Regarding Yu Lele's situation, a word immediately emerged in the teacher's mind: PTSD, which is the sequelae of post-traumatic stress disorder.
...
"…….No."
The old lady shook her head, "Lele..."
"I don't like going to the hospital."
"We don't want to force him."
That car accident and the month I was lying in the hospital later was a nightmare for the child.
At the worst, the child even wants to vomit when he smells the stinky water.
They feel sorry for such a child.
How can I bear to force my child?
...
"...We also feel that as time goes by... he will slowly accept the fact that his parents are no longer there."
Time will heal everything.
...
When the old lady said this, the teacher couldn't say anything to persuade her.
It is mainly because Yu Lele's past performance did not make her notice the abnormality.
If it weren't for today, she might have never discovered this sequelae of Yu Lele.
As a teacher, she felt that she was a little dereliction of duty.
...
What the old lady said... actually makes sense.
Time can heal everything.
Everything is short and fragile in the face of time...
...
Rather than making the child suffer now...
It is better to leave time to let the growing children realize this fact by themselves...
...
only……
The teacher was a little worried.
This is not without drawbacks.
if……
She said if...
No one tear apart the child's utopia and let the child indulge in it...
What should I do if I can't extricate myself?
I want to wake up again at that time...
But it's not easy.
No.
It is very difficult.
Almost impossible.
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“…It’s been two years since that incident…”
The teacher still expressed his concerns.
"Yu Lele hasn't understood yet..."
"You don't think this time..."
“Has it been too long?”
...
“…The child is still young.”
His lips stuttered a few times, and the old lady spoke quietly.
The child is still young...
I still don't understand the meaning of life and death.
He needs more time to understand and accept...
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"It's been two years."
Even though I knew that my words were not pleasing, the teacher still said it.
She was worried that the worst outcome would happen.
In order to prevent problems in the future, some ugly words must be said in the front.
"You know the longer the time goes on..."
The teacher took a deep breath.
"... Maybe what I'm waiting for is not his awakening..."
"But his..."
The teacher paused, she glanced at the child whose ears were covered, and then said, "It's stubborn."
"At that time, it's all you..."
"There is no way to wake him up."
"He is confident that his parents are still by his side, and he has penetrated his bones."
"Have you ever thought this is possible?"
...
The old lady's lips trembled.
She made no sound.
...
The old lady's appearance made the teacher feel a little reluctant.
She knew that the old man had endured too much.
The pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person is unimaginable.
This is another situation for the only grandson...
But long pain is worse than short pain.
"I suggest you..."
The teacher looked at the old lady seriously and said, "I'm looking for a day to take Yu Lele to see a psychologist."
"Leave professional things to professionals."
"Maybe things went well beyond your expectations."
"Only when Yu Lele realizes that his parents are gone, can he truly get out of the car accident that year."
"...You don't want your children to stay addicted to the past, right?"
...
The old lady pursed her lips.
Slowly, she nodded.
The old lady is always willing to believe the teacher's words.
only……
The situation of this child Lele is a bit special...
The old lady reached out and touched the child's head.
The soft touch of her under her hands did not make her feel better.
The old lady sometimes thinks...
Too difficult.
Why is her life so miserable...
The old lady lowered her eyes.
A tear fell down.
It's fleeting.
...
Xiao Xiao saw it clearly.
His brow frowned for a second.
...
After getting the other party’s nod, the teacher stopped talking.
She looked at the other children, "I don't need you to write a review letter."
Before a few children smiled, the teacher continued, "You apologize to Yu Lele."
...
"Why?"
A child blurted out.
Shouldn’t Yu Lele apologize to them?
Yu Lele's first move.
They are self-defense.
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"Have you forgotten what the teacher said to you before?"
The teacher's eyebrows were slightly locked and his face was serious.
"Have the teacher told you..."
The teacher lowered the volume, "Let you not ask Yu Lele to ask about his parents' affairs?"
"How did you do it?"
...
“That happened a long time ago…”
Guo Youning was a little angry, "Who still remembers something so far..."
...
"that is."
"How long has it been..."
The other two boys spoke one after another.
They are even less able to apologize to Yu Lele than writing a review letter.
Why?
They had to write a review letter before, but now they are the only one who apologized to Yu Lele.
"Yu Lele should apologize to us."
"He hurt us."
...
"Don't you hurt him too?"
The teacher shook his head slightly.
"You are wrong first..."
If Yu Lele didn't have that special situation, she would probably have beaten eighty-year-olds for these children.
A review letter passed.
But after knowing Yu Lele's special situation, she naturally would not do so.
From Yu Lele's perspective, his parents were very over-the-top or even vicious by several classmates.
It's still fake, rumor-mongering words.
Yu Lele's anger can be seen.
...
If so, she will take the water to treat it...
It's unfair to Yu Lele.
Yu Lele is afraid that he will be disappointed with her.
......
Several children still wanted to make excuses, but were caught by their mother.
"alright."
"Don't you just apologize?"
"What a small thing."
"Apologize to others quickly."
The child's mother pushed the child's shoulders.
The children also feel that they are reasonable. The children's mother is not in a thick-skinned enough and cannot let the children continue to argue with an orphan.
They were also a little angry.
"What are you talking about their parents?"
The teacher has also repeatedly told them that he should not raise any related topics in front of this classmate.
How did these kids do it?
Now, it’s time to be beaten, it’s a waste of time to be beaten.
I also have to apologize to others.
The main reason is that the three of them beat the other one...
No matter how you look at it, these children don’t care.
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Chapter completed!