Year, he almost fell into the family ethics battle of his elder brother and sister-in-law. The elder brother and sister-in-law slept in separate rooms, and they had almost never had a good conversation. The elder brother was even beaten by Chen's father to make his back bleeding, and he did not open his mouth and say that he would take back the idea of ​​divorce.
Seeing that Chen's father beat him so hard, Mom was about to cry from the side and shouted, "Don't hit him anymore. When did he beg you for forgiveness after he was beaten since he was a child?"
Chen's father beat his elder brother to the bed and stayed until the fifteenth day of the first lunar month.
Before the eldest brother and sister-in-law could get married, another big incident happened in Pingcheng. Zhou Yongcheng's beautiful wife Xiao Qiuyue elopes with his money!!
This incident became the most eye-catching news during the Chinese New Year in Pingcheng at the first time, and was more attractive than the celebrities' love stories, the noble son's new love, and became the biggest topic of conversation for the people of Pingcheng during the Chinese New Year. After reading the detailed introduction of the tabloids, many people could even tell the jokes about Xiao Qiuyue meeting a lover in a vivid way, as if they saw it on the spot. Moreover, the tabloids wrote about Xiao Qiuyue's affairs like novels, with plots, love and even uncovered love descriptions. For a time, Pingcheng's tabloids relied on this news to sell newspapers.
Xue Renai knew it a little late. No one in Xue Mansion dared to mention this matter to her. When she heard the hot discussions of the guests in the store, she realized it. After hearing the news, her old lady said, "This is all retribution!"
Xue Renai only said lightly: "It's all in the past." Although she did not mention this matter again, she often bought newspapers to ask Abao, who is the most literate among the three children, to read it to her. When Abao was stumbling, there were still many new words that he didn't recognize. He also asked Xue Renai: "Grandma Xue, what is elopement? Do you not listen to adults and go out to play privately? It's called elopement? Then I elope with A Guang and Shanshan every day!"
Xue Renai laughed out loud, but she felt more relieved. She never let the children read such newspapers again. Instead, she told the old lady: "It's not going to be tainted by the children's hearts and eyes. This old guy should have such a disaster."
Chapter completed!