168. Neglected woman

Tao Tao said casually: "Yes! I have to go to work too. His father often goes on business trips. When the child comes back from school, he cooks and cleanses the room on weekends."

The teacher thinks such parents are a bit incredible, "You can bear it if a child who is only ten years old takes care of most of the housework?"

Tao Tao: "Does the teacher think this is inappropriate? It seems that the child does not affect his learning? But his sense of responsibility and love are very hands-on, but he has developed his ability to do it."

The teacher also felt that he was too worried, "His academic performance is pretty good. But, is he willing to do this with such a older child?"

"It was the child at this time who was full of curiosity, so he was willing to do anything. He felt that he was quite accomplished to help his mother do things, so he was very motivated."

If you don’t cultivate your child’s hands-on ability from an early age, you will become a hand-off manager when you grow up, and you will not do anything, and you will truly become a person who is not diligent in all four bodies and is not diligent in all grains.”

"Yes! Many children in their teens and twenties are not as good as him."

At this time, the food was ready, Maomao invited his mother and teacher to come over for dinner, and he quickly added the rice and arranged the chopsticks.

Out of curiosity, the teacher stayed for this meal.

Four dishes and one soup, two meats and two vegetables. Usually, the mother and son make two dishes and one soup. When the teacher came, Maomao specially added two dishes.

These are all home-cooked dishes, but the teacher tasted the chef-level taste.

The teacher exclaimed, "Mom Maomao, how did you educate your children? He educated him so well in all aspects."

"If parents are really good for their children, they must consider them far-reachingly. Children should learn these most basic life skills. At the same time, they should cultivate their children's habit of being diligent."

The teacher sighed, "Indeed, children are now spoiled by their parents too lazy. Children occasionally do some labor in school. Parents need to help, but the children don't get a little chance to exercise. What can he do in the future?"

"A person's excellence and laziness will form an inertia. The better a person has higher requirements for himself in all aspects, the better he will become."

The teacher agreed very much. She planned to hold a parent-teacher meeting and asked Tao Tao to introduce her parenting experience.

Send the teacher to the yard below.

The teacher looked at the flowers and green vegetables in the yard, and was filled with emotion.

"You are a wise woman, you are cared for warm and comfortable at home, raised children well, and even grown flowers and vegetables so well."

Tao Tao pointed to the green-growing vegetables that were blooming and growing, and smiled and said, "Most of the time, Maomao is managing these."

The teacher laughed in silence.

She pointed at Tao Tao.

"The child does everything at home, so what are you, the mother?"

Tao Tao smiled and said, "I earn money at work, manage my children, and do technical guidance."

The teacher laughed.

"Yes, yes, yes, manage children, and technical guidance. You can tell the parents at the parent meeting how to manage children and how to guide them."

Not long after, the teacher really organized a parent-teacher meeting to specifically ask Tao Tao to introduce how she educated her children.

The teacher told the parents about what she saw when she visited her home. Many parents couldn't believe that a child who was only ten years old could cook, do housework, and keep his academic performance at the top of his grade.

The teacher said that the Tao Tao family's family's family conditions are not very poor. On the contrary, it is a good family. Tao Tao is not very busy at work and does not care about the children at all. However, she intends to cultivate the children to be self-reliant, with the spirit of courage to give and take responsibility.

The parents and mothers looked at Tao Tao, who was young and beautiful, dressed in decent and elegantly, calmly walked to the stage and were amazed again.

They sighed in their hearts that they are lucky, have a good appearance, their husbands are capable, and their sons are well-behaved and outstanding. They really want whatever they want.

Tao Tao used to be a teacher and a lawyer, so speaking and speaking was like walking around in the garden.

The teacher asked her to prepare a speech, but she didn't make any preparations. She just kept reciting her thoughts in her heart, and she started talking nonsense when she came on stage.

How to educate children? She specially opened a public account in this area in her previous life, with a million fans and several lifetimes of experience in parenting, so she speaks like a surging river.

Moreover, what she talked about was the most realistic and touching theory and examples, which were refreshing and impressive.

At the beginning, some parents and mothers listened to her with a sceptic look and picky look. Later, they had to admire her that she really had some energy and insightful opinions in educating her children.

No wonder it is possible to raise children so well, not just by luck.

The content she said is easy to understand, easy to understand, and has a strong practical operation. Everyone was fascinated by listening to the knowledge shared by Tao Tao, and many parents were ashamed to realize that their methods of educating their children were wrong and their educational philosophy was wrong.

When the parents asked questions, some parents asked: "Do you think it's difficult to educate your children?"

"I don't think it's difficult. It's very relaxed. It's a very pleasant thing to watch his progress and growth every day, just like a farmer's excitement as he watches the crops he grows."

Tao Tao: "Especially before the child is twelve, the child is strong in plasticity and well-guided. After the child is twelve, parents don't have to worry anymore. If they miss this period, the child will become more and more out of control and parents will have more and more headaches. Therefore, in primary school, we should focus on cultivating children's habits and qualities."

Parents: "But I think it's difficult to educate children. After all, children are not crops. They have thoughts and actions and will not follow your ideas completely."

Tao Tao: "If you feel it is difficult to educate your children, then your method is wrong. Education is to educate first, nurture first, nourish with love, and then teach. This teaching is not to make him obey, but to guide. So simply put, the word education is to guide with love."

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The parent meeting was held very successfully, and many parents were still unsatisfied. They hoped to contact Tao Tao more and ask for more experience in educating their children.

Tao Tao also gave advice.

This parent meeting not only benefited the students and parents, but also the teachers heard a lot of useful information.

The class teacher reported to the grade department and organized a grade parent meeting to hold a grade parent meeting, and asked Tao Tao to speak.

Tao Tao also gave a talk openly.

It also had a great response.

From then on, Tao Tao became famous in school, and Maomao became even more famous in school.
Chapter completed!