Chapter 6122 Ma Baonan
Changping Village.
Bao Suyun and Yang Ruoqing talked about Mianmian and Jiang Xianjun.
"Your fifth uncle and I are very satisfied with this child Xianjun. He knows his roots well. He has watched him grow up since he was a child, and he has a gentle temperament."
"Lao Jiangtou and your grandfather are old friends. Our two families have moved around frequently over the years. The most important thing is that the road is close. If Mianmian marries her, your fifth uncle and I can rest assured."
Yang Ruoqing listened patiently as Bao Suyun analyzed Jiang Xianjun's advantages and the feasibility of this marriage.
Since this is feasible, but it has not been decided immediately, it means that there are still some unresolved matters, or that Bao Suyun still has his own worries.
Yang Ruoqing was not in a hurry, listened slowly and waited patiently.
Sure enough, the conversation began to change. Bao Suyun frowned slightly and said with a little worry: "Everything is fine with the Jiang family, but there is one thing that I am not worried about."
"Which point?" Yang Ruoqing asked at the right time.
Bao Suyun said: "Jiang Xianjun's mother."
Jiang Xianjun’s mother?
Yang Ruoqing quickly scanned around in her mind and found a tall, tall woman with big double eyelids and big eyes who was handsome when she was young and still has charm even in middle age.
"Xian Jun's personality follows that of his father, he is gentle and kind, and his father is very kind to his mother. He is a well-known good man in our village." Yang Ruoqing nodded in agreement, "I have also heard that Jiang Zi at that time
My grandfather and I drank together and often complained that his second son was boneless and afraid of his wife."
"However, being afraid of your wife is not a bad thing. From a woman's point of view, this shows that women have a high status in the Jiang family." Yang Ruoqing added.
There was something else she couldn't say out loud.
That is, there is no room for two tigers in one mountain. The status of a mother-in-law is too high for her husband and son. If the daughter-in-law comes into the family, there may be friction between the two.
Unless this daughter-in-law has a soft temper, doesn't make the decision, has no ideas of her own, and is submissive in front of her mother-in-law, and still lets her cover the sky with her hands, otherwise, any daughter-in-law with a temper will not tolerate it, and family war is about to break out.
Sure enough, as both women, Yang Ruoqing could think of this, and so could Bao Suyun.
"Qing'er, I really like this kid Xianjun. If Mianmian marries him, he will definitely get along well with her face to face."
"What I'm worried about is Xianjun's mother. She's very strong. Even Xianjun's grandma has to give way to her. We, Mianmian, are juniors. If we get married, I'm afraid I won't be able to be a master even if I'm an inch tall."
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This is what makes Bao Suyun depressed, and this is also the reason why this promising marriage has not been finalized for a long time.
Yang Ruoqing tilted her head and thought for a moment: "Fifth Aunt, you have to live your own life. As long as Xianjun treats Mianmian well and stands by Mianmian, we, Mianmian, can still make the decision."
"The biggest fear is that Xianjun is a mama's boy. He will listen to whatever his mother says. That would be terrible."
Bao Suyun clapped her hands, "That's what I'm worried about!"
Yang Ruoqing smiled helplessly, nothing in the world is perfect, especially when it comes to marriage.
The third girl is quite good. There is no pressure from the mother-in-law and father-in-law above, and there are no sisters-in-law and sisters-in-law in the middle. If she marries Liu Xueyun, she will be the housewife of the house, and she can make her own decisions.
But the disadvantage is that after you give birth to a child, there are no elders around to help you take care of it. When you encounter big or small things, you can only discuss them as a couple, and there are no old people to help you make suggestions.
"Fifth Aunt, what are you going to do about this matter?" Yang Ruoqing asked again.
"I'm also in a bit of a dilemma. The Jiang family asked a matchmaker to come over to check on me. I can only give them a live word, but I don't dare to give an accurate one."
"What about Mianmian? Have you asked her what she meant?"
Bao Suyun waved her hands with a look of helplessness: "Hey, forget about that girl. Whenever it comes to her marriage, she refuses to speak. Her head is almost buried in her crotch. She refuses to say anything about her thoughts. I don't bother to ask.
She got it."
"What about Guiling and Dabao? What do they think of this marriage?"
"Gui Ling's meaning is similar to yours, which means that as long as Xianjun treats Mianmian well, everything else doesn't matter," Bao Suyun said.
"If Madam Xianjun really makes things difficult for me, Mianmian, then we will just become my mother-in-law's family and support Mianmian. Guiling is not afraid of anything and she might really dare to go to Jiang's house to cause trouble, but Mianmian and I...
Hey, what's the point of making trouble when we get to that point? We are already members of the Jiang family, and our mother's family makes troubles too much, but it only makes the couple emotionally divided, which is even worse!"
Yang Ruoqing nodded lightly, Fifth Aunt was right to be concerned.
Originally, Xianjun still sided with Mianmian, because Mianmian was the weak one, but as a result, his parents' family had a big quarrel in the past, and the situation changed. Xianjun would probably side with his mother. After all, blood is thicker than water, and he is a
Dutiful son.
"Dabao didn't say anything?" Yang Ruoqing was unwilling to give in and asked almost everyone's opinion except Yang Huazhou.
"Dabao?" Bao Suyun smiled bitterly and lowered his voice: "Whatever Guiling said, Dabao is what he said."
Yang Ruoqing also smiled slightly awkwardly, and smoothed things over by saying, "This shows that they have a good relationship as a young couple, and the husband sings and the wife follows suit."
Bao Suyun nodded.
It's strange to be a human being.
When it comes to sons and daughters-in-law, they wish that their daughters-in-law would obey their sons in everything, and that men should be in charge of the house.
But when it comes to my daughter and son-in-law, the situation is reversed.
"Fifth Aunt, let's talk about this. I suggest you find a chance to ask Mianmian what you mean."
"Even if she is embarrassed to speak, just tell her clearly about the future and let her make her own decisions. Now she is a grown-up girl. She doesn't say anything, but she actually understands everything in her heart."
"Hey, okay, I'll look back and have a chance to talk to Mian Mian."
"As for my fifth uncle, you can also ask him what he means."
"Your fifth uncle will come back early next month. I will discuss it with him then."
Mianmian and Luo Baobao came back after packing up the pheasants, and the conversation in the main room quickly changed to other places.
When Yang Ruoqing was leaving, Bao Suyun still grabbed her, grabbed a big bowl of mushrooms and asked her to bring them back.
"Fifth Aunt, my mother gave us half of the mushrooms in the basket. We have mushrooms to eat." Yang Ruoqing refused with a smile.
Bao Suyun said: "What your mother gave you is her share. This is the fifth aunt's wish. You take it. If you can't finish it, dry it in the sun and put it away and eat it slowly."
Yang Ruoqing could only accept it with a smile, and joked: "I didn't go to the mountains to pick mushrooms, but I got more mushrooms than you."
Bao Suyun also laughed, "A pheasant that fat can feed Guiling for a long time. It's really our profit."
"Okay, that's all in the money, win-win."
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When I returned to Luo's house, I found a basket on the table with some mushrooms in it.
Chapter completed!