Reading leisurely books always makes me reflect on life. In this story, I think many girls are very unique, but "Tang Jiayu" made me feel a lot. Although she was said to be a "coquettish girl" after entering the palace, she was indeed

Even when she died, she lived according to her own will. But she had no ability to choose her own destiny, which was doomed to be a tragedy from the beginning. Even her "living according to her own will" was just because others didn't want to slaughter her at that moment.

It's just her.

She obviously has many advantages: 1. She was born as a direct descendant of the Tang family, with a powerful family and a lot of favors. 2. She is good-looking and has an innocent and lively personality. With such a background, she would have had the opportunity to live a life in which she could control herself.

But she didn't...

In my opinion, the reason is that as a girl from a big family, Tang Jiayu has not received the education she deserves. In line with her status, no matter what, she should have political awareness, but she does not have it at all. When everyone is talking about

When she was worried that she might be selected into the palace, she only focused on how Hua Lu would do.

As a girl from a big family, no matter whether she is a eldest or a young child, she should learn the talents of running a house and managing the house, because her mother's "pampering" has not learned it at all. So when she said that she was going to be assigned to Bai Qiao, her mother was not willing to part with her daughter.

To suffer, we the audience feel that we should not let this "coquettish girl" harm the head of the Bai family. To put it bluntly, everyone unanimously believes that Tang Jiayu is a idiot, with no political consciousness and no ability to manage a family. Silly Baitian can be favored but

Can't win recognition.

As a great demon, we won’t make analogies to Axia. Tang Jiashan, Tang Jiarui, and Li Dong are the eldest sisters, so we won’t mention them either. However, Li Wennan and Luo Wan are also favored young girls. Even Li Wenmei, who is a concubine, is so sophisticated in the world.

On top of that, the ability of the director and head of the family is not lacking. Looking at the Tang family's expectations for Tang Jiaxian and Li Wennan, although it is a gamble, it is also recognition of their abilities. Sister Liu Nan has no worries in the capital alone.

of.

As the wife of the Tang family, Grandma Gu is also the head wife, right? But the two of them can be said to be too doting on Tang Jiayu. Maybe for them, the Tang family does not need Tang Jiayu to win over anyone by marriage. They can even give them to Tang Jiayu.

She chose a husband from a lower-ranked family so that the other party would be humble in everything. But they were both daughter-in-laws and mother-in-laws, and they were well-informed people who socialized everywhere. Any girl who is a daughter-in-law will get along well with her husband and with her mother-in-law.

Getting along with my sister-in-law is not a simple matter. My mother's family is a support, but it is only a support. I can't stand in this world for her. As the saying goes, mud can't cover the wall. Only by standing up can others be able to stand up.

I can support you.

When you love someone, you should give him the ability to live a good life instead of breaking his wings. In real life, a girl, whether in ancient or modern times, has a harder life than a man. If a mother does not teach her daughter more

Instead of using so-called love to deprive her of the abilities she deserves, this is not love, it is harm.

Just like when you have money, you can choose to live a rich or simple life and live how you want. But when you have no money, you can only go hungry. You have no choice between eating steak or fish eggs.

Rights. Because you don’t even have the option to eat. You only have the option life gives you to starve.
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