After supper.
Kang Yu and Kang's father went to the balcony to smoke again.
"I'm very happy to move back with Qingqing!" Dad Kang opened the topic.
"Dad, I..." Kang Yu really didn't know what to say when he said this.
The gap between them is too deep. For a while, father and son are even the same as enemies. In the past thirty years, the father and son have basically never had a good conversation, and even when there are conversations, most of them will start to quarrel. It is because Kang Yu matured later and gradually understood some things, and the conversation between father and son became more common, but they never had a good conversation between them.
"No one knows your son, my father, of course I know what you think. When you were a child, you suffered too much with us! When you grew up, I was too strict with you again! Your sister's birth made your mother come home, and your father also went home more often than before. Two different situations are in front of you, which will naturally cause a gap. You will feel unfair and your parents are partial, you will feel that you are redundant in this family, and you will feel that your father only has career and your sister in his heart, but not you!" said Dad Kang.
Kang Yu was silent. He didn't expect his father to know everything, but he was puzzled that since his father knew everything, he still wanted to treat him like that.
"But my child has to do some things. I am your father and I have to be responsible for your life, even if I know that it will make you hate me! At the critical moment of your life, I have to force you to grow and force you to mature! This is really for your own good! Now that you have matured and grown up, I, the father, should apologize to you for some things. My father is really unqualified and owe you too much, my son! I have not been able to make up for you in time! Here, Daddy says sorry to you!" Dad Kang said seriously.
The son suffered from his miserable relationship with the couple, and almost grew up in an environment without fatherly love. Of course, he was heartbroken by his father, but he knew that if he really loved his son, he could not spoil his son because he felt that he was in debt and wanted to make up for it. Spending is not love but ruin.
He has to force himself to make up his mind to strictly demand his son. He has to discover his son's potential. He has to cultivate his son's ability to protect himself. That is really good for his son.
Although my son beat others a lot from the beginning at the beginning, who can guarantee that the future will be smooth sailing? If you are not tenacious enough, how can you truly gain a foothold in the road of life? If you are not strong enough, how can you face the unknown future calmly?
Maybe some of his thoughts and practices may be a bit extreme, but compared to wealth, what he left for his son is the ability and tenacious character that can benefit his son for life.
Therefore, before his son was eighteen years old, he did not give his son too much fatherly love, but more of a strict education and strict requirements for his son.
"Dad, don't say sorry to me. If you want to say it, I will say it! I have misunderstood you for too long, and you have not owe me anything. On the contrary, I owe you too much! I already understand those things now. You did it for the sake of our family and my goodness. I understand the difficulty of your back then!" Kang Yu said ashamed.
After much experience, he realized that his father's strict education for him was for his good. He was able to do this to a large extent because of his father's strict requirements for him. Now he fully understood his father's love for him. His father's love for him was deep and silent, even if he knew that he would misunderstand it.
"There is no one who doesn't love his son, but the way of love is different. If you don't hate me, a father, I'm already satisfied!" Dad Kang smiled and touched Kang Yu's head.
"Dad, aren't you afraid that you would ruin me?" Kang Yu asked.
This is the answer he always wanted to know.
"Of course I'm afraid, you're my son, I'm not afraid! I quarreled with your mother a lot over this matter back then! She always thought I was too cruel! She was also unfair to you! So while strictly demanding on you, I was also grasping the standard. I never dared to put too much pressure on you, for fear that too much pressure would crush you, so I train you step by step, and I was also afraid of ruining you. Later, I discussed with your mother that one would be a good person and the other would be a bad person, so that you could be more balanced in your heart." Dad Kang said.
"Dad, thank you. If it weren't for your strict requirements, I might not have been like me today." Kang Yu said.
Thinking of his past, he really felt that he was really naive at the beginning. But thinking about it, he knew why his father didn’t tell him that, because he didn’t understand many things at that time, and even if he didn’t understand them, he couldn’t listen. On the contrary, he would only be even more rebellious.
"If you can say these words, it proves that everything I did back then is worth it!" Dad Kang patted Kang Yu on the shoulder and said.
"But Dad, I disappointed you too. I did not take your shift as you thought." Kang Yu said.
"What's so disappointing about this! Your mother is right. Instead of letting you inherit my career step by step, it's better to let you go out and make your own wishes. Whether it's success or failure, at least you won't regret it, nor will you blame me, a father, for not giving you a chance. You have to walk the road of life by yourself. Even if I arrange it well for you, you will have to face some things yourself in the end. Since sooner or later, there will be such a day, it's better to let you choose it yourself at the beginning." Dad Kang said.
"Dad, you really count my whole life as a dead end." Kang Yu said with a smile.
"It is better to be considered a person who is a father as me, than to be considered a person who is a opponent." Dad Kang joked.
"Yes, it's much better to be plotted by you by your dad than to be plotted by your opponent." Kang Yu said.
Speaking of this, Kang Yu remembered his previous difficulties and asked, "Dad, when I was in trouble, you should have been waiting for me to speak to you, right?"
"Well, every time I prepare the money, I'll wait for you to speak." Dad Kang said.
"Dad, did you want me to speak to you or not?" Kang Yu asked.
"I don't want you to speak to me, I hope you can grit your teeth and rely on yourself to survive the difficulties, rather than speaking to me when you encounter difficulties." Dad Kang said.
"Dad, I don't hide it from you. There are a few times when I really want to ask you for help, but every time I look at your number, I can't make it. I can't make it. As a son, I don't want to be underestimated by you by dad!" Kang Yu said.
"You silly boy, how could dad underestimate you! Dad is like you, he stumbles over you. Dad is a person who has experienced it. Dad has experienced it a lot back then." Dad Kang touched Kang Yu's head and said.
"Yes, I forgot that dad, you started from scratch, too," Kang Yu said.
Chapter completed!