Section 4: The War between Men and Women

Just when I thought I could go further, but who knew that Liu Yaqin suddenly stepped back. I instinctively reached out to grab it, but she gently shook it away, then put her hand beside her mouth and made a "shhh" position, "I'll go out to dance."

After saying that, she jumped out of the room and went to the lobby outside. When I went outside, I saw her jumping onto the platform and dancing sexy and seductive dances on the stage with a foreign girl on the stage. This scene once again stunned me.

After so long, I asked myself that I could roll around in the crowd of women, but this time I was completely helpless. I could only shake my head in disbelief, insert my hands, and stand among the crowd of people who were crazily cheering for Liu Yaqin.

"I didn't expect that the Love Saint would be glaring at me." At this time, Zhang Sheng had already walked to me, put his hand on my shoulder, and said to me with a smile.

I turned my face and looked at Zhang Sheng, and smiled helplessly: "This is the first time I have dealt with such a girl. In the work scene, I look so intellectual, but when I put on the clothes for fun, I feel like I'm wearing a super man shirt. I suddenly become a super hot girl and almost go crazy. It's incredible."

"This is a typical black and white film. It looks like an angel during the day and a devil at night. It is a very challenging new variety. This is suitable for you, right?" Zhang Sheng took a sip of wine, then looked at Liu Yaqin, who was standing on the platform and screaming at the audience below, and said to me with a smile.

I nodded in agreement, "Well, among the girls I know, she looks so beautiful and so open-minded, and is the first one who has such a big difference during the day and night. It is indeed a brand new challenge."

Zhang Sheng was drinking. When he heard me say this, he stopped, turned his head to look at me, and asked with a smile: "What? The little universe is starting to burn?"

I looked at Liu Yaqin's direction very seriously, reached out to grab the cup in Zhang Sheng's hand, drank all the remaining wine in the cup in one gulp, and slowly turned around and walked towards the KTV room, and said with a smile: "Only women are the eternal battlefield for warriors."

"I think Liu Yaqin is different from the girls you dealt with in the past, and it seems difficult to get it." Zhang Shengjian said with a smile.

I smiled disrespectfully and said, "If nothing unexpected happens, I will stay in Hualan for half a year and come every weekend."

"It seems that our President Chu seems to be confident?" Zhang Sheng asked with a smile.

I glanced at him, smiled, and said nothing.

While we were talking, we had already returned to the KTV private room. Zhang Sheng ordered a sing and started singing, and the three secrets who were still teasing me to sing love songs with him. And I sat on the sofa from beginning to end, looking at the screen dullly while drinking.

A dull look does not mean being dazed. In fact, my brain is spinning very fast. Moreover, I also found an indisputable fact, that is, I found that my greatest talent and hobbies are reflected in picking up girls, because when I think about how to play mm, my brain is spinning at least 50% faster than when I think about how to run a business.

There is no doubt that with my current status and conditions, and Liu Yaqin is not disgusted with me, if my goal is just to have a one-night stand with Liu Yaqin, it would be easy. But for Liu Yaqin, stealing is no longer my goal, stealing my heart is my pursuit. Because in the past ten hours, she has always held the initiative in our relationship with each other, as Zhang Sheng said, she has ignited my fighting spirit.

In my past interactions with women, there were two people who made me want to conquer. One was my sexual enlightenment teacher Jiang Wei, and the other was Liu Yaqin now. As for Jiang Wei, it was purely due to timing. At that time, I was ignorant about sex and love. I was wormed all day long and wanted to sleep with women. I had no other ideas, so I had so many planning and fun at that time. And half a year later, my relationship with her still returned to a harmonious state of letting go. Therefore, it can be said that in my past interactions with women, I basically had the mentality of letting go, and using all the true nature.

Liu Yaqin made my first real exception because she aroused the wild desire for conquest that I had been hiding in my heart. It was a desire mixed with male vanity and self-esteem. This desire drove me to sit on the sofa and meditate on how to surrender her from body to heart. I didn't know that without realizing it, my inner harmony had been destroyed, and this was Liu Yaqin's brilliant place.

Just as I was thinking about the joints, Zhang Sheng and my three secrets had already begun to sing the classic duet love song "The Love of a Tractor". When I heard Zhang Sheng sing "Sister, please sit on the bow of the boat, brother, I will walk on the shore", I collapsed in an instant.

Just when I was falling apart, Liu Yaqin, who was dancing in sweat, had already walked to the door, leaned against the door with a red face and smiled at me. I stood up and took a box of tissues for her. She pulled a few tissues to wipe the sweat on her face, then put her hands on my shoulders, shook me coquettishly and said, "Why didn't you dance together?"

I smiled, helped her to the sofa, and said with a smile: "My dance is not as good as you, I can't stand it, and I dare not go on stage."

"It's okay, I'll take you." Liu Yaqin said, pulling me and going out. However, I sat firmly in my seat and shook my head, "No." Then no matter how Liu Yaqin pulled, she didn't move.

Refusal and indulgence are two weapons for men to interact with women. They have their own advantages and disadvantages. Confucius said that only women and villains are difficult to raise in the world. If they are close, they are not inferior, and if they are far away, they are resentful. Here, this so-called closeness can actually be explained as accommodation, while if they are far away, they can refuse. So the meaning of translation into vernacular is that in this world, only women and villains are the most difficult to deal with. If you accommodate them, they will easily not take you seriously. If you reject them, they will easily be full of complaints.

Generally speaking, the advantage of rejection is that it makes women feel that a man has his own ideas and is masculinity, but the disadvantages may make women feel that men do not value each other's relationships, men are selfish, men are selfish, and men are selfish. The advantage of conscience is that it makes women feel that the man is gentle, considerate, and keeps himself in his heart, but the disadvantages are also obvious, that is, it is easy to make women feel that the man is useless, has no ideas, has no masculinity, and is difficult to rely on.

Therefore, blindly accommodating women is as stupid as blindly rejecting women.

Although women, especially beautiful women, are born to men following everything, if you really follow her everywhere, then she will be very happy. But if you want to develop a deeper relationship with her, don’t dream. No woman will like men who follow women in everything and have no opinion at all. Therefore, truly smart men will know when to accommodate a woman and when to reject a person. Only men who grasp the right attitude of consentment and rejection can become the love of women. How to grasp the timing of rejection and consent requires considerable experience and superb intelligence.

Just like now, if I had known Liu Yaqin for a while and had established a certain understanding between each other, then I should have accommodated her now and let her play to the fullest. Because I don’t have to worry about her thinking that I don’t have masculinity or conviction. My current status and my personal personality will effectively dispel her this idea.

But now, I didn't accommodate her, but chose to reject her. Why? Because from the time I knew her until now, Liu Yaqin has always been in a man-controlled and active position. In the relationship between men and women, this is absolutely abnormal. No matter how loud the world calls men and women equality, there is a fact that cannot be changed, that is, this world is a world dominated by men. In the relationship between men and women, the same is true, women should dance with men, and not men should follow the woman step by step. It is precisely in order to regain the dominance of my relationship with Liu Yaqin that I deliberately reject her to break her current sense of rhythm.

As I expected, after being rejected by me, Liu Yaqin seemed a little disappointed and sat on the sofa watching Zhang Sheng and Sanmi sing. I just pretended that I didn't see it, and still smiled and chatted with her and poured her wine. After playing for about half an hour, when the time came to twelve o'clock, I stood up and said to Zhang Sheng: "Today is almost done, I have to work tomorrow, let's go back."

Zhang Sheng looked at me in amazement. Obviously, I, a snail who dragged him to play all night long, was surprised that he could say such things. However, he is worthy of being my best friend. Although he did not understand my intention, he still nodded naturally. At this time, Liu Yaqin had calmed down. When she heard me say she was leaving, she seemed a little surprised and unnatural. However, she didn't say anything, but just stood up.

Twenty minutes later, we sent Liu Yaqin to the door again.

Standing outside the car door, I smiled and said to Liu Yaqin, "I'm sorry, I didn't let you have fun tonight."

Liu Yaqin smiled and shook her head, saying, "No, I have a lot of fun."

"Yeah." I smiled and pointed, then reached out to shake hands with Liu Yaqin, "So, good night."

Liu Yaqin looked at my hand a little strangely. It was very obvious that she didn't expect that I would choose this method to break up with her. However, she quickly lost the surprise on her face and immediately regained the reserve when she saw me in the venue. She politely reached out to shake hands and said goodbye to me.

When Liu Yaqin disappeared from our sight, Zhang Shengcai walked up, patted me strangely, and asked, "Didn't you just say that she is your battlefield? Why does it seem like you have no interest in her now?"

I smiled and looked at Zhang Sheng, then hugged my chest and said, "Didn't I start the attack?"

"Ha, suddenly the attitude becomes so cold, it is also called launching an attack? Why do I look like a big escape?" Zhang Sheng asked in confusion.

"You are a rookie, you are a rookie." I said, and knocked Zhang Sheng's head with some smugness. "The great philosopher Nietzsche once said a classic saying, 'Warriors should entertain women, but don't forget to bring your whip with you.' A blind love and spoiling will only make women arrogant and unruly. In addition to sweetness and tenderness, occasionally we should take out our whip and wake them up from the queen's dream."

Zhang Sheng asked: "Of course it's easy to swing a whip, but the question is, how can you pull her back in the future?"

I looked at Zhang Sheng and shook my head, explaining: "Since Liu Yaqin can play with me so easily and since she can kiss me in the KTV room, it means that Liu Yaqin has the idea of ​​further development with me. However, because she is a very beautiful and charming, and extremely smart woman, she doesn't like to be easily obtained and then abandoned easily. She wants to be in an active position in our relationship with each other, and wants to firmly manipulate the progress of our relationship from beginning to end. Her ultimate goal is to hope that I will become her minister completely."

Zhang Shengliu frowned and said, "I heard you say that, why do I think it's just a war between you two?"

I nodded and said, "That's right, it's a war."

"Isn't it too tired to be made like a war?" Zhang Sheng spread his hands and said.

I smiled and got into the car, "War with every woman is of course a very tired time, but I always live in peace and life is too unexciting. It's good to play war games occasionally."

Zhang Sheng followed me into the carriage, then looked at me, and said, "I hope you will be the winner of the final war. Although I really want to know what you will look like after being dumped by a woman, for the sake of my brothers, I still hope that this kind of thing will not happen."

I leaned confidently on the back seat of the car and said, "Handsome guy, just relax. At the moment when Liu Yaqin turned around and left in disappointment and astonishment, the dominance of the war had returned to the hands of the president. Next, it was time for the counterattack stage."
Chapter completed!