157. Neglected woman

Maomao was praised by Tao Tao and was very happy, so next, no matter what Tao Tao asked him to do, he would be proactive.

A five or six-year-old child needs to be affirmed very much. As long as he gets affirmed by the person he cares about, he will be happy to do whatever he wants.

This is the best time to cultivate good habits and exercise their hands-on ability.

No matter how big or small a person does not have a sense of accomplishment in his work, he will have no motivation to do anything. He will feel listless and tired when doing a little bit of small things.

If you feel accomplished, you will stimulate all the energy in your body and enjoy it no matter how many things you do.

Tao Tao summarized the successful experience of raising children in several lifetimes. A good teacher and a good mother is to constantly stimulate the motivation of children, which requires constantly letting children experience a sense of accomplishment.

Therefore, excellent children have good abilities in all aspects, while poor children have shortcomings in all aspects.

Excellence is an inertia, and laziness is also an inertia. To cultivate children, one must cultivate their excellent inertia from an early age and form habits. If he has something he cannot do well, he will feel sorry for it.

Tao Tao made lunch. After eating, she and her son lay on the sofa to rest. She applied cucumbers on her face and told her stories.

The child fell asleep in her story.

Tao Tao fell asleep too.

Since I learned that my husband has someone outside, I have been insomnia all night and can’t sleep. After a year, I have suffered a lot of losses.

After Tao Tao penetrated into this body, her mood was relaxed, so she could fall asleep anytime and anywhere, because the body itself was like a mobile phone that was about to consume its power. If it didn't charge, the screen would be black. So Tao Tao's relaxed state made her automatically charge it.

Generally, insomnia is caused by anxiety, stress, and things that cannot be solved, so the nerves are tense.

Tao Tao does not have these problems, so the health killer of insomnia is not a problem for her.

After a beauty sleep, Tao Tao saw that her skin was much smoother and more moister than before.

She washed her face with facial cleanser.

At that time, there were few fakes. A bottle of ordinary milk facial cleanser could really smell the fragrance of milk. There were also few substances that harmed the human body.

The skin is also particularly smooth and shiny after washing it out.

Tao Tao applied lotion and applied a little powder lightly. Her complexion instantly improved, and her dark circles became much lighter.

The sun was too strong in the afternoon, and Tao Tao did not go out. She taught Maomao to cut small red flowers and taught him how to do a lot of handicrafts.

No matter how ugly he cuts, Tao Tao will praise him, and it will praise him just right, which will make the children particularly enjoyable.

It's July and September, and the child is in elementary school.

Tao Tao wanted to take the exam for Maomao, but learned something in kindergarten.

As a result, after the exam, she found that Maomao could recognize about 100 words, and could calculate addition and subtraction within ten, and count to 100.

This means that this child has basically mastered about 80% of the content taught by the teacher in the kindergarten.

This child is not very intelligent, but his brain is basically enough, and with proper guidance, there is no problem in learning in the future.

In terms of personality, he is very dependent and has a mentality of retreating when encountering things. This is because the original owner took care of his child too carefully before and spoiled him like this.

Fortunately, the child is young, so he can be corrected.

The child is too delicate and weak, and he loves to get sick. Tao Tao plans to get up every morning to take the child to exercise. Teach him to train his family and let him start from the beginning of stance.

When you are at home, you ask him to help with some housework. Boys also need to learn how to do housework. This is to cultivate his hands-on ability and sense of responsibility. Moreover, a person, regardless of gender, will clean his environment, which can develop his ability to do things in an orderly manner, know how to cook, and do not need to be served by others. No matter where he is, he will never starve to death.

As for learning, Tao Tao will not be proud of her children as being able to recognize more words, do more questions, and memorize more ancient poems, just like other parents.

As long as a child can do his own thing well and then write properly, he will not be too bad in the future.

Tao Tao plans to take her children out for an hour after dinner every day and practice writing for an hour after she goes home.

Writing can temper children's patience and character.

After dinner, Tao Tao took Maomao out for a walk by a river not far from the community. After she came back, she asked Maomao to practice writing.

And she was flipping the book on the kindergarten with Maomao's book next to her.

At this time, Li Zhengqiang pushed the door and entered.

Maomao looked up and saw him, and looked at his empty hands.

He curled his lips in disappointment.

"Dad, didn't you say in the morning that you would buy me my favorite jelly back?"

Li Zhengqiang was a little embarrassed.

"I forgot, let your mother buy you tomorrow."

This is what Li Zhengqiang is like. He doesn’t tell Tao Tao directly what he wants to do, and he says it through conversations with his son.

Let your mother buy you something, let your mother take you wherever you go, and let your mother do whatever she wants.

Before, every time the original owner heard Li Zhengqiang say this, he would echo, "Yes, mom will take you to buy it."

This is Li Zhengqiang's promise to his son, why should she fulfill it?

And I told her this way.

Tell her directly that he will die!

Tao Tao held Maomao and kissed him on the face.

"Maomao, can you go to the room to write, okay? I have something to say to your dad."

On this day, Tao Tao made Maomao happy, so he listened to Tao Tao in particular.

He grimaced at Li Zhengqiang.

"Whatever you buy is what your mother buys, whatever you make is what your mother does. Is your father doing the decoration?"

Maomao said, packed up his things and went to the room.

"Did you teach the children?" Li Zhengqiang said coldly.

Tao Tao responded coldly. "He has his own eyes and brains. Do you need me to teach him?"

"My salary is in your hands, and you work in the supply and marketing cooperative. Is it difficult for you to buy these things?"

"It's not difficult for me to buy these things, but the children belong to two people. Don't think that if you pay a little money, everything will be fine. Sometimes children need not only these things, but through these things, you can feel the love given to him by your father."

Isn’t this woman’s tongue knots as soon as she speaks? Why is she so eloquent today?

Forget it, he doesn't want to argue with her about these trivial matters.

Li Zhengqiang sat on the sofa next to Tao Tao and deliberately kept a distance from Tao Tao.

"I warn you not to ask my colleagues who work with me about my situation in the future."
Chapter completed!