0398 Unspoken Engagement Matters【10300】(1/5)
Let’s talk about engagement again.
On the dining table, Teacher Zhao's question made Ye Xiu and Li Xiang silent for a moment. To be honest, they actually did not have a unified opinion on the engagement.
Masked claws.
Ye Xiu had thought about it, but the dog had no choice but to take the turtle.
He didn't know what to prepare for engagement, and he was going to turn around and ask Mao Xuan, but it was not too late.
However, Li Minda was even more numb than him. Last time she asked him to go to his father-in-law's house and prepare those things, and Pure is nothing.
Li Xiang and Ye Xiu have been doing this for the first time in the engagement, and they are a little bit at a loss.
In fact, the best way is to decide between parents, and they don’t even understand the process now.
We just proposed to each other today, and our parents started urging us to get engaged, and Ye Xiu and Li Xiang had no time to prepare.
It’s not just one person who urges, both sides are urging.
Helplessly doubled.
If you are undecided when encountering things, you won’t know. If you don’t understand, you can only look at what your parents say.
My parents say that they can do whatever they want. After all, engagement is about relatives and friends from both sides. Let’s witness it. The real ceremony is much simpler.
Engagement is not complicated, but the complicated thing is marriage.
Engagement and marriage, most men in this world have to go through it once, which is an indispensable part of life.
Ye Xiu and Li Xiang were not as willful as others. They discussed everything with their parents. Ye Xiu and Li Xiang knew very well, and their parents always looked forward to them getting married soon.
Including Li Xiang’s grandparents, and Ye Xiu’s grandparents, they are all looking forward to it.
Ye Xiu asked: "What is the engagement process? We don't even know the process."
Li Xiang’s parents and Ye Xiu’s parents looked at each other and couldn’t help but smile. They were not like this before, they all had to learn!
The two mothers had already seen it, and they didn't know anything.
"We will do it well, don't think so much!" Li Xiang's mother said.
"Your mother-in-law is right, but you don't understand, let's just do it." Teacher Zhao also nodded.
This disgusting tone.
It’s also annoying to know nothing. They arranged everything themselves, and they said they were not orphans.
I also feel that this is what I should do and my own responsibility, but I also think that my children are too independent.
Not a human inside and outside.
"Ye Xiulian and I are the only ones!" Li Xiang understood.
Then several parents nodded.
Ye Xiu: “…”
Li Xiang: "..."
The fact that they can do it well is actually a foregone conclusion. After all, they have done it well. What else can Ye Xiu and Li Xiang do?
If you are arranged by your parents properly, just give away someone.
Li Xiang looked at Ye Xiu again: "Do you have any ideas?"
Ye Xiu: “…”
As soon as he was about to speak, Teacher Zhao glared at him. Ye Xiu scratched his head and chose to shut up.
Maybe you shouldn't have any ideas, just hold on to your own if you have any ideas.
Ye Xiu looked at Li Xiang helplessly, and Li Xiang couldn't help but smile, and they would not participate in the discussion on this matter.
His parents set a time and a process. He was very interested in getting engaged directly. Just make it simple. The engagement is actually a legitimate thing between his parents.
Customs issues.
It’s not OK to have nothing, it’s important. Compared with marriage, there is nothing to compare. If you don’t get engaged, you can’t get married.
For Ye Xiu and Li Xiang, it is actually not impossible to skip engagement and get married directly.
Although they were the protagonist of the engagement, they had no objection to this matter, and they didn't even have much opinion on this matter.
Time is too hasty, so have time to think about this?
Just leave it to your parents. Although they are worried a little, at least they can feel the joy of being parents.
A sense of participation is also important.
"Okay, we will decide the time and date by ourselves, and we will notify you at that time." Teacher Zhao looked at everyone, except for the parties involved, several parents had no objection, so they made the decision.
Ye Xiu: “…”
Li Xiang: "..."
The first step was decided like this.
Teacher Zhao thought for a while: "Then there are the bride gifts, three golds, clothes and shoes, these things are all betrothal gifts. Do you have special customs on your side? If so, you can do it according to your customs!"
Li Xiang's father shook his head. These things are similar. Most places are actually the same, just a few problems.
However, Li Xiang’s father thinks that the bride price is actually dispensable, and it’s okay to not even have it.
After all, in their opinion, as long as Li thought about living a good life, they were actually dispensable details. As parents, they never thought about quarrel.
Well, I refuse high-priced bride price, start with the Lotus Grotto, and promote slogans.
Moreover, the girls in their village did not have the ones who asked for a lot of brides, and some of them lived a mess and the family was in chaos.
The rules in the whole place are different, and Li Xiang’s parents didn’t think much about this matter.
Some children even got married because the parents got along well and didn’t want anything. They felt that the expenses were spent, so they exchanged their marriage letters and invited relatives and friends for a meal. This matter was done.
"Let me first talk about my wife's attitude. It's a long way to go. Today we will think that we are a relative. Let's just be simpler about the issue of children's engagement. Don't make it too complicated." Li Xiang's father expressed his opinion.
He still thought it was easier. Based on his understanding of Teacher Ye, they must have wanted to make it a little more grand and complicated because everyone is too far away.
In fact, it is simpler and more convenient.
Anything needs to be considered.
"Old Li, since you have said this, let me tell you what I and my wife think. We think we must have what we should have, whether it is a bride or gift, it is a respect for you and our attitude."
Teacher Ye replied.
Ye Xiu and Li Xiang looked at each other silently. One wanted to be more grand and the other wanted to be simpler, and both had their own considerations.
Holding the little orange, Ye Xiu was considering how to achieve the best of both worlds.
"The distance itself is relatively long, it is complicated and too troublesome, so it can be a little simpler." Li Xiang's mother expressed her opinion, the same as her husband's idea.
Teacher Zhao smiled: "We are lucky and we meet in-laws who are well-educated and polite, but we can't let our wife down if we get married!"
Li Xiang: "..."
She didn't feel wronged. Ye Xiu's parents' attitude was very obvious. They always favored her, and they were also very nice to her.
In fact, Li Xiang quite agrees with his parents' ideas, to make this engagement simpler and not too complicated.
Li Xiang is a pragmatic guy, just like her mother.
Face is for others to see, and life is what you live by yourself. How they live in the future depends on her and Ye Xiu.
Whether an engagement and marriage is grand or not is not related to a dime.
"Then we will discuss the same thing! Ye Xiu, how much do you think the bride price is appropriate?" Teacher Ye asked.
Ye Xiu looked at Li Xiang, and Li Xiang was also curious about what he said, of course Li Xiang was just curious.
"I really want me to say it?" Ye Xiu replied.
His thoughts are probably a bit different from his parents' ideas, but they are even more different from his father-in-law's and others.
"Say, let's see what you think first, after all, this is you're going to get engaged." Teacher Zhao said.
Ye Xiu smiled and said, "Then choose one from thousands of miles away!"
Teacher Ye: “…”
Teacher Zhao: “…”
"Dropping the chain at the critical moment!" Teacher Ye complained about Ye Xiu. As soon as he heard this, he felt that Ye Xiu was ignorant.
Ye Xiu: “…”
However, Li Xiang’s parents had no objection at all, but instead thought it was good.
"This is good, it's just a meaning. Don't think about it much, but consider the meaning." Li Xiang's father agreed.
Ten thousand and one thousand, one out of ten thousand, it’s pretty good.
Li Xiang looked at Ye Xiu with a smile: "I have no objection, this is pretty good. In your eyes, Ye Xiu and I are one of them in a thousand!"
Teacher Zhao and Teacher Ye don’t think so, they think there are too few.
To be continued...