[273] Just marry home
After Shen Mo finished speaking, he also looked at Fang Chang'an and asked in a low voice: "Brother Chang'an, what should I do? I don't want to study abroad."
Fang Changan looked at her bright and worried eyes and smiled and said, "Don't worry, did your parents have a very firm attitude and insisted on letting you study abroad? Or was it just making this suggestion to persuade you to agree to study abroad?"
"Um……"
Shen Mo tilted his head and thought about it seriously, and said, "I didn't force me, it was a discussion. Since I was a child, they would discuss it with me..."
She said this, looked at him, lowered her head with a little guilty and guilty look, and added quietly: "But I did what they said in the end..."
Fang Chang'an smiled and said, "No, you forgot that when you were in the first year of junior high school, didn't your parents ask you to transfer to school after the Spring Festival? Didn't you leave after the first year of junior high school?"
This is indeed one of the few things Shen Mo has fought for for his parents. After Fang Changan gave a confirmation, he felt a little embarrassed with his lips pursed, but he smiled happily, and the dimples appeared on his cheeks, which were sweet and cute.
Wang Ke quietly bulged his cheeks, but did not speak out. Song Tang said, "Your parents are all very good. If you don't agree, they won't force you to study abroad."
After hesitating for a moment, Song Tang still whispered: "But... although I can't bear to leave you, studying abroad seems to be a little better than being in China..."
"I won't go!"
Shen Mo's tone was very firm. When he spoke, he looked at Fang Chang'an and thought to himself: "I have been away for two years in junior high school, and now I will never leave for another four years..."
She looked at Fang Chang'an, her eyes shining, hoping that he could understand the thoughts in his heart that he was embarrassed to say directly through his eyes.
Fang Chang'an had long considered this situation, so he was just a little surprised by the time. He didn't expect it to be so early, but he had already thought about the countermeasures and looked at her and smiled: "Don't worry. First of all, it is normal for your parents to make this suggestion. Don't many people study abroad every year in our school?"
"Secondly, if your parents want you to study abroad, they will definitely do your ideological work first. Only when you are willing to study abroad will they make arrangements like this and will not force you to obey. In other words, the final decision is still in your hands."
"Finally, if you don't want to go, you must convince your parents...so if you don't want to study abroad, we can discuss how to convince them."
When Shen Mo heard him say this, he thought about it and found that it made sense. He nodded and opened his bright eyes and asked, "How to convince?"
Fang Chang'an pondered for a moment and said, "Your parents are not a person who admires foreign countries, but to be honest, the level of top foreign universities is indeed better than ours now, and it is not a little bit good. This may be something we can't catch up with in ten or twenty years. Moreover, most domestic companies also value studying abroad experience..."
Shen Mo interrupted him angrily: "I won't go!"
Fang Changan looked at her a little aggrieved and smiled and said, "What do you think? I don't want you to go either! What I mean is that you have to analyze the pros and cons so that you can negotiate better with your parents. Otherwise, if you come up and say something like "There are also good universities in China" and your parents will definitely refute..."
Shen Mo stared at him for two seconds. In view of the words "I don't want you to go", he forgave him for the misunderstanding that he had just misunderstood and felt wronged, and asked softly: "What should I say?"
Wang Ke bulged his cheeks again, but still didn't say anything.
Fang Chang'an said: "First of all, you have to understand the reason why your parents asked you to study abroad, that is, they think that you will become better and your future will be better. So to convince them, you must take this direction and stand on your personal perspective, compare the pros and cons of studying abroad and staying in China, and then draw a conclusion that you will be better at staying in China to study and study abroad."
"Remember, if you are unwilling to study abroad, the essence of this matter is that we need to come to a conclusion that you will be better off staying in the country, and then look for evidence for this conclusion."
"Uh-huh!"
When the little girl heard the last sentence, her eyes lit up and nodded vigorously, then looked at Wang Ke and Song Tang. Her expressions looked much more relaxed, and she also smiled on her face, "Can you help me find it together?"
Wang Ke and Song Tang both nodded.
Fang Chang'an saw that there was a slight sweat on Song Tang's nose and said, "It's still a little hot here. I didn't go to the corridor on the lake over there and talk."
Naturally, the three girls had no objection, so Fang Chang'an greeted Li Hao and others, then passed by the comprehensive building with the three girls and walked towards Mingli Lake.
Fang Chang'an asked Shen Mo as he walked: "Where are your parents going to ask you to study abroad?"
"USA."
Shen Mo bit his lip gently, "They said they could try Yale or Vanderbilt University... I don't know where..."
"We can start from this perspective, because after going abroad, we must face environmental problems and are unfamiliar with the place..."
Fang Changan said with a smile, looking very confident to relieve her pressure, but to be on the safe side, he still asked: "Do you have any relatives and friends there? The kind that is reliable."
Shen Mo thought for a while and said, "One of my cousins is at Vanderbilt University, and then there is an aunt who is a friend my mother met since childhood and is a professor at Yale... Is that counting?"
“…”
Fang Chang'an sighed, "Let's change the angle. Your parents must have considered this. Even if they can't cover everything, they will definitely regard this as a training for you... Have they ever said their attitude towards you in the future?"
Shen Mo blinked in confusion, a little confused about what he meant. Fang Chang'an said: "That is, if you immigrate in the future and settle there, what is their attitude?"
Wang Ke and Song Tang did not expect to discuss such a topic, so they looked at Shen Mo, as if they were afraid that she would settle abroad and not come back soon.
"My parents didn't say it, but I'll definitely be back."
Shen Mo shook his head and then gently bit his lip, a little dissatisfied with the question he would ask.
Fang Chang'an pondered: "Your parents are the only daughter. I definitely hope you will return to China after studying abroad. This is a breakthrough. For example, you have lived abroad for a few years, four years of undergraduate degree, and then graduate school, so it will take at least seven years."
"Suppose you start to be sensible at the age of ten, it will be longer than your memory in China, and because it is closer, the memory will definitely be deeper... If you adapt to life abroad, or have a foreign boyfriend, you will most likely settle abroad, and this is definitely..."
Shen Mo finally couldn't help but kick him hard, and opened his bright eyes and stared at him with a little annoyance.
Fang Changan said helplessly: "I'm telling you why I told your parents if it's okay? It's not really that you're immigrating abroad. Have you remembered what I just said?"
Shen Mo opened his bright eyes, stared at him with his cheeks for two seconds, then pouted and nodded slightly.
Fang Chang'an continued: "Remember one thing, people will change, especially with the changes in the environment. For example, you are unwilling to go abroad or immigrate now, but when you adapt to life abroad, or feel that you are more comfortable abroad, you may not be willing to come back. There must be a certain probability that such things, or that have happened to others..."
"Just tell your parents like this, it means that I am obedient now, I am unwilling to study abroad, and I am unwilling to leave you. If you insist on forcing me to study abroad, then if I become unbearable abroad and don't want to come back in the future, then I won't blame me, I will blame you for forcing me out now... Do you understand?"
Shen Mo hesitated a little and asked in a low voice: "Will my parents be angry if they say this?"
Fang Chang'an glared at her and said, "Your parents asked you to study abroad. Are you angry with them?"
Shen Mo thought about it very seriously and shook his head.
"Isn't that enough? Your parents must love you more than you love them. You are not angry. How could they be angry?"
"Well...it seems to make sense."
The little girl nodded, smiled happily, blinking her big eyes at him, "What else?"
Wang Ke and Song Tang both sat next to Shen Mo and stared at Fang Chang'an.
Fang Chang'an coughed and continued, "Also, your family is very rich, you are the only daughter, and no one is snatching your property from you, so your purpose of learning is different from that of others. What you want to learn is how to be a good boss, and what school you go to or from famous teachers and professors you go to is better than learning from your parents."
"In terms of managing the company, you can hire someone, ask the manager and CEO, or form a professional consulting team. They are just as good as they are. From this perspective, your professional knowledge and ability are not that important... Of course, it is not completely unimportant. You must have the ability to distinguish right from wrong and make decisions, even if it is to distinguish right from wrong, such as knowing that making money is right, rewarding, losing money is wrong, and punishment..."
His last words were joking and joking. Wang Ke and Song Tang couldn't help laughing. Shen Mo also laughed, and raised his little hand to make a gesture to hit him, angrily saying, "I'm not stupid!"
Fang Chang'an cooperated to hide for a while, "Also, your parents are young and healthy, modern medical care continues to develop, they can work until they are fifty, sixty, and they can take the helm until they are seventy or eighty. By then, your children will be married and start a business. Even if they raise grandchildren, you will have time. And you are very beautiful, and you can also marry a very powerful, excellent and excellent husband..."
Shen Mo shyly raised his hand and hit him again. Fang Chang'an did not hide this time and smiled and said, "I mean you don't have to live a hard life. You have the qualifications to be willful... Even if you drop out of school from now on and don't study anything, you can live a good life. Even if you don't know any investment, deposit the money you will get in the bank in the future and do nothing. The annual interest rate is enough to exceed the annual salary of most people studying abroad, and it is far more than, or rent out the house you don't live in, the annual rent will also be far more than the income of those who pay you rent..."
"As long as your luck is not too bad, like being deceived when you meet a scumbag, or having a world war, this is your lower limit, which is destined from the moment you are born."
Shen Mo blinked his eyes and pursed his lips. He didn't know what to say for a moment, and neither Wang Ke nor Song Tang said anything.
"You can tell your parents about these things, or you can't say them."
Fang Changan put away his jokes and became more serious, saying, "I said this is not to let you lie under the shade of your parents' trees to enjoy the cool air. The most important thing is that you have to study hard and prove that you can also become very outstanding in China."
"Uh-huh!"
Shen Mo nodded vigorously, "I will definitely study hard!"
"This is the most desperate thing."
Fang Chang'an smiled again, "Look, your family is rich, looks good, studies hard, and has good grades... What can we compare with you?"
"Uh-huh!"
Wang Ke and Song Tang, who had been listening next to each other, nodded vigorously with a sense of empathy. Shen Mo felt ridiculed and bulged his cheeks a little dissatisfied and hit the two friends' arms on the arms of each as punishment.
Chapter completed!