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Chapter 608 Marriage is not in line with human nature

Xu Xingchen listened to Jack's explanation and fell into deep thought while eating.

Xu Xingchen has basically known what the ordinary family men in this world are in this society in the past few days.

Compared with those men from big families, they do not have any future in their careers without family help.

However, this is a problem from the perspective of men on earth. The male living conditions here are different from those on earth.

Most men in this world do not have the concept of career aspirations of people on earth. Jack can make money by opening a restaurant by himself, as few female bosses on earth.

The thing they think the most about is how to reproduce and be selected by the big family to sow seeds. It is what they most expect.

But that is hard to come by, and you have to rely on the ancestors to reward food - no, it should be the ancestors to reward food.

The jobs of ordinary men are mainly clerks, waiters, clerks, etc. There are also many people in the Cowherd shop, as well as a large number of workers who do not require physical strength.

Work that requires high-intensity physical strength, of course, men in this world can barely do it. They are generally stronger than men on earth, but women in this world are stronger.

The women here are not only strong in body, but also have stronger biomagnetic fields, stronger disease resistance and greater pain tolerance. Local men are almost completely defeated...

"Isn't this...isn't it somewhat similar to the women on Earth... Except for marrying and forming a fixed couple with a man..."

When Xu Xingchen thought about this, he instinctively had a question in his mind, a question that had been around since he learned about this female-dominated world.

"Since women are strong and men are weak, why is there no situation opposite to the earth? Why is there no men marrying into women's homes and forming a fixed couple?

"There was also polygamy in ancient times. There seemed to be no polygamy in the history of this world..."

With this doubt, Xu Xingchen sorted out his language a little, and used indirect ways to test Jack, a local man:

"Jack, if, I say, if, there is a woman with a slightly better condition than you, willing to establish a completely fixed social relationship with you.

"She promises that she will only marry you in the future, give birth to your children, and use her income to support your life.

"At the same time, you have to make a promise, and in the future you can only unite with her, just let her give birth to a child for you, and at the same time, you have to help her raise the child and let her concentrate on working.

"You will be fixed in a family life with only two of you and your children until you die.

"If there is such a social agreement, do you think you can accept it? Then can other ordinary boys accept it?"

Xu Xingchen tried hard to describe a relationship between men and women that was similar to the earth, which was reversed.

Xu Xingchen instinctively felt that this relatively stable relationship should be acceptable to ordinary people, right?

As a result, Jack was obviously stunned after hearing this, and then asked Xu Xingchen a little strangely:

"I'm sorry, have you not read the relevant historical records in the Mage Academy?"

Xu Xingchen was also obviously stunned. He subconsciously searched the database for information ships to collect electronic local information through the ship girls' network, and then quickly found the relevant records.

Xu Xingchen's current state is, checking these information is a matter of a moment. I feel that you can directly know the relevant content by scanning it.

Then Xu Xingchen became even more confused.

The situation I described myself has actually been organized in the history of this world, and it has been more than once.

But it was not maintained for a long time every time, and it ended in failure or in name only.

Even in the current law of the Mage Alliance, there are still relationships similar to those described, that is, marriage relationships in this world.

There is actually a saying in this world that marriage is not about marriage, but another local word that can correspond to marriage.

But ordinary people in this world don’t seem to be very interested in that kind of family structure.

In the general perception of most people, the family relationship of one-on-one loyalty is an ideal state that is beyond reach.

The comments of modern and ancient researchers in this world all say this model just like the Earth's Intner-Nair...

So...why?

If men on Earth are stronger, they can form a male-dominated couple family, and a stronger world for women. Why can't women-dominated couple family be formed?

Seeing Xu Xingchen falling into deep thought, Jack seemed to have thought of something, suddenly widened his eyes and asked in an incredible way:

"Brother... your focus is on this relationship. Are you really going to find a woman to spend your whole life? You even want to help raise your children?

"A small number of young people will have this idea when they are young and do not worry about things, and will pursue idealization. Although the country has indeed retained the saying of marriage, it is not the same as none...

"As a person who has experienced it, I still want to remind you with kindness. It is better to give up this unrealistic idea."

After hearing this, Xu Xingchen immediately asked curiously:

"So why not? Why can't everyone accept this relationship? Jack, can you explain it to me?"

When Jack heard Xu Xingchen's serious tone, he suddenly felt helpless.

After looking at the surroundings, he pinched the two crystals given by Xu Xingchen. Jack finally patiently and analyzed the unreasonableness of this relationship to this little brother:

"Marriage relationship seems beautiful, but it is actually completely unreasonable and does not conform to human nature at all.

"According to the statistics I have seen, among the upper class women, a few will have the idea of ​​registering marriage. Among the middle class elite women, more than half are willing to registering marriage, and among the lower class ordinary women, the vast majority want to registering marriage, but this has no meaning.

"Even if women are willing to register for marriage, it does not mean that they keep their promises, nor does it mean that they will not continue to marry other men and nurture other offspring.

"The law cannot prohibit this situation. Even if the middle and lower classes can be prohibited, the upper class cannot be prohibited. The atmosphere of the upper class will affect the entire society.

"Think about it, in a fixed family, most of the children are not the children of the husband, and even the children of the husband will not respect the father at home.

"In the upper-class female family, men will not have any right to speak. In the middle-class elite female family, they are at most deputy to female parents, and in the lower-class female family, they are equivalent to free labor.

"In that case, why should men restrain themselves to a woman? Instead of looking for more women and allowing more women to breed their offspring?

"So don't think about it all. The ancestors have given you food. Hurry up and go to the upper-class families to eat and drink, and then reproduce a large number of offspring, and spend your life comfortably."

Xu Xingchen listened to Jack's comfort and felt that he understood a little bit.

Marriage in this world is not exactly equivalent to marriage on earth, and they do not impose any constraints on loyalty.

It only expresses the existence of this state, which directly leads to the existence of the marriage relationship in name only.

At the same time, the existing social and cultural thoughts in this world have also made it difficult to establish such a relationship.

Women's way of thinking is close to that of females in nature. The original intention of choosing a spouse is to give birth to offspring, and for the sake of the excellence of offspring, she can choose for the rest of her life.

I am not good enough this time, so I will definitely change one next time. If I am good at this time, I want to change one better. The goal is not the highest, but the higher one.

The key is that if you want to get pregnant, it may only take a few days, luck or even a few minutes. Why do you have to raise this seed provider for a whole year or even a lifetime?

They can get very excellent male seeds at the cost they can bear, but there are many male seeds anyway.

But at the same price, or even a few hundred times higher, it is impossible to let such an excellent male accompany him for the rest of his life.

Men's way of thinking and life are also close to most male creatures in nature, and they only care about sowing and raising.

They are used to this kind of life and want to give up the women in the whole world, live specifically against a woman, and show her children. Of course they can't accept it...

As for letting women pay to raise them, males in nature can even give up their lives in order to sow seeds. What is the point of giving some money?

Xu Xingchen felt irritated. Can we form a universal marriage culture by forcibly implementing husband and wife responsibilities similar to the earth through absolute control of the grassroots level?
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