Yang Ruoqing paused what she was doing, raised her head and looked at Xiaoduo, and said, "Let me tell you this, not to mention that Brother Zuo has high standards for choosing a spouse, but let's talk about Yu'er. Due to some special reasons, Yu'er,

She has already made a vow in front of her parents’ spiritual tablets that she will never marry in this life.”

"Ah?" Xiaoduo opened his eyes in surprise.

"Is there anyone in this world who would make such a poisonous oath? Could she have a difficult reason?" Xiaoduo asked again.

Yang Ruoqing said: "Of course there are difficulties, but we can't help. Therefore, all we can do is respect Yu'er's choice."

"What's more, Yu'er went out to do business and would not be able to come back until the first month of the new year. And after Zuo Zhuangzhu sent the old lady to him, he himself had to leave for Changhuaizhou to do business. The two of them had never crossed paths at all, so for this matter, you

Just talk about it here, don't mention it anywhere else!" Yang Ruoqing warned carefully.

Although it was confusing, Yang Ruoqing's cautious expression made Xiaoduo dare not neglect her. She nodded quickly, did not mention it again, and turned to talk to Yang Ruoqing about picking plum blossoms in the mountains behind the village today...

…

"Sister, you know, we are going to pick plum blossoms today..."

Yang Ruoqing interrupted Xiaoduo and asked: "How many of you are there? Which ones are you?"

Xiaoduo said: "Me, Xiaohua, Sister-in-law Huangmao, and Xiaojie. By the way, we met Mianmian, Xiuxiu, the third girl, and Huahua from Sister Ping'er's house halfway through."

Yang Ruoqing was surprised, "Oh my goodness, all the girls from our old Yang family and related relatives and friends' families are gathered together. It's so lively just thinking about it!"

Xiao Duo said: "That's right. When we drilled into the plum forest, wow, we all felt like fairies from the sky descending to the mortal world. Xiao Jie joked that we were fairies under the Queen Mother's throne in the sky.

Xian'e..."

Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but smile.

Among this group of girls, Huang Mao is the oldest, and they are all mothers.

But even so, Huang Mao was only nineteen, not even twenty.

As for the others, Xiaohua, Xiaoduo and Xiaojie, they all look like seventeen or eighteen.

The third girl, Mian Mian Xiu Xiu, is even younger. The third girl and Huahua are the eldest. After the New Year, they will eat the meal of thirteen years old, but they are not yet thirteen years old.

Mianmian is twelve years old, Xiuxiu is a little younger than Mianmian...

They are all girls of the same age as Hua Guduoer. They are young and the sun is shining brightly.

Listening to Xiao Duo telling interesting stories about when they were picking plum blossoms, Yang Ruoqing could not help but recall that when she had just traveled through time, she was not much different from Mianmian, more than twelve years old...

At that time, Xiaoyu and I often went to the bamboo forest behind the village to dig bamboo shoots to improve food for the family...

At that time, neither of the two little sisters expected their fate and living environment in the future. At that time, the sky was so high, so blue, and they were so hungry...

At that time, the future was filled with infinite possibilities, and everything was full of fantasy and longing!

Now, fourteen years later, she is twenty-six years old and the mother of several children.

My husband is my childhood sweetheart. He is very promising and is a powerful general who protects the country.

He held her in his hands like a treasure...

And Xiao Yu, who was originally a country girl, also married Ning Su, a wishful man, because of fate and her own efforts.

She gave birth to two sons. She was the young lady of the Ning family, a prominent family in Qing'an County. She had no worries about food and clothing, and her husband and wife were loving.

It can be considered a good harvest for everyone in love and career!

"Sister, are you listening?" Xiaoduo suddenly raised his hand and waved it twice in front of Yang Ruoqing.

Yang Ruoqing suddenly came back to her senses and realized that she was distracted.

She laughed sheepishly and said: "I was so fascinated by what I heard that I couldn't help but think of the time when I was your age and got distracted a little bit. Please continue talking!"

"I asked, does this woman lose weight in the early stages of marriage?" Xiaoduo asked.

Yang Ruoqing said: "Generally speaking, no, you have to be fat if you should be. Take me as an example. When I got married to your brother-in-law, I obviously gained three pounds and my face became rounder."

Xiaoduo said: "Then why did Xiaojie lose so much weight? Is it because the Zhang family didn't give her enough to eat? Or was her mother-in-law torturing her so hard that she was left to do all the dirty and hard work alone?"

Yang Ruoqing was surprised, "Has Xiaojie lost a lot of weight?"

Xiaoduo said: "Isn't that right? Her face used to be round, but now she has a pointed face."

"We asked her if the Zhang family was not treating her well, and she said no. She said that her parents-in-law treated her well, and they always looked after her and Zhang Ban first when there was anything delicious to eat, and Zhang Ban also let her go.

Except for washing her and Zhang Ban's clothes, she doesn't even need to do anything for the parents-in-law."

"Her mother-in-law is also taking care of the cooking, so Xiaojie doesn't need to get her hands dirty, but even so she still lost weight."

Yang Ruoqing said: "Maybe I have changed to a strange environment, and I have to adapt to it, which is a bit tiring. And when it comes to food, after all, I am not as free as I used to be at home. After eating, I just put the rice in the pot by myself."

"When you're at your husband's house, you have to be more reserved when it comes to eating. You're always 70% to 80% full when you eat, so it's not surprising that you've lost weight."

Hearing Yang Ruoqing's analysis, Xiaoduo nodded, "It makes sense. There is a difference between the husband's family and the mother's family. When a new daughter-in-law comes over, she must not open her belly to eat and drink."

"When you want to sleep, you can't fall asleep anytime and anywhere. You have to hang around and serve your parents-in-law every day. Even if your parents-in-law love you and are reluctant to let you do heavy work, it is because they are polite to you when you first come in."

"But the new daughter-in-law has to be aware of herself, so she will lose weight even if she works hard, right?" Xiaoduo asked again.

Yang Ruoqing nodded: "Yes, children can indeed be taught."

"Even if the new daughter-in-law's natal family is powerful and has a strong background, she can do whatever her husband's family wants after she marries. However, the parents-in-law and husband dare not speak out because of the power of the new daughter-in-law's natal family, so they can only make do with it."

"But if things continue like this, the relationship between the new daughter-in-law and her uncle will definitely grow apart!"

"Since you are married and will spend your whole life living with someone else, you must want a harmonious relationship between your husband and wife and discuss everything."

"If one party can only compromise due to the power of the other party, is there any real love between husband and wife? Such a marriage is meaningless. He will not be your husband, but just one of your slaves!"

"It's not worth spending your whole life with a slave. So, now that you're married, you should position yourself as a new wife, be filial to your parents-in-law, and be of the same mind as husband and wife!"

After Yang Ruoqing finished speaking, she found that Xiaoduo didn't move.

Turning her head, she found this girl staring at her in shock.

"What's wrong? Why is that expression like this? Did I trick you?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Chapter completed!