Chapter 4323 To experience it yourself
"As a married eldest sister, I have been shunned by my sister-in-law so many times when I returned to my parents' home. Mother, you don't dare to support me at my sister-in-law's house. Do you think you have to go to my husband's house in Yangzhou to support me?"
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Zuo Yingchun's words and questioning made Yingchun Niang speechless. Thousands of words were piled in her throat, unable to come out or go down. In the end, her face turned into a purple eggplant, and she could only raise her hands to speak.
Hija covered her face and cried.
Zuo Yingchun turned around irritably and said to Mrs. Zuo and Yang Ruoqing: "Crying is the last thing that can solve the problem. My mother is such a person. She was greedy for the money and betrothal gifts from Yangzhou and wanted me urgently.
marry,"
"If I follow my own ideas, even if my cousin Junmo doesn't like me, I won't marry far away. I just want to find a well-matched family in Huguang County to marry. What kind of third young lady from a wealthy businessman in Yangzhou?"
, I don’t care about the crowd of maids and women going out, I really don’t care about it!”
Yang Ruoqing nodded: "We girls, it's best not to marry too far away. Your original idea was correct."
Maybe some girls will say that as long as we fall in love with each other, it doesn't matter if we go far away from each other.
Home is where there is love, and with him, everything is enough.
Regarding this statement, Yang Ruoqing could only smile.
There are some things that you don’t understand when you are young, but when you get a little older, you will naturally understand them.
I understand why your mother tried so hard to prevent you from marrying far away. She didn't really want to break up the couple and break up the couple. What your mother considered was that after you married far away and became a mother yourself, you would naturally
Understood.
No matter how much others say, you won't be able to listen. You have to experience it yourself.
If you are married far away, and the man you meet regards you as a treasure, and your family has a comfortable life, and your children are complete, cute and healthy, then you are very lucky.
But if that man doesn’t care for you as much as before after marriage, the financial conditions are tight, and people around you are ostracizing you.
Your natal family is thousands of miles away. Every time you quarrel with a man and open the door to find that you have nowhere to go, you will regret your original choice.
Okay, let’s go too far. While listening to Zuo Yingchun’s experience, Yang Ruoqing took a sip of tea, pulled back her thoughts, and continued to be a quiet listener.
Zuo Yingchun said to Mrs. Zuo: "Aunt, I'm really ashamed today. My niece came back only five or six years ago to pay New Year greetings to you, but she made her cry. It's very unlucky and also caused trouble for you. My niece feels so ashamed.
very……
Mrs. Zuo waved her hand and smiled lovingly: "Silly boy, although you and I are aunt and nephew, you have grown up beside me since you were a child. I treat you as my daughter."
"You are not living as you wished in your husband's house, and my aunt is not feeling happy. She looks at your bloated face and becomes anxious. Dad Doudou is sick. What is it? Do you want to be sick?
Find a doctor for a good diagnosis?"
After hearing this, Yang Ruoqing also turned her eyes to Zuo Yingchun again.
Zuo Yingchun is indeed a little swollen, with a greenish tint under her eyelids, and chloasma on her face. She may have an endocrine disorder, and menopause may come early.
The whole delicate flower looked like it was about to wither.
Zuo Yingchun shook her head: "I don't need it. I know my own situation. As for Doudou's illness, every doctor has a different theory. My parents-in-law may know it, but they don't tell the truth to me."
"Your parents-in-law are really selfish. You are the daughter-in-law, and you have to rely on your husband to survive in your husband's family! How can I hide this from you? It's outrageous!" Mrs. Zuo said a little angrily.
Zuo Yingchun looked sad: "Although Doudou's dad was fooling around with men when we first got married, he has been pretty good to us mother and daughter in the past two years, and I don't want him to die young. But if he really dies of illness, then what will happen to us and my mother?"
It’s been a really hard time.”
Mrs. Zuo said: "In such a wealthy family, it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in the house if the man does not support you and make the decision. The maids and servants are all human beings who only watch the chopsticks when ordering the dishes."
"If the man leaves, then the orphans and widows left in this room will be really pitiful."
"It's not uncommon for some mean people to be kicked out of their homes!"
"Stop crying, what's the point of crying? You two should find a solution soon!" Mrs. Zuo said this to Yingchun Niang.
Yingchun Niang stopped crying and looked at Mrs. Zuo: "My daughter is having a hard time. As a mother, I definitely feel bad about it. However, my in-laws are considered to be well-known and wealthy families in Yangzhou."
"I won't hide it from you, sister. When I was not married, my family and their family, although they were the same family and cousins, to put it bluntly, my mother's family and my cousin's family were from the same family.
During the holidays, I rely on catching the autumn breeze to make a living."
"So when they came to my place and said that the two families were getting married, I seemed to see pie falling from the sky!"
"After working on it for a long time, I found out that my uncle is not only a short-lived ghost with a broken sleeve, but also a short-lived ghost with poor health. Maybe he has some incurable disease in his body from the beginning, so my cousin came to me and asked me
This must be how I marry my daughter!"
Old Madam Zuo was so angry that she slammed the teacup in her hand on the table, "I asked you to think of ways to think of something, not to hear you cursing my uncle like this!"
Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but said: "Yes, now that the rice is cooked, we have to look to the future instead of pursuing the past mistakes!"
Zuo Yingchun shook her head: "Don't say that to my mother. If she had understood, she wouldn't have forced me to marry far away."
"I know my own life well. I have arrangements. I don't count on my parents anymore," she said.
"As a woman, what arrangements can you make?" Mrs. Zuo asked again.
Zuo Yingchun said: "I have a dowry. Even if Doudou's father is gone, Doudou and I can still live with that dowry. When I grow up Doudou and let her recruit a husband, we can also
Hold up the door."
Mrs. Zuo shook her head: "You are still too young and think everything is too simple. Qing'er, help me talk to her. She is just like her mother, simple-minded."
Yang Ruoqing has black lines all over her head.
Zuo Yingchun looked at her expectantly: "Mrs. Luo, my aunt is right. I was simple-minded and impulsive when I was young. I even regarded you as an imaginary enemy. Now that I think about it carefully, I misunderstood you. I and I
You have to apologize!"
Chapter completed!