Chapter 9 Analysis of a person's personality
The place where I meet with Loulanxue is usually in the restaurant during the day and at the bar at night. Thinking about it carefully, except for eating, it seems that I just drink, which is really a bit like a friend with alcohol. When I think about it this way, I couldn't help but stand at the door and laugh quietly. Just as I was smiling, Loulanxue gently came to me. She was wearing a white lace hat, sunglasses on her face, a light yellow skirt on her body, and holding a Kun bag in both hands, and gently hanging to the ground.
Loulanxue stood beside me and asked, "What are you laughing at?"
Her voice was soft and hoarse, probably the screams when she was out of control just now, hurting her vocal cords. This sound made people feel gentle and quiet, and it should be my favorite type. But at this moment, it is difficult for me to like it because it makes me feel depressed. In order not to show this emotion, I took a deep breath in secret, and then smiled and told Loulanxue the thoughts of my friend who had just thought of.
Loulanxue said, laughed, gently hit my shoulder, and then smiled, "I am a friend who is a wine and meat."
Loulanxue's smile this time was really a smile, not like the pretentious smile on the phone just now. This made me feel a little relieved, and she finally felt something like she was usually.
I then suggested: "I found a square in OCT where the sun and air are very good, and there is a very good outdoor cafe. We just went there, how about it?"
My proposal is not a random proposal. I think Loulanxue is in such a gloomy mood now, so she should find a spacious and bright place, so that she will feel much happier.
"Okay, just go there." Loulanxue nodded quickly in favor of my opinion.
I said "um" and then walked out the door to stop the taxi. At this time, Loulanxue reached out to stop me, "Let's go for a walk."
I turned my head and looked at Loulanxue, nodded and smiled, "Okay."
We walked side by side on the road. After walking for a while, Loulanxue turned around and asked me, "Tell me what you can do."
In fact, when I said on the phone that I had a way, I had no way. The reason I said that at that time was because I knew that I would definitely help her no matter what. But I didn’t know why. When Loulanxue asked me this, a lot of thoughts really popped up in my mind.
So I asked with a relaxed smile: "Axue, let me ask you a question. What kind of person do you think Tan Tingshan is?"
Loulanxue frowned and thought for a while, and said, "Although I have been in contact with him many times, I never have any special feelings for him. Maybe it's no different from ordinary young men, I think."
I smiled and nodded, and then asked, "Then let me ask you the second question. Has he forced you directly with his father's power since you met Tan Tingshan?"
Loulanxue sighed with some worries and said, "It is because during his entire relationship, his father's power always covers our heads like a shadow. Everyone around him released a kind of pressure to me because of his father's relationship, which sometimes really made me breathlessly. This feeling is particularly serious in Tonghai, slightly better when he was in Xijing, but it also always exists..."
When Loulanxue said these words, she was a little excited, so I didn't interrupt, but just walked side by side with her, letting her finish these words like complaining. After she finished speaking and calmed down a little, I said again: "I know all of these. I just asked you if he directly used his father's power to force you, or your family did what you don't want to do? The key to my words is to use them directly."
"That's not there, but what's the difference?" Loulanxue asked back.
I smiled and reached out to make an OK position and asked, "OK, the third question and the last question. Do you think Tan Tingshan really likes you?"
My question made Loulanxue a little stupid. After a while, she muttered: "How do I know that I am not the roundworm in his belly."
I waved my hand and said, "You are not here. You girls are the most intuitive about this kind of thing. Tell me honestly how you feel. Does he think he really like you?"
Loulanxue frowned in embarrassment for a while and said, "I have known him for almost a year, and he has been bothering me for nearly a year. I think it may be. But I don't like him at all. The more he likes him, the more annoyed me."
When I was in the teaching building, I was shocked when I suddenly heard the news that Tan Tingshan wanted to get engaged. In addition, Loulanxue's reaction on the phone was so abnormal, which made me feel confused. Therefore, my mind was also in a mess at that time and I had no way to think carefully. When I just asked Loulanxue these questions, my mind was also carefully combing it. When Loulanxue asked me back, I finally got some clues in my mind and felt much more relaxed.
I looked at Loulanxue with a smile and asked, "You should have learned the story of the frightened bird when you were in elementary school. Do you still remember what this story is like?"
Loulanxue shook her head, "I probably remember it, but I can't say it specifically."
"I just vaguely remember the details. It's okay anyway, so let me tell you." I said, smiling and calmly, "Once upon a time, there was a sharpshooter, whose name was Gengying. One day, he accompanied the King of Wei to drink in the back garden. At this time, they looked up and saw a lonely goose. Gengying said to the King of Wei, "King, I just need to pull the bow and shoot it, and the goose will fall down." The King of Wei shook his head and smiled, expressing his disbelief. Gengying so he arranged a posture, pulled the bow strings, shot a false arrow, and the goose fell down. The King of Wei didn't dare to do so.
Believing in his eyes, he exclaimed, 'Can archery really reach this level?' At this time, Geng Yu smiled and explained, 'This wild goose flew slowly and roared and shrill, because it lost a long time to the group, the original wound had not healed, and the fear had not yet been eliminated. When he heard the sound of the string, he suddenly swayed his wings and flew to a high place, which instantly touched the old trauma, and the pain caused it to fall. So the reason why it fell was because it fell when it heard the sound of the string, it was not because my archery was so brilliant.'"
After I told this story, I smiled and turned to look at Loulanxue. She frowned and looked at me. Her face seemed to be a little clear, but she was a little confused. After a long time, she asked, "What do you mean is, am I this injured goose?"
I smiled and nodded, "Yes, you are the injured goose, and Tan Tingshan is the sharpshooter. He just shot an arrow and you fell down. The reason for this is not because Tan Tingshan, a sharpshooter, is that you are like that goose, and you have hidden injuries in your heart."
"Is there any hidden wound in my heart?" Loulanxue blinked in confusion, "What hidden wounds are there in my heart?"
"The hidden wound in your heart is that you, like everyone else, care too much about the power of Tan Tingshan's father. As the saying goes, it is precisely because you care too much about his father's power, and the people around you care too much about his father's power, which makes you unable to see the real problem through these surfaces."
Loulanxue blinked and asked anxiously: "I don't understand what you mean very much. Can you explain it a little more clearly?"
I nodded and said, "Okay, then let's put it simply. Let me first talk about my opinion of Tan Tingshan. I have only met him once, and occasionally heard something about him from you and money. My feeling about this person is that because of his father's power, he has a natural sense of superiority. If necessary, I think he will use this power to achieve his goals. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little too high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause any trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although he is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, he knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, he knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, he knows that the best thing about power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, although this person is proud and has a little bit high in self-esteem, he is not a complete fool. He knows that the greatest beauty of power is to attract but not cause trouble. Moreover, he knows that the power is the greatest beauty
, If used too much, there will be side effects. In addition, although he is not easy to communicate with money, as far as I know, his interactions with money are more because he appreciates money's talent, and money's intentional and proactive relationships with him. He has not sought any economic benefits from such interactions. He has always regarded himself as a scholar, and he is arrogant, but he is not greedy. Tonghai Province is full of rumors about young men from the provincial government making huge profits, but he is only focused on studying calligraphy, painting and antiques all day long. There are almost no such impure things, and he can be considered honest."
Hearing this, Loulanxue frowned and said, "Why do you say exactly the same as my father's words? Do you want to persuade me to marry him like my father?"
I smiled and shook my hand, saying, "Of course not. I just want you to analyze it carefully and let you objectively know what situation you are in so that you can calmly solve the problem. If you just rely on impulse, no problem can be solved."
"But why did I listen to you saying all his good things?" Loulanxue asked in confusion.
I tsk and said, "Don't worry, I'm analyzing it with you, I haven't finished talking about it yet."
"Okay, then you can finish the following."
"You interrupted my thoughts." I said, pouting and looking at Loulanxue, then scratching my head, and then continuing to say, "Okay, after saying so much, let's summarize now, who is Tan Tingshan? First, he is a person who is powerful and has a sense of superiority because of his father. Second, he is a person who is arrogant and talented. Third, he is a person who is not keen on profit. Because of the first conclusion, we can know that Tan Tingshan has a strong sense of superiority. Such people generally find it difficult to accept failure and are patient.
Bad. Because of the second conclusion, we can know that Tan Tingshan has a strong literary popularity. What is the biggest characteristic of literati? That is pride and romantic feelings. The pride of literati is destined to use power to achieve his goal when pursuing the girl he likes, and hopes to impress the other person with his sincerity and charm. Romantic feelings will make him full of infinite longing for his love. What does the third conclusion prove? It proves that Tan Tingshan is actually a very unsophisticated person, and such a person has certain expectations for his morality. He feels that he is a noble person in his heart."
After I finished speaking, Loulanxue thought quietly for a while, then nodded and said, "Well, I didn't care much before, but now I heard you say that, he seems to be such a person."
"Okay, we have analyzed him clearly now, so let's analyze his mentality in your matter. Although I don't know when he started pursuing you, I can be sure that he fell in love at first sight when he saw you, and then began to pursue you passionately, right?"
Loulanxue nodded and asked again, "Yes, but how did you know?"
"It's very simple, because he has a strong literary popularity, and literati have this kind of virtue. Next, he has been pursuing you for more than a year, and he can be said to have been frustrated by you without being soft or hard. But he has been persisting. There are reasons for his literary popularity. Literati always likes to imagine wishful thinking as if it is sincere and metal is open to stone. In addition, there are also reasons for being born with superiority. When a person who is born with superiority wants to do something, he must complete it. If he fails, he will have a serious frustration. And they are very afraid of this frustration, so they will try every means to avoid the coming of this frustration. Even if sometimes they know that they may have made a mistake, in order not to face frustration, they will still make such mistakes and make mistakes, and think that this is God's tempering for himself. If you have nothing to do, they fantasize about some good days in the future and fantasize themselves."
Loulanxue nodded repeatedly when he heard this, "Well, you made a lot of sense, keep talking."
"In addition to these, we have also noticed the fact that a person with superiority often has no patience because he is used to everything at his fingertips. When he encounters difficulties, they will find it interesting at first, and once the time is a little longer, they will become extremely irritable and angry, and often go directly to the path of taking advantage of their own power. However, as you said, over the past year, although he has not affected your life more or less, he has never directly interfered with anything you and your family. This at least proves two things. First, Tan Tingshan maintains considerable respect for you, and second, you have a considerable position in Tan Tingshan's mind."
Speaking of this, I paused for a moment and continued, "Do you still remember? What was the reason why you were so desperate just now? It was because you felt that with your status and identity, you could not resist the power of Tan Tingshan's father. At this time, you made one of the biggest mistakes - that is, you thought that if you wanted to solve this problem, if you didn't want to get engaged to Tan Tingshan, then you must have more power than Tan Tingshan's father. And the reason you made this mistake was because you made another mistake, that is, you put Tan Tingshan and Tan Tingshan's father completely against yourself. However, in fact, this is not the case.
Dare to say that as long as you can find a way to express your true feelings in a way that Tan Tingshan can accept and understand, I promise that Tan Tingshan will never force you. This is not only because you have a considerable position in his mind, but he respects you very much, but also because he is a proud person. As a proud person, there is no greater shame than forcing a woman who doesn't like him to become his wife. For people like Tan Tingshan, there is no more important thing in the world than his pride, including you. I dare say that no matter how much Tan Tingshan loves you, he will never love you more than he loves himself. Therefore, it is impossible for him to harm his pride in order to be with you, and it is impossible."
When he heard me say this, Loulanxue grabbed my arm with a loss of composure, and happily smiled and jumped up and said, "Yes, yes, yes, you are not right at all. He is such a person, he is such a person."
But after a while, she became depressed again, "But I have told him so many times, and he still can't understand. What should you do if you ask me to do?"
"That's because you don't have the ability to express yourself. If it were me..." As soon as I finished saying this, I found that I seemed to be a little proud of my analysis just now.
After hearing this, Loulanxue grabbed my hand as if she had caught a life-saving straw and said, "That's right, yes, Aqi, with your eloquence, you will definitely let Tan Tingshan understand. Let's talk for me."
When I heard Loulanxue's words, I was suddenly in a dark mind, "Sister Lou, aren't you harming me like this? If I ask me to say this, how can Tan Tingshan listen to it. I will definitely use his rich imagination to imagine how I, the evil pervert, seduced you and deceived you into a dizzy turn. Maybe before I could say a few words, he kicked me into the cell and locked me up for 30 or 50 years. Besides, even if I explain this kind of thing clearly, will the Tan person still hate me to death? If you get out of here, I will be in trouble."
"Aqi, for my lifelong happiness..." Loulanxue grabbed my hand and looked pitiful.
"Oh, stop making trouble, I'm a serious man, I'm a man, I'll do half the result with twice the effort. Why not do this? I'll teach you how to say it in advance. Practice more, and after returning to Tonghai, you can tell him in person, how about it?"
"How is that?" Loulanxue blinked, then shook her head and said, "No, no. It's weird to memorize the lines, I'm afraid I'll be nervous."
"This..." I touched my mouth in embarrassment, and then suddenly came up with an idea, "Oh, by the way, why not write a letter. Literature is more sensitive to words than language, and the effect of letters is worse than speaking. And you can plan it in advance, so you don't have to worry about performing on the spot."
"Okay, okay, okay." Loulanxue shouted three times in a row, then smiled happily and patted my shoulder hard and said, "Class Chu Tianqi, this glorious task will be handed over to you. You must not let the organization down."
"That's right, it's a bit difficult." I pinched my chin in a daze and looked up at the sky.
At this time, Loulanxue jumped behind me with a smile, and pinched my shoulders with a flattering smile, "Mr. Chu, do you have any instructions, and I will definitely not refuse to go through fire and water."
I turned my head, looked at Loulanxue with a smile, and asked, "Is it really okay to have anything?"
"Of course, as long as this matter is done, you will give you whatever you want." Loulan Xue said with a big bag.
I blinked my eyes and said, "If that's the case... then okay, I won't make any particularly difficult requests, just satisfy your desire."
"My desire? What is my desire?" Loulanxue asked with confusion.
I smiled lewdly and stuck out my tongue and licked my lips, and said, "If I remember correctly, someone seemed to be crying and shouting not long ago that he wanted to check in with me..."
As soon as I said this, Loulanxue's face turned red from head to toe, and then she stood to the side and kicked her over with a flying leg. Fortunately, I was prepared and dodged quickly, otherwise I would have to be hit hard by her.
"You stinky woman who turns against others, don't think I will help you again."
I said, running in front with a smile, while Loulanxue chased me hard, "You dead pervert, can't you think of something else in your mind?"
"Please, are you good to seduce me first?"
"You said..."
"Ha ha ha ha."
After we were chasing and fighting on the street for a long time, I was finally caught up by Loulanxue, who seemed weak but had amazing endurance. She beat her with a pink fist to make it happen.
But after being beaten, I continued to smile and said to her with a lewd smile: "Even if I don't check in, there should be some rewards."
Loulanxue turned her head and said firmly: "Don't think about it, there is no door."
"No, how about a kiss?"
Loulanxue glared at me, "Kiss you? It's absolutely impossible!"
When I heard this, I immediately drooped my face, "If this happens, I suddenly feel that there is no inspiration at all. Tan Tingshan's letter is so difficult, I really have no confidence at all. Alas... Actually, I really want to help you."
As soon as the killer move came out, Loulanxue immediately softened and pouted helplessly and said, "Okay, okay, but you can't kiss."
"Then where do you want to kiss?" I asked.
Loulanxue said: "You can do anything except your mouth."
"This is what you said, don't regret it."
"As long as you write well, I will do what I say." Loulanxue said with a thrust out her chest, "Where do you want to kiss?"
So I stuck out my butt and said, "Ass."
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Chapter completed!