Yue Yao's words caused Yu Rong's eyes to focus on his face, which made Li Yan secretly complain. Although he knew Yue Yao was doing it for his own sake, he didn't know how difficult it would be to have a clone today."

How are you going to celebrate her? It’s good to go out and have a romantic world, but if the two of you are at home...” it may not be as ambiguous as Yue Yao’s subtext. Maybe she will still sit in front of the computer in the office...

When Li Yan hesitated to speak, Zhang Yurong said calmly: "What's there to celebrate? Birthdays happen every year, and what's the difference between today and yesterday? It's not the same as usual. It's still a world of two, with him and me

The world will definitely be very boring."

These words fully expressed her attitude. Although she said that there was nothing to celebrate and that her birthday was nothing special, she only said that living with him would be boring, but she did not deny the proposal.

Yueyao understood and looked at Li Yan with her eyes, and Li Yan also understood. But he had already promised Wen Qianyi that he should at least take the time to go there.

After Ji Yurong finished speaking, he wiped the corners of his mouth gracefully, and then said seriously: "Birthdays are certainly worth celebrating. Although there are birthdays every year, who can guarantee how many birthdays they can celebrate? Things are unpredictable.

No one can guarantee even next year’s birthday. Even if you can guarantee that you will live a long life, birthdays will be missed one by one..."

"It's Sister Yurong's birthday, don't be so... pessimistic." Yue Yao reminded him tactfully, and reluctantly replaced it with "pessimistic."

For killers, almost all of them have died once, and some have even almost died several times. Therefore, they cherish life far more than ordinary people, and cherish it every day. When they are not sick and have no worries, ordinary people generally

We will not feel that the world is impermanent, life is fragile, and we will not cherish it so much, so we need various festivals and anniversaries to remind us to cherish life, cherish time, cherish relatives, cherish lovers... cherish everything we have.

"This is not pessimism, and of course I don't mean to say it in a bad way. I just want to remind Yurong to learn to cherish it. Don't always think about next year and talk about it later. Because we don't know how to cherish, we give away too many things.

When it comes to "In the future, will everything really be possible? I'm afraid that when I wait until later," what I originally longed for has been forgotten. Perhaps, you have also thought about letting go of everything and traveling well. There is one thing you have always wanted to do.

Where you want to go, or just go to a paradise-like place to escape from the mundane things..."

Hearing Li Yan's words, Yurong curled her lips slightly at first, thinking that he was just trying to show off the truth, but after hearing it later, she began to resonate with the idea that she had really had such an idea.

"But you have never realized it!" Li Yan said, staring into her eyes.

Zhang Yurong opened her mouth: "I did that because

Li Yan grabbed the words: "Because there is no time! In the past, it was because you had to study and you had no time. You are better than others. You have compressed the study time that others originally needed. You have a Ph.D. at a young age

You have a degree in a few foreign languages. In addition to being a genius and having good qualifications, it is also because your mother trained you earlier than the average person. And you also know how to seize the time earlier than the average person. You are always rushing, and your study time has been shortened from the regular time.

After several years, you are also rushing to do investment, management, and business operations. Every success can be achieved in less time than others."

"Am I wrong to do this?" Zhang Yurong frowned, "Even if I rush so hard, I still can't reach the height of my father. Is being lazy like you the right attitude in life?"

Li Yan smiled slightly: "I didn't say that. I read a book called "Science and Rationality" that said, "You must remember that the map has an important characteristic. That is, it does not show the real territory. To be precise, it does not show the real territory.

It provides similar territory structures based on different uses.

"The map is not an actual territory, and the world is not an absolutely real world. It is only a world shaped by sensory experience."

Zhang Yurong frowned: "Do you want to talk to me about idealist philosophy? Or psychology?"

Yue Yao shrugged. She was also speechless. Talking about these things with girls was definitely a disgrace. "No, the theory I just mentioned should be regarded as a hypothesis, not a law. But the map is not equal to the actual territory. In different

We understand that places have different uses for different purposes, but what about the world? Is there a world that is exactly the same? Chinese, Americans, Koreans, Koreans, and Africans. Everyone sees, knows, and understands the world.

, are they the same? If you narrow it down to me, Yueyao, and Sister Liu, are the worlds that everyone understands the same? "

Zhang Yurong and Yueyao were stunned by Li Yan's words.

"Li Yan, your state of mind is particularly advanced today." Yueyao said with a smile.

Even Zhang Yurong said: "I feel the same way. But what are your intentions in saying this to prevent us from underestimating you? None of us have underestimated you."

Li Yan smiled and shook his head. Of course Zhang Yurong knew what kind of diploma he had. He appreciated her genius, but he never felt inferior because of it. After reading many books on psychology and other fields, he still didn't care about it.

"There is a theory that the various memories, experiences, small concepts, small beliefs, etc. that we have accumulated in the brain since childhood will affect our view of the world, not just the world view. The same material world, different human eyes

What they see is actually different. For example, when walking on the same street, some people only see beautiful women, some people see beautiful clothes, some people see many cars... the same beautiful woman, some people see

The breasts are so big, some people see her beauty, some see the small jewelry she wears, and some see the beauty has an Adam's apple,"

"Disgusting!" Yu Rong and Yue Yao listened carefully to his theory. After talking about the metaphor of looking at beautiful women, they looked at each other and smiled. They felt that the one who only saw beautiful women was Li Yan himself, and the one who only saw beautiful women with big breasts was

He. But then the beautiful woman's Adam's apple popped out. Isn't she a shemale?

"Now comes the important point, concept! You guys must have regarded the examples of beautiful women as mine."

"Isn't that the kind of person you are?" Yurong curled her lips.

"It doesn't matter, continue to use myself as an example. I should be regarded as a real object in the real world, right? But for me, in your opinion, Yu Rong, I am just like what I just said, lazy, not enterprising, just eating and waiting to die.

This is how you see me; in the eyes of Yueyao, Liu Po ​​and others, I go to work on time and leave on time every day, and I am a hard-working person; in the eyes of colleagues like Wen Qianyi and Jiang Xueyin, I am

At first, I didn’t think it was very good, but after working together, I will be impressed by my work ability. In your dad’s eyes, I am a teachable person; in your dad’s eyes, I am the man behind you, and I will be able to do my job in the future.

The Cun family "matches their wives and teaches Sun Zhiren"

Zhang Yurong listened to what he said at first and thought it was not very good. Her previous impression of him was indeed like that. But the more she heard about it, the more she felt something was wrong. She said coldly: "I know, the whole world thinks you are very good."

Okay, I’m the only one who thinks you’re not good, it’s because I don’t like you, okay?”

Yue Yao hurriedly explained: "He was just making a metaphor, he didn't mean that."

Li Yan expected her reaction. He smiled and said: "What I want to say is that because different people have accumulated different concepts since childhood, they will have different views on the same people, things and things. As you can see

, they are all the same me, but they use different concepts to see different sides. Similarly, other concepts are the same. Going back to the previous question, there is nothing wrong with you, and there is nothing wrong with me, just different concepts.

Just different ways of choosing.”

Zhang Yurong looked at him for a while. She was not angry. She just felt a little outrageous. "You said this, which sounds a bit unreasonable, just to show that you and I have different ideas?"

Li Yan shook his head again, but put away his smile and said seriously: "It's not an explanation. It's a desire to change! Your ideas have been cultivated since childhood. If I just tell you the difference between you and me, you will

I won't care about it. I tried my best to say, "Through this theory, I will make you question and reflect on your past concepts."

"Thank you, I don't think there is anything wrong with my concept!" Zhang Yurong had already finished breakfast while listening to him.

"Just because you don't think there is a problem, you continue to believe, so you continue to live in a life of no time and rush for time, so you want to travel, want to relax, and everything you want to accomplish is not effective at work.

Dreams will still continue to run out of time. They will continue to be left to "later." Miss, you are already twenty-five years old. How long do you have to wait? At work, the group's exhibitions continue to take up a lot of your time; in life, your parents will

I'm urging you to have children, when will you have time to do your own thing? Will you wait until retirement? Look at my father-in-law's current life, it's the future if you don't change your mind!"

"Don't talk nonsense," Yu Rong said softly, but her heart started to sink a little.

Her concept comes more from the words and deeds of her parents. It is precisely because when she was a child, she saw her father's workload all day long when his career was developing at its fastest, that she took such a state as a natural and normal state.

He would have the perseverance to work tirelessly in study and work. But his father worked hard. Although the Tiantang Group has achieved today's glory, his body has collapsed long ago. For people who are less than sixty, many entrepreneurs are at this time.

He is still strong and healthy, but his health is not good. Last year, he became very ill...

Of course, Zhang Tianyi didn't tell her, and Li Yan didn't tell her either. She didn't know that her father's conditions were not good during those years in the jungle of the Golden Triangle when he was young.

Time management will lead to overwork and illness.

At this time, Li Yan felt Yue Yao kick him from under the table, signaling him to comfort Zhang Yurong who was depressed by him.

Li Yan wanted to keep her depressed for a while, so that she could hear Caiwang's words in her ears and in her heart. But since it was also her birthday today, changing her mind would not be a matter of time.

He reached over and held Yurong's hand.

Zhang Yurong twitched for a moment, but did not move. He quickly looked at Yueyao beside him and whispered: "What are you doing?" "Be happy, I am reminding you to think more about yourself in the future and cherish life more. You

There is nothing wrong with spending a lot of time on work. You just need to balance work and rest, and start to make some time for the life you want to live and your previous dreams. For example, you can start by arranging a trip. I am willing to do it anytime.

To accompany you."

Hearing Li Yan's gentle words and this tempting proposal, Zhang Yurong was a little moved. She looked at him carefully again. Could it be that he said so much today just because he wanted me to travel with him? "I still have a lot more."

Let’s talk about work arrangements later.”

In fact, she doesn't like socializing and business trips. If she doesn't have to come forward, she would usually rather deal with and arrange things through the computer or phone. Nowadays, with the Internet and video technology, many business trips can be avoided. She really has to find time and make arrangements.

It’s not too difficult. The key is concept!

Li Yan smiled and didn't say anything. "Okay.

However, if you cherish yourself, you should also cherish others. For example"

Yueyao helped him speak out: "Haha, you are talking about yourself, right?"

Yurong also thought he wanted to talk about himself.

"Wrong! I want to talk about my parents! The tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, the child wants to be raised but cannot be kissed." Li Yan squeezed her hand, the two looked at each other, and both understood that in this regard, both sides are the same.

"You know? In addition to celebrating birthdays, we should also be grateful! Our birthday is the day when mothers suffer the most pain. We should not only think of ourselves, but also think of our parents. If there is anywhere you want to go today,

Tell me, if not, I want to pack my things, come back, watch a movie with you in the afternoon, and then we go back to celebrate your birthday with my parents in the evening!"

Zhang Yurong's breathing quickened a little, and she felt a little more excited. Although his arrangement was not very original, it was the plain happy feeling she had always longed for! Especially since he didn't just want to be alone with her, but also thought about her.

To her parents who she cares about very much.

"It's nothing, I just listen to you." After agreeing, Yu Rong thought of Yue Yao who had been helping her, looked at her, and added: "And Yue Yao, we also went to the movies together and went home together!"

"

Yueyao smiled and said: "I am happy if you can have a happy life. I know that you are all very good to me, and you are afraid that I will feel lonely alone, but no matter how good friends are, we cannot always be together. There are special times.

, I can’t be a light bulb. Besides, I can’t stay at home every day. I will get together with a few local authors who are connected online. By the way, I will give you a gift this afternoon!”

Due to his status, Li Yan couldn't persuade him too obviously.

Zhang Yurong originally wanted her to go with him, but thinking that she should have her own social circle, otherwise she would feel like she was her vassal, so she agreed with a smile.
Chapter completed!