It wasn't until I got to know Cao Zhiqiang, had in-depth contact with Cao Zhiqiang, and had in-depth conversations and discussed these things that I discovered the root of the problem.

Through Cao Zhiqiang's explanation, Zhu Lin suddenly discovered that the past quarrels between her and her husband were essentially conflicts of ideas between the two parties.

Unless Zhu Lin is willing to be a traditional housewife and willing to be subordinate to her husband for a long time, whenever she wants to have her own pursuits and pursue her dreams, she will have conflicts with her husband, because what both parties want is completely different.

It's different.

As Cao Zhiqiang said, it's not that her husband is not a good man, it's just that the two of them are not the same kind of people. If they can't live together, they can only be together reluctantly, which will only lead to constant conflicts and quarrels.

If you want to live a peaceful life, the best way is to divorce the other party once and for all, so that you can put down your burdens and move forward lightly.

Zhu Lin had never thought that Cao Zhiqiang might have selfish motives behind what he said. After all, they were private lovers. From Cao Zhiqiang's point of view, of course he was not happy that Zhu Lin still had a husband, and of course he wanted to have her completely.

But when I think about it more carefully, there seems to be nothing wrong with following Cao Zhiqiang.

Cao Zhiqiang is more menopausal than his husband, more handsome, more talented, richer, more powerful and more powerful. The most important thing is that Cao Zhiqiang supports Zhu Lin's career. He never thinks there is anything wrong with her being an actress, let alone

This is jealous.

This kind of all-round material and spiritual support made Zhu Lin feel as comfortable as drinking fine wine.

In fact, Zhu Lin's narcissism would be self-deception if Cao Zhiqiang thought about it.

Because Cao Zhiqiang’s three views are those of those born in the 1990s. This group actually cares more about the things themselves and less about “feeling” these mysterious things.

In other words, from Cao Zhiqiang's own perspective, cheating is cheating and doing bad things, and there is no controversy about it.

But from the perspective of Zhu Lin in this era, she does not think that this kind of cheating is her fault, nor does she think it is a bad thing. Instead, she thinks it is the pursuit of love.

Well, it is similar to the early Qiong Yao dramas, with the characteristics of the times.

That is to say, Cao Zhiqiang knows that he is doing bad things, and he does not agree with Zhu Lin's self-defense view of love. It is just that he has a vested interest, so he does not refute Zhu Lin, but instead agrees with Zhu Lin's "actively breaking the shackles"

, the act of proactively pursuing love and freedom.

In Zhu Lin's eyes, a sea king like Cao Zhiqiang is understandable.

Because in Zhu Lin's view, Cao Zhiqiang had another woman, and it was not Cao Zhiqiang's fault, but the fault of others.

In the final analysis, it is Cao Zhiqiang who is so good that he attracts the love of too many women and presents too many temptations.

And Cao Zhiqiang himself was too young and not ruthless enough, so he made mistakes under the temptation of those bad women.

So it’s not Cao Zhiqiang who’s wrong, it’s other women.

Because of this, Zhu Lin doesn't mind that Cao Zhiqiang has other women.

Anyway, Zhu Lin doesn't care about the body, she cares about the spirit.

Zhu Lin believes that she is the only one who can truly understand Cao Zhiqiang, so as long as their spirits are together, that is enough.

As for not marrying Cao Zhiqiang, Zhu Lin wants to protect Cao Zhiqiang and love Cao Zhiqiang.

After all, there is a big age difference between her and Cao Zhiqiang, and Zhu Lin has been married before and is currently married, so she cannot make her relationship with Cao Zhiqiang public, as that would be bad for both him and her.

In other words, originally it was Cao Zhiqiang who was comforting Zhu Lin, but later on, it was Zhu Lin who comforted Cao Zhiqiang and wanted to do his best to protect Cao Zhiqiang, leaving Cao Zhiqiang quite speechless.

It can only be said that Cao Zhiqiang still does not understand this era, let alone the three views of people in this era, especially the three views of highly educated people.

But no matter what, at least one thing is certain, that is, Zhu Lin can be considered settled here, and there is no need to worry about thunderstorms here.

Cao Zhiqiang couldn't help but secretly sigh, love makes people blind, it is true that sincerity cannot be deceived.

It turns out that in her previous life, the Kochi actress Zhu Lin, who seemed very cold and rational, turned out to be a love-minded person who likes to entertain her thoughts.

Therefore, many so-called personas may really be just false masks that everyone wants to see.

The so-called truth is often different from what everyone thinks.

Just like this Zhu Lin, without a deep understanding, how would you know that she is such a woman who likes to make up her mind and deceive herself?

Yes, in Cao Zhiqiang's opinion, Zhu Lin is actually deceiving himself and others.

Her so-called pursuit of love, freedom and pursuit of dreams are, to put it bluntly, wanting to live a better life, or in other words, pursuit of fame and fortune.

To put it bluntly, Zhu Lin is essentially a very utilitarian woman, but she hides this utilitarianism deeply and uses self-deception to turn her pursuit of fame and wealth into a dream.

of persistence.

So aside from the complicated appearance, Zhu Lin is willing to be close to Cao Zhiqiang because Cao Zhiqiang can give her what she wants, such as fame and fortune.

Once Cao Zhiqiang cannot give her what she wants, she will definitely leave him quickly.

It's just that in this era, this kind of woman who pursues fame and fortune is often not liked by others, and she even hates this kind of person herself, so she uses freedom, love, dreams and other things to package herself and numb herself.

But in essence, her utilitarianism is very strong, which is far from comparable to that of Wu Qinghong, Yu Yuanyuan and others.

Of course, from Cao Zhiqiang's point of view, he does not hate this kind of utilitarianism, but thinks that such utilitarian women are better.

Only those who are utilitarian will work harder, and why shouldn't he like a woman who likes to work hard and deceive herself?
Chapter completed!