"What about you? What will time do to you?"

Li Yan was also a little surprised when Zhang Yurong asked this question. He did not expect Zhang Yurong to ask such a question. This was a disguised way of asking him for his opinion on the future of the two of them!

Li Yan drove the car and stopped on the side. Since we were discussing such a serious issue, of course we had to have a serious attitude. The environment and atmosphere were both very important.

"Yurong, what you need is not what time will make me become, nor what time will make you become, but what you want to become in the days to come, you

What do you want me to become?" Li Yan answered this question seriously.

Seeing that Zhang Yurong was stunned and seemed to have difficulty understanding what he said, Li Yan smiled: "Maybe what I said is a bit pretentious. To put it simply, it is what you live for and whether you live for yourself. Take

Let’s talk about the relationship between the two of us. In this, you are completely passive. You are doing it for your father and to satisfy his wishes. So you married me, a person I have never met before and whom you are not familiar with. But what? It’s very long.

We have not gotten along very well for a while, and your father's health has improved a lot. In theory, he can withstand some shocks.

But you didn't do that. You still maintained the status quo silently, living under the same roof with me, a person you didn't like. Of course, our relationship changed later, and now I treat you differently than before, and you

Same for me. But there is a new problem in front of you. Your parents want a grandson. They want to force you, or let you have a baby earlier, and this is not the life you want, at least not

You want one now! That’s nonsense. We both are still like that, there’s no way we can have children.

But what about your attitude? If my estimate is correct, if your father-in-law and mother-in-law say it more often, you will probably agree for the sake of filial piety. You will choose to give yourself to me and reluctantly live with me. Just think about it.

Let's just make do. Then have a child. Maybe they will have other requirements in the future, such as having another child. Think about it, forget it, let's have another child.

Your life is like this, your future is like this! And I, in your life, am no longer just me, or just a code name. This may be me, or it may be another person, because

You are not doing it for yourself, but for the filial piety of your parents. You are making do with it! You have not thought about what you need."

Li Yan spoke for a long time, all in one breath, which made Zhang Yurong's eyes widen as her mind quickly digested his words.

Fortunately, she was originally a genius, but her base quotient was too good and her emotional intelligence was relatively weak. Therefore, it was difficult for her to sort out these things by herself, but when Li Yan helped her explain it to her, she could still understand it quickly.

absorb.

"What do you mean, I have been living for my parents?"

"Live for others! Of course, I may seem a little heartless when I say this. But in a strict sense, your parents are also two of the others. Maybe you think you can do anything for them today, but if

Because of this, you married me, followed me completely, and had children with me. One day, maybe you will live for me, and one day you will live for your children. In this, you did not consider your own

question."

Li Yan grabbed her hand and squeezed it hard. He chuckled and said, "But you fool, have you ever thought about it, do your parents need you to live for them? What they want is.

Look at your happiness! When your father was dying, he wanted to help you find someone to rely on. Seeing that you had someone to rely on would make him feel at ease. But what about us? In order to reassure them, we have been putting on a show and showing affection.

Let them get a wrong message, thinking that you have always lived a happy life. That's why they will continue to match up and mix things up. In fact, they want a grandson. Although it is the wish of the older generation, isn't it to make young people more loving?

Where do children come from? Of course they are made! And when we enjoy the making process, we will undoubtedly get closer to each other.

Zhang Yurong took a sip and said, "What are you talking about!"

"I'm telling the truth. Although the older generation may not think so themselves, the thoughts of ancestors have actually been implicitly consistent with this point, otherwise it would not be passed down from generation to generation. If the elders want grandchildren, they will only let them

The younger generation has a very bad relationship. Once there are many examples, naturally no one will use this method. This shows that most people will still become more affectionate because of this."

"Really? I don't know," Zhang Yurong didn't look at him. With this question, the two of us haven't reached that point yet.

"Then the question comes, now. Are you living for yourself or for your parents? You are still passive! Let's put it another way. At work, at work, this is your absolute responsibility.

Strengths: Very correct arrangement of work. I am confident and calm as you can delete me. I will gradually get closer to your goal at work and arrange a job position for me step by step. Or other aspects of the company, it is the same.

But in life, you let other forces dominate and influence you, and you never made any active choices.

For example, for a strong woman like you, you are not asking me what I will be like in the future, but what you want from me, the man you like, and what your husband will be like! Now I can say that I have started long ago.

I am pursuing you, but you are very confused and passive. Because you have never thought about what kind of man or husband you want. You are just because I have more contact with you, or sometimes let you

You are moved, so you accept it passively. If you already have your own goals, you will choose and actively strive for them. For example, you don’t like me picking my nose. And I have a habit of being good online. If you don’t change it, you

Maybe you will just say ", but now your mentality is that you will slowly tolerate it!"

Listening to Li Yan's words, Zhang Yurong felt that it made sense. Although this guy never paid attention to his legitimate work, he always seemed to be able to make some sense out of these myths. It was just the disgusting metaphor of picking his nose in the end that made him

The image that had just gotten a little taller has come back again

shape.

"It sounds like that, but" Zhang Yurong seems to have become much more cheerful and no longer confused as before. But if you say this, won't you make me think that you are a selfish person? I'm not afraid that it will affect your feelings in my heart.

Image?.

Li Yan shrugged his shoulders, "I have always been a selfish person, do you realize it now? Just take the Jinwan debt you asked me to collect yesterday. If the boss of the company is not my wife, I

I’m so full that I’m too lazy to care. Just put it off and let the legal affairs and lawyers handle it. So what if the cost is a little more? So what if I can’t get it back? What does it have to do with me?”

"Bragging!" Zhang Yurong curled her lips, as if she didn't believe what he said.

"Whatever you think, I have long been used to it. In my eyes, hey, I am the most important. Of course, I have changed a bit now. For example, you are also very important in my heart.

"

Looking at Li Yan's smiling face, Zhang Yurong sighed: "Do you think that with a playful smile, you can pretend to be selfish? A truly selfish person will not be so high-profile. If you are not filial,

.With your lazy character, will you come back? Will you suffer the cold face from me for half a year? In comparison, you are more gentle and filial, and you are still doing it for my parents! You and I have nothing to do with each other.

When I'm in a relationship, I have to pretend to be very affectionate every week to please my parents, a person who only cares about myself. Can I persist for half a year?"

Li Yan was a little sweaty, but actually it wasn’t that much. It was half a year, just over twenty nights. “Hey,” you said that I was so great, and it made me feel great, and I felt a little carried away.

"Li Yan" Yu Rong said seriously: "In this situation, I think you are very rare even if you are not great. I always feel that even if we are separated, what you have done for my parents is also what I owe.

your."

Seeing that she was so serious again, Li Yan hurriedly said: "So, it's best if we don't separate. That way what's yours is mine, and what's mine is mine. Haha, there's no question whether we owe it or not."

After what he said, Yu Rong felt a sudden enlightenment. She looked ahead and said firmly: "I decided to understand your words carefully. From now on, I will start to care more about myself and strive for what I want instead of being passive."

to accept it”.

Li Yan still held her hand and squeezed it slightly to show encouragement.

"But I don't understand. Why did you tell me so directly? No one has ever told me this before. You could have taken advantage of my ignorance and fooled me into telling me so directly.

I will be more sober. I'm afraid that a big-tailed wolf will have no chance." Zhang Yurong showed a smile.

"Because" I like to see your sober smile instead of your blank look. Li Yan also smiled, saying that this is what you look like now!

"Ah?" Zhang Yurong was a little surprised.

"Uh," No, I should say it more grandly. I am actually a noble person and will not fool ignorant girls. What I want is not only your body, but also your soul. Yes, so, I

I’m not going to lie to you, I hope you will see it carefully and I don’t want you to regret following me in the future. Yes, I have always been such a great person.”

"Fuck you, you are a selfish pervert!" Zhang Yurong laughed and cursed.
Chapter completed!