At this moment, Dad Hu stood up with a glass of wine. As soon as he came to express his gratitude to everyone for the banquet tonight, he signaled that his son and Kang Jing, the prospective daughter-in-law, both stood up. Then he came to announce in front of everyone, saying: "Next month will be the first day of Jingjing's engagement with my Shaolong."
As soon as everyone was invited, the Hu family began to toast each other at the table. Kang Jing, who is about to become a prospective daughter-in-law, naturally came to accompany her. By the way, she introduced relatives from the Hu family to meet Kang Jing.
Fortunately, the heads of this branch of the country came as representatives of the family. They didn’t all come here, otherwise how could they finish the introduction in a short while and sit down.
When she saw this, Kang Jing immediately remembered that she had to meet the elders before getting engaged. In the morning, she was worried about the impact of her going to the country, and forgot to come to ask the country. Now that she remembered, she had to come and ask clearly. Although she came to know that even if someone was dissatisfied, she didn't want to let herself be rude. She asked her boyfriend next to her with some concern: "If we go back to the country first, then what wouldn't we say in the hometown?"
Because it is logical that my boyfriend's hometown is closer? Not to mention that there is still a hometown, she knew that before Dad Hu decided to recognize his ancestors, he must come first, as usual, but now both sides have begun to merge. If he wants to talk about any tradition, he should start from his hometown first?
I heard from my boyfriend that I explained: "According to the traditional rules, I must be the first and the second. What's more important is that my Tianzu is in the Burial Pear Country and has not come back yet."
Kang Jing understood as soon as he heard this. The key is that the rules should be followed by the previous ones, which means that the previous talks were not very smooth.
I heard from my boyfriend that he said, "But before his death, he had come to tell me that he wanted to return to the roots of fallen leaves. When the matter in China was settled, I would come to do this." He brought back all the ancestors who had passed away in the country and missed their hometown to return to the roots of fallen leaves. That was the obsession that their family had changed from generation to generation, and it was his responsibility as the Hu Shaolong as the grandson of the Hu family.
Just like what my grandfather told him before his death: "Only in this way, generations of our Hu family will not forget where their roots are, forget where they come from, and have the reason to make future generations fall in love with them." Even when he was dying, he was still thinking about the most common stories told from Tianzu's generation. In my memory, he never forgot where their roots are.
But it was such a simple wish that I encountered open and secret resistance from my family in China. I don’t know when it will come true. When Hu Shaolong thought of this, he felt uncomfortable and saw his girlfriend’s worried look, and then he smiled.
Kang Jing certainly knew what the difficulty is. It was because the family in China could not understand the main meridians that had developed better overseas, but they had to insist on coming back. They could not understand the pain of wandering overseas in foreign countries for generations and having been unable to return home for more than a hundred years. Some of them could even understand that the main meridians came back to grab Haolun. They had long forgotten the original intention of the ancestors to arrange it, and they wanted the relatives on both sides to have a hub to connect in addition to their bloodlines.
But no matter how clearly her boyfriend explains, it is useless. It is difficult to make some people who only have interests in their eyes believe that they will definitely happen again. It is also known that the boyfriend must come here before he can truly become a qualified heir. It is impossible to say that everything can be obtained smoothly, just like her brother said, "There are always some prices that have to be paid, and some things that have to be done to make people convinced." They have to come, whether they are from the inside or from the outside, they are from the outside.
The only difference is that she has to choose herself, but her boyfriend has no choice anymore. But she doesn't know if her boyfriend can come like her brother after experiencing these things? No matter how she changes, will she still be the brother who loves and spoils her?
But what Kang Jing felt more distressed than this matter was her boyfriend's sorrow, and she couldn't help but have some troubles to solve for her boyfriend, but she had to discuss this matter with her brother first.
So as soon as the dinner was over, the guests were sent away, and only the dozen leaders of the family were left. Seeing that there were a few inside, Kang Jing didn't hold it anymore, so she asked the brother beside her and said, "Brother, don't you think this is a bit slow?"
Kang Yu naturally understood what his sister meant when he heard this. The powerful forces in the Hu family, who were a little bit powerful, were definitely not sure if he wanted to deal with it. He had to transfer people from overseas, but that was nothing for their family. He asked his sister clearly about his heart, who had already flown over and said, "Do you know that Uncle Hu knew that it was impossible to reach an agreement, but he still insisted on having to negotiate?"
Kang Jing knew that he was a little reckless when he heard this.
I heard from my brother that he said, "It's my fault, who told me that I am used to being strong and I'm going to bring you all the same."
As he said that, Kang Yu came to teach his sister and said, "Jingjing, remember, if you can't reach an agreement with outsiders, you can solve this problem in a different way, but if you can calculate your own people, it's not possible, especially if you have to be a mistress in the future. When dealing with family affairs, you have to use kindness and power like your sister-in-law. You can do it if you want to help Shaolong, but you must not be strong from the beginning. You can do it in a different way."
Kang Jing understood what the brother meant when she heard this, that was to help solve the difficulties encountered by the Hu family and help her boyfriend get support from another perspective.
I heard from my brother that she would remember it clearly: "Shaolong's most important responsibility now is to bring his ancestors back to the fallen leaves and return to the roots. What I am thinking about is that we cannot forget where the roots are. This is the most important thing for a traditional family. As long as we can take the principle of "filial piety", many things can be handled by family rules, and others can be secondary. You have to make it clear."
Speaking of this, Kang Yu thought about it and it was necessary to invite someone who understood the traditions of Chaozhou to make up for the rules that should be learned for his sister.
I heard my sister come to understand and say, "Brother, what you mean is that Shaolong and the others are hoping for when they come back."
Kang Yu came to confirm after hearing this: "I'm not stupid enough yet. I really want to deal with everything as you think. How do you ask the above to see? My uncle has told me that what I hope to see most is that in addition to the existing investment, Shaolong can come to invest more and more in Haolun, a local enterprise, so that Haolun can further develop, so some methods are best not to use them unless they are absolutely necessary."
When Kang Jing heard about his uncle's affairs, he was dissatisfied and said, "Then why didn't he tell me?" She, the niece, was obviously going to marry, didn't even talk to her.
"Of course I'm going to take the test to see if you can find out." Because there are many things that my sister can't rely on her brother when she gets married, and she has to rely on herself. Kang Yu couldn't bear to say this, and just wanted to teach more before her sister got married.
Chapter completed!