Chapter 575 Unwritten Regulations
"I'll go and say something to my colleague and see Ms. Fu."
Yang Yumin changed the table after eating half full. Although he knew that his wife had a good relationship with Fu Yiruo, it was normal for him to have a meal with Fu Yiruo's mother.
But for some reason, he just felt a little inexplicable pressure.
This is very strange. Ms. Fu obviously has a good temperament and is very kind when talking to her, but Yang Yumin just feels that she is almost sweating.
After Yang Yumin left, Li Ye looked at my mother with a slightly frown.
"Mom, why did you scare him away?"
"What?"
Fu Guiru was stunned, then recalled carefully before saying in confusion: "Is there any? No! I didn't even dare to ask any questions, so I was scared away?"
"And I think Yumin's child is okay too! Do you have any misunderstandings?"
Li Ye said laughing and cryingly: "Mom, do you still need to ask questions? Look at your eyes just now, it's like a spy trial. If you don't believe me, ask Xiaoyu and Xiaoruo."
Fu Guiru looked at Fu Yiru and Wen Leyu in surprise, but the two little girls nodded together, and the main focus was one real thing.
Fu Guiru couldn't help but rub her forehead and sighed softly.
Li Ye smiled and joked, "Mom, people say that the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, and the more you see her, the more you like her, you will be happy with her.
In fact, Yang Yumin is good. Except for the difference in appearance, the rest are very good. She is decent and good to her sister."
"That's right, our mother is just too picky," Fu Yiruo immediately accused: "Love is a very selfish thing, and outsiders are not allowed to interfere. Mom, if you do this again in the future, you will become an old witch."
“Ha~”
Fu Guiru smiled, and a head slammed into Fu Yiruo's forehead: "Don't be careless with me. I'll look at my boyfriend in the future. I think so too. Just the Yao or Feng in the past, don't even think about it,"
"Don't be dissatisfied. The daughter is married to someone else's house to live, and the wife is married to her own family to live, and the mother-in-law is choosing a son-in-law's fault is also for the sake of her own daughter."
""
Fu Yiruo rolled her eyes directly. Malay girls were precocious than mainland girls. Although she didn't like Yao Shifeng, she was instinctively dissatisfied with her mother's savage intervention in "free love".
However, after thinking for a while, Wen Leyu nodded and echoed: "Auntie, you are right."
Fu Yiruo suddenly kicked Wen Leyu's feet under the table in anger.
[We are natural allies. Why do you turn against each other behind the scenes to please your mother-in-law? Are you still good sisters in the future?]
But Fu Yiruo didn't know that Wen Leyu really didn't please Fu Guiru, but because Li Ye was strictly selected by Teacher Ke and did not find any faults, he "looked more and more" the more he saw it.
"Okay, what our mother talks about is experience. Although in the new society, we pay attention to a free love relationship, if we can get the blessings of our family, will life be more fulfilling?"
Li Ye, who has a deep understanding of the difference between a wife and a son-in-law, is different from these two little girls who are only about twenty years old in their lives.
The daughter-in-law was just under her nose, with her parents-in-law watching her, and even if her son suffered a little grievance, she would have backing her backing.
And in this day, when a wife gets married, she is someone else’s, which is recognized by society.
Even in the countryside, if you have a dispute with others and have conflicts and fights, you will not easily beat your daughter who has been married because she has been married, it is equivalent to bringing another enemy in.
Therefore, since ancient times, mother-in-law has to say a few words when she doesn’t like her son-in-law, and even if she doesn’t like her, she has to be happy.
But the daughter-in-law is different. If you don’t like it, you will scold me directly. It’s not just a saying for a daughter-in-law who has been a mother-in-law for many years.
It was not until the 1990s that the strong wife turned the tables against the trend and just dropped all the traditions that had been around.
The wife can't scold her, but the son-in-law is ~
Therefore, if both parents can be satisfied before getting married, many troubles can be avoided later.
"Actually, I just look at Xiao Yue, who is not qualified to find fault."
Fu Guiru sighed and said, "Xiaoyue told me that Yumin is very good. Your grandfather, grandma, and parents think he is very good. This is actually what Ono said about his family's blessing.
Although I'm not at ease, I'll just take a look."
""
Seeing Fu Guiru suddenly falling lonely, Li Ye, Fu Yiruo and Wen Leyu looked at each other for a few times, and chose to remain silent.
Every family has difficult sutras to recite, but their own family has two!
People from the Li family must be very satisfied with Yang Yumin. They have a good job and a promising future. They also have a good attitude towards the Li family.
My sister Li Yue never calls Han Chunmei "mother", but Yang Yumin respects Han Chunmei very much. Every time she meets, she buys gifts for Han Chunmei and Li Juan and Li Ying, and uses her own salary.
Everyone in the Li family likes Yang Yumin very much.
In comparison, Fu Guiru finally lacked Li Yue's growth process and became a "outsider".
So after this, how should Li Kaijian, Fu Guiru and Han Chunmei get along?
Li Ye was also quite worried.
...........
Li Ye accompanied my mother to drink a few glasses of red wine. When he finished eating and left, the people in the restaurant had almost gone, and the most important table was left.
Yang Yumin was also at the table, accompanying his colleague Lao Shao.
Then when Li Ye passed by, Team Leader Zhou at the dinner table called Li Ye.
"By the way, Li Ye, when you go up, go to Room 6022 to find Xiao He to inform you about what happened today."
""
Li Ye looked at Zhou Ziyuan with a flushed face and asked coldly: "Captain Zhou, what do I need to report?"
Zhou Ziyuan frowned and said, "According to regulations, anyone who contacts anyone outside our exhibition group needs to record it. You just had a meal with these two lesbians, so you need to record it."
""
Li Ye was very surprised. He really didn't know that there was such a regulation. Is he afraid that he was working with the spy?
"Hahaha, Li Ye, don't be so fussy,"
Lao Xie saw Li Ye's displeasure and smiled and smoothed the situation: "This is the old rule for many years, just go through the motions. Li Ye, just go and say hello to Xiao He."
"Yes, yes! Rules are dead, people live. Go up and say something to Xiao He, and just say that you have dinner with your classmates, just a few words."
"Hahaha, young people don't take it seriously. We old guys are all for your own good!"
""
Everyone was "kind of good intentions" to persuade Li Ye, as if a group of people who have experienced it were trying to persuade newcomers not to be stubborn and to be sensible.
Li Ye glanced over coldly, with disdainful eyes.
He won’t write about this report today. He still has to report it with me?
And how to report? Have a friendly meal with patriotic businessmen?
However, Li Ye was about to turn his head and left, but Wen Leyu suddenly took a step forward and said in a cold tone: "As far as I know, we do not have any regulations, which stipulate that this situation needs to be reported to the organization today. Do you have any documents?"
"If there are no documents and no specific regulations, please do not show your authority in front of so many people."
""
Everyone was stunned, even those who drank almost the same amount of drinks were also stunned.
A little girl movie is so bold and outspoken and accused Zhou Ziyuan of abuse of power.
Lao Xie said embarrassedly: "Ahem, it's all unwritten regulations, everyone is used to abiding by them."
"I thank you, you don't need to explain to her, why do you explain to her?"
Zhou Ziyuan was stunned for a moment, and suddenly became angry. He opened his mouth and began to scold Wen Leyu.
But Yang Yumin at the table said in a very close way: "If you don't explain, how can they understand? They are all students, but they don't understand these unwritten regulations."
"I know what you are worried about by Team Leader Zhou, but as far as I know, Li Ye and Wen Leyu have refused to study abroad in school, and there have been more than once."
"Even if everyone will escape, they won't, because Li Ye can study abroad at any time, and Li Jiapo National University once invited him."
"Also I don't understand why Team Leader Zhou, you have to say what unwritten regulations in front of the two foreign guests?
When we go abroad, it represents the image of the mainland. Don’t you think the words you just now can easily lead to misunderstandings from foreign guests? Or do you just think that doing this is really under normal management?”
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Yang Yumin said this in a very calm tone, but after he finished speaking, the entire restaurant was silent, and the needle could be heard, as if it was struck by lightning.
If Wen Leyu's behavior just now makes people feel that young people are frivolous and do not know that the world is high, then Yang Yumin's words are suspected of "making mistakes".
Because he is a public official, he openly sang a counter-topic with the team leader during collective activities, and even satirized Lao Zhou for abuse of his power?
You are not paying attention to the impact?
If you go back and get someone to the unit, you will be able to understand the general situation and destroy foreign affairs work. The big hat without political wisdom will be pressed on your forehead.
To put it more seriously, this will affect the career path.
However, Fu Guiru looked at Yang Yumin with a calm expression and felt that he was much more pleasing to him than before.
If you help your relatives or not, you are the family!
More than 20 years ago, Fu Guiru received a letter from Malay to the mainland. She was found to have overseas relations, but was pushed to the bottom by "unwritten regulations" and went from a militia company commander to a suspect.
And no one in the family stood up to confront each other openly.
Li Zhongfa's opinion was to try his best to mediate within the rules, and he complained to Li Kaijian a few times.
Then Fu Guiru was so angry that she stubbornly headed south to the horse.
Later, Fu Guiru often recalled that if the family members at that time "helped their relatives and didn't care", she would have stayed and took on all the storms instead of choosing to escape.
Chapter completed!